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The Ultimate Ranking of the 40 Best Indie Movies of All Time

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The Ultimate Ranking of the 40 Best Indie Movies of All Time

There are blockbusters and then there are indie films which work with a limited budget and are produced independently.

But let me tell you a secret: Indie films are often the better movies.

Enjoy my ranking of the 40 world’s best indie movies:

1. American Beauty

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    “I don’t think that there’s anything worse than being ordinary.” —Angela

    American Beauty was one of the many fantastic movies of the 90s. Director Sam Mendes captures the struggles of Lester Burnham, a father caught in a serious midlife crisis, his daughter Jane, who finds love for the first time, and her beautiful yet lonely best friend Angela, played by the stunning Mena Suvari. When everything falls apart, the characters and the watchers start to find beauty in the little things.

    2. The Breakfast Club

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      “When you grow up, your heart dies.” —Allison

      The Breakfast Club is an 80s classic. Five high school students who couldn’t be more different have to spend a Saturday detention session together. During this time they slowly find that apart from all their differences, they can connect on a deeper level. All five actors do a great job by first giving a cliché version of their characters and then turning them into human beings. Everyone—no matter what age—can learn something from these teenagers.

      3. The Perks of Being a Wallflower

        “We accept the love we think we deserve.” —Charlie

        Based on a novel, The Perks of Being a Wallflower follows emotional unstable Charlie through his first high school year. He soon becomes friends with a pretty girl named Sam and her gay half-brother Patrick. They teach Charlie that it’s okay to enjoy life and to forget your troubles for a while. This book adaption is starring Logan Lerman and Emma Watson, and not only will you realize that we all struggle with life once in a while, you will also learn a lot about music and real friendship.

        4. Factory Girl

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          “Divorced as many times as she married, she leaves only good wishes behind.” —Edie

          This indie film shows the life of fashion icon and Andy Warhol’s muse Edie Sedgwick. Edie travels to New York and leads a turbulent life in Warhol’s famous factory where art, love and lust play hand-in-hand. The movie captures Edie’s sparkling spirit and her tragic downfall in a way that will keep you on your toes until the very last minute.

          5. The Blair Witch Project

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            “It’s not the same on film, is it? I mean, you know it’s real but it’s like looking through the lens gives you some sort of protection from what’s on the other side.” —Joshua

            This horror movie terrifies its watchers because of the amateur filming which makes it seem like a real story. Three young movie makers set out into the woods to produce a documentation of the myth of the Blair Witch. Little do they know that the legend is still alive and waiting for its next victims. If you’re a friend of breathtaking and nightmare-producing movies, The Blair Witch Project by directors Daniel Myrick and Eduardo Sanchez is your way to go.

            6. Ramen Girl

              “Somewhere along the way, I just forgot what I wanted to do with my life.” —Abby

              In one of the last movies of the late Brittany Murphy, she portrays Abby who follows her boyfriend to Tokyo just to get dumped. In her crisis, Ally realizes that she has long given up going after her own dreams and decides to set herself a new goal: she wants to become a ramen cook. In this indie film by Robert Allen Ackerman. you can learn a lot about the Japanese culinary and spiritual world and see how it’s sometimes in your hardest times where you find your true strength.

              7. Ellie Parker

                “I remember when the future was a promise, now it’s like a threat.” —Ellie

                This is a widely un-known little independent movie by Scott Coffey staring Naomi Watts. As a young wannabe actress in LA, Ellie has to deal with many job rejections and a disastrous love life. The movie portrays LA and the movie industry as a tough business which will make even the biggest blockbuster fans see their stars in a different way.

                8. Pulp Fiction

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                  “Play with matches, you get burned.” —Vincent

                  This movie is a cult film. In Quentin Tarantino’s masterpiece, John Travolta, Samuel L. Jackson and Uma Thurman create a funny and exciting gangster comedy. The movie has many long dialogues, but Tarantino makes it work and ties all the different plot lines together for a spectacular finale. Seriously, if you have never watched this movie, do it now.

                  9. The Boat That Rocked

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                    “Nothing important dies tonight, just a few ugly guys on a crappy ship. The only sadness tonight is that, in future years, there’ll be so many fantastic songs that it will not be our privilege to play. But, believe you me, they will still be written, they will still be sung and they will be the wonder of the world.”  —The Count

                    This movie is guaranteed to make you laugh. Young Carl gets sent by his mother to live on a boat which hosts a pirate radio station. In the 60s, Rock’n’Roll was still frowned upon in Great Britain, which is why rock stations had to send from a secret frequency. On the Rock Boat live the funniest and craziest radio speakers who know how a lot about music and about having a good time.

                    10. Secretary

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                      “Who’s to say that love needs to be soft and gentle?!” —Dr. Twardon

                      This is a movie for those of you who like it sexy. When Lee starts her new job as a secretary, little does she know that her boss will soon not only be interested in her but also has some rather exquisite tastes in sexual adventures. Steven Shainberg’s erotic romance combines pleasure and pain in a classy way.

                      11. Requiem for a Dream

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                        “You’re the most beautiful girl in the world. You’re my dream.” —Harry

                        This famous indie film stars Jared Leto as a handsome but broken drug addict. Not only he but also his girlfriend, his best friend and his mother are caught in the downward spiral that is drug abuse. Requiem for a dream is a tough and often ugly but completely true movie. It will leave you with the need of never doing drugs.

                        12. Thirteen

                          “If everybody married someone from a different race, then in one generation there would be no prejudice.” —Tracy

                          Thirteen shows the life of normal but unhappy teenage girl, Tracy. When she meets the adventurous Evie, everything changes. For the first time in her life she is popular and cool and has fun. But her new lifestyle comes at a cost that will soon be to much for Tracy to pay.

                          13. Donnie Darko

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                            “Some people are just born with tragedy in their blood.” —Gretchen

                            Donnie Darko is a classic which combines romance, growing up and mystery. This indie film will make you want to watch it again and again, which is what you have to do in order to make sense of all the ambiguous events and plot twists of this movie.

                            14. The Virgin Suicides

                              “Obviously, Doctor… you’ve never been a thirteen-year-old girl.” —Cecelia

                              Based on a novel by Jeffrey Eugenides director Sophia Coppola made this story into a movie in 1999. The Lisbon daughters were raised as good catholic girls who were never allowed to live their lives like other teenagers do. The situation escalates when 14-year-old Lux stays away a whole night. The sisters are forbidden to leave the house and become more and more depressed until they make a tragic decision.

                              15. The Runaways

                                “No guys, man. I want to start an all-girls rock band.” —Joan

                                This 2010 american movie tells the story of the 80s girl-rock-band the Runaways. From fame, over music to drugs—the movie has everything a rock film should have. Kristen Stewart gives a great performance as rock-legend Joan Jett who became famous with her hit “I love Rock’n’Roll.”

                                16. Poison Ivy

                                  “She might have been even more alone than I was.” —Silvie

                                  One of Drew Barrymore’s many great movies tells the story of nice teenage girl Silvie. As soon as the wild girl Ivy enters her life, nothing is calm anymore but she finds herself caught in one big adventure.

                                  17. 500 Days of Summer

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                                    “People don’t realize this. But loneliness is underrated.” —Tom

                                    In this romantic comedy, Joseph-Gorden Levitt and Zoey Dechanel show a great performance. As Summer and Tom, they fall in love and spend a romantic few months together until things start to fall apart. Through this movie you can learn a lot about relationships as well as about commitment issues.

                                    18. Moonrise Kingdom

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                                      “I love you but you don’t know what you’re talking about.” —Sam

                                      At first sight you might think that Moonrise Kingdom is a children’s movie but I promise if you watch it you can learn a lot no matter how old you are. The movie shows the adventures at a scout summer camp and the beautiful friendship between Sam and Suzy.

                                      19. Run Lola Run

                                        “Man … probably the most mysterious specious on our planet.” —Narrator

                                        This is a fast independent movie which shows different possible versions of how the story might take place which all involve a lot of running. Run Lola Run is a German movie by director Tom Tyker which has become a must-watch for many film lovers.

                                        20. Being John Malkovitch

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                                          “Nobody’s looking for a puppeteer in today’s wintry economic climate.” —Craig

                                          This movie combines fantasy, comedy and drama while telling the crazy story of its unemployed anti-hero Craig. The plot line is well-written and the cast including John Cusack and Cameron Diaz all do a fantastic job.

                                          21. Reservoir Dogs

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                                            “It’s amusing to me, to torture a cop.” —Mr. Blonde

                                            Reservoir Dogs is another great Quentin Tarantino film featuring a crime story and many interesting dialogues. It is very popular and was even named “Greatest independent film of all time” by Empire magazine.

                                            22. Memento

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                                              “I have to believe in a world outside my own mind.” —Leonard

                                              This psycho thriller is very popular in the independent film scene. Memento is a little disturbing but fascinating. Half of the movie is black-and-white and shown chronologically, while the other half is colored and shown in reverse order. In the end, both plot lines are combined.

                                              23. The Meaning of Life

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                                                “Hindu, Taoist, Mormon spill theirs just anywhere, But God loves those who treat their semen with more care.” —Mum

                                                In this film, once again Monty Python captures the world in an honest though slightly confusing way. If you’re hoping to find answers to all of life’s big questions in this film, I have to disappoint you. But what you will find are a lot of laughter and sarcasm and a sense of the fact that even if life can be cruel, you should never take it too seriously.

                                                24. Brokeback Mountain

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                                                  “I wish I knew how to quit you.” -—Jack

                                                  This cult film is one of the first gay romances which is neither distasteful nor full of cliches. It tells the love story of Ennis and Jack, played by Heath Ledger and Jack Gyllenhaal, who flee to the lonely Brokeback Mountain because it’s the only place where they can celebrate their love.

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                                                  25. No Country for Old Men

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                                                    “A man would have to put his soul at hazard. He’d have to say: ‘O.K., I’ll be part of this world.'” —Sherrif Ed

                                                    This indie film is a western crime drama. The antagonist Anton is a serial murderer with mental issues. The conflicts between him and protagonist Sherrif Ed Tom Bell make the movie interesting. One thing you’ll learn from this movie is that nothing ever comes as you expect.

                                                    26. Before Sunrise

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                                                      “If there’s any kind of magic in this world, it must be in the attempt of understanding someone, sharing something. I know, it’s almost impossible to succeed, but…who cares, really? The answer must be in the attempt.” —Celine

                                                      Jesse and Celine meet each other on a train ride and decide to spend the night together in Vienna. They have a fun, crazy and romantic night but then have to go back to their own lives.

                                                      27. Before Sunset

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                                                        “Now I’m older and my problems are deeper, but I’m more equipped to handle them.” —Jesse

                                                        Also the second part of the heartbreaking love story is an ode to following your guts. Celine and Jesse meet each other for the first time in nine years and this time spend a day in Paris.

                                                        28. Juno

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                                                          “Can’t we just like kick this old school? You know, like I stick the baby in a basket, send it your way, like Moses and the reeds?” —Juno

                                                          This movie transforms the hard topic of teenage pregnancy into a funny and sweet experience. Regardless of the tough topic of the film, it leaves you with a warm feeling.

                                                          29. Happiness

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                                                            “I know who you are and you are nothing.” —Allen

                                                            Despite the title, this movie shows the lives of several pretty miserable people who sooner or later find some happiness even if it’s small and unconventional. I have to warn you. This movie is only suited for people with a dark humor.

                                                            30. Texas Chainsaw Massacre

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                                                              “But had they lived very, very long lives, they could not have expected, nor would they have wished to see as much of the mad and macabre as they were to see that day.” —Narrator

                                                              Also an independent movie, this film is nothing for people with weak nerves. Director Tobe Hooper’s classic slasher film is a raw and pure horror movie and ideal for a scary night with your friends.

                                                              31. Submarine

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                                                                “Sometimes I wish there was a film crew following my every move.” —Oliver

                                                                After Texas Chainsaw Massacre I recommend watching Submarine in order to calm your nerves before you go to sleep.

                                                                32. The Science of Sleep

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                                                                  “Things will turn out the way you want, if you could just stop doubting that I love you.” —Stephanie

                                                                  In this movie you can learn a lot about dreams. The main character Stephane’s dreams are so vivid that they interfere with his real life. This french fantasy story is a definite feel-good movie.

                                                                  33. Lost in Translation

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                                                                    “My Japanese is getting better. We started speaking English.” —Bob

                                                                    This film, starring Bill Murray and Scarlet Johanson, is directed by Sofia Coppola. Charlotte has travelled with her husband to Tokyo but is soon left alone by him. A romance between Charlotte and Bob starts and the watcher gets an impression of Tokyo’s exciting and sometimes hilarious atmosphere.

                                                                    34. The Usual Suspects

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                                                                      “I’m the guy that’s gonna get you. I just wanted you to know that.” —Michael

                                                                      The usual suspects is a crime thriller which shows how a bunch of elderly gangsters get along. This film is widely popular but started out as a little independent film.

                                                                      35. Life of Brian

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                                                                        “Always look on the bright side of life.” —Jesus

                                                                        This is another Monty Python cult film which features in a humorous way the life of Jesus Christ. Though this movie will make most people laugh out loud, extremly religious people would do better if they stayed far away from it.

                                                                        36. The Terminator

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                                                                          “You seemed just a little sad. I used to always wonder what you were thinking at that moment. I memorized every line, every curve… I came across time for you, Sarah. I love you. I always have.” —Kyle

                                                                          You may not believe it but the series that made Arnold Schwatzenegger famous started as an indie film. So if you’re into machines and wars and strong guys, you should definitely try out Terminator.

                                                                          37. Little Miss Sunshine

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                                                                            “Luck is the name losers give to their own failings.” —Richard

                                                                            Here is another feel-good movie. The movie of a funny road trip is the debut film of Jonathan Dayton and Valerie Faris and had its premiere at the Sundance Film Festival in 2006. It quickly became popular.

                                                                            38. Night of the Living Dead

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                                                                              “Don’t you know what’s goin’ on out there? This is no Sunday School picnic!” —Ben

                                                                              Night of the Living Dead is a plain and good zombie movie from the 60s. While the technology wasn’t that advanced back then, it still offers many good scares.

                                                                              39. Stranger than Paradise

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                                                                                “I’m choking the alligator.” —Eva

                                                                                Stranger than Paradise is a comedy from the 80s which revolves around Willie, Evy and Eddie and their crazy adventures in New York.

                                                                                40. Sex, Lies, and Videotape

                                                                                  “I remember reading somewhere that men learn to love the person that they’re attracted to, and that women become more and more attracted to the person that they love.” —Graham

                                                                                  In this classic independent fill, all three aspects of the title are combined in a beautiful but also dramatic way. The movie was directed by Steven Sonderbergh and has won the Golden Palm at the 1989 Cannes Film Festival.

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                                                                                  21 Best Tips On Making A Long Distance Relationship Work

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                                                                                  21 Best Tips On Making A Long Distance Relationship Work

                                                                                  Having texting and video conferencing at our fingertips, it appears that maintaining a long-distance relationship is easier than ever. Long-distance calls are no longer a luxury; the days when they needed to be rationed are long gone.

                                                                                  Long-distance couples do not have to depend on 3 p.m. postal delivery, waiting for news that is at best four days old.

                                                                                  Now we’re no longer even in the days of waiting for our loved ones to check their e-mail when they get home from work. Instant messaging keeps us hooked to each other even when we are out shopping, working, playing, watching a movie and doing much more.

                                                                                  Technology, however, cannot compensate for everything in a long-distance relationship, as anyone with a long-distance relationship will tell you.

                                                                                  Many long-distance relationships still seem emotionally difficult despite the lack of regular physical proximity.

                                                                                  People often think long-distance relationships will never work. It may be discouraged by your family, and some of your best friends may tell you not to take it too seriously in case you end up heartbroken.

                                                                                  Many things are not possible due to the extra distance – no one can promise it will be easy. Things could get complicated, and you might feel lonely and sad at times.

                                                                                  Still, many of us try them.

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                                                                                  However, the extra distance also makes the simplest things the sweetest. Being able to hold the other person’s hand, eating together at the same table, feeling each other’s touch, taking a walk together, smelling each other’s hair… these small wishes could suddenly mean so much more in a long-distance relationship.

                                                                                  Long-distance relationships may be tough, but they have their own surprises too.

                                                                                  Here’re 21 tips on how to make a long distance relationship work:

                                                                                  1. Avoid excessive communication.

                                                                                  It is unwise to be overly “sticky” and possessive. You two don’t really have to communicate 12 hours a day to keep the relationship going. Many couples think that they need to compensate for the distance by doing more. This is not true. And it might only make things worse. Soon you would get tired of “loving.”

                                                                                  Remember: Less is more. It is not about spamming — you are only going to exhaust yourselves. It’s really about teasing at the right moments and tugging at the right spots.

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                                                                                  2. See it as an opportunity.

                                                                                  “If you want to live together, you first need to learn how to live apart.” – Anonymous

                                                                                  View it as a learning journey for both of you. This is an opportunity for you to prove your love for one another. According to a Chinese proverb, “Real gold is not afraid of the test of fire.” Instead of thinking that this long-distance relationship is pulling you two apart, you should believe that through this experience, the both of you will be bound together even stronger.

                                                                                  As Emma says it to Will in season four of Glee,

                                                                                  “I would rather be here, far from you, but feeling really close, rather than close to you but feeling really far away.” – Emma, Glee Season 4

                                                                                  3. Set some ground rules to manage your expectations.

                                                                                  Both of you need to be clear with what you expect of each other during this long-distance relationship. Set some ground rules so that none of you will do things that will take the other party by surprise.

                                                                                  For instance, are you two exclusive? Is it all right for the other person to go on dates? What is your commitment level? It’s better to be open with each other about all these things.

                                                                                  4. Try to communicate regularly, and creatively.

                                                                                  Greet each other “good morning” and “good night” every day — this is a must. On top of that, try to update your partner on your life and its happenings, however mundane some of the things may seem.

                                                                                  To up the game, send each other pictures, audio clips, and short videos from time to time. By putting in this kind of effort, you make the other person feel loved and attended to.

                                                                                  5. Talk dirty with each other.

                                                                                  Sexual tension is undoubtedly one of the most important things between couples. In a way, sexual desire is like the glue that keeps both parties from drifting apart. Sexual need is not only biological but also emotional.

                                                                                  Keep the flames burning by sending each other teasing texts filled with sexual innuendos and provocative descriptions. Sexy puns work pretty well too.

                                                                                  6. Avoid “dangerous” situations.

                                                                                  If you already know that going to the club or going drinking with your group of friends late at night will displease your partner, then you should either 1. Not do it or 2. Tell your partner beforehand to reassure them.

                                                                                  You should not let this sort of thing slip by because it will only make your partner extra worried or suspicious – and of course, very upset because they will feel powerless or lack control over the situation.

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                                                                                  You can fall victim to your traps by going out with eye candy from work after work or dating someone from your past who has been flirting with you without realizing it. Before entering a dangerous situation, you need to recognize the dangers.

                                                                                  Listen to your heart, but don’t just rely on it. Make sure you also listen to your mind.

                                                                                  7. Do things together.

                                                                                  Play a game online together. Watch a documentary at the same time on YouTube or Vimeo. Share a song on Skype while another plays the guitar. Video-call each other and go for a walk together. Together, go online shopping – and buy each other gifts (see #13).

                                                                                  You really have to be creative and spontaneous about it.

                                                                                  8. Do similar things.

                                                                                  Recommend books, TV shows, movies, music, news and etc., to each other. When you read, watch and listen to the same things, you get to have more topics in common to talk about.

                                                                                  Even if you live apart, it’s nice to have some shared experiences.

                                                                                  9. Make visits to each other.

                                                                                  Every long-distance relationship is enriched by visits.

                                                                                  After all the waiting and yearning and abstinence, you finally get to meet each other to fulfil all the little things like kissing, holding hands, etc. These are typical for couples in long-distance relationships but more special and intimate for long-distance couples.

                                                                                  The atmosphere will be filled with fireworks, glitter bombs, confetti, rainbows, and butterflies.

                                                                                  10. Have a goal in mind.

                                                                                  Are we going to be apart for a long time?” “what about the future?” These are the questions you should ask yourselves.

                                                                                  In fact, a couple cannot stay in a long-distance relationship forever. Eventually, we all need to settle down.

                                                                                  So make a plan with each other. Set up a timeline, mark down the estimated times apart and times together, and draw an end goal.

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                                                                                  It is important that you two are on the same page and have the same goals. So that even if you are not living in the same space and the same timezone, both of you are still motivated to work together in the same direction towards a future that includes one another.

                                                                                  That’s right, you need some motivation to make a relationship last too. Find out more about what motivates you here.

                                                                                  11. Enjoy your alone time and your time with your friends and family.

                                                                                  You are alone, but you are not lonely unless you choose to feel like it. You don’t have to let your world revolve around your partner — you still have you, your friends, and your family. Take this time apart to do more with your friends and family. Go to the gym more often. Get a new hobby. Binge-watch shows. There are plenty of things for you to do that don’t involve your partner.

                                                                                  12. Stay honest with each other.

                                                                                  Talk about your feelings of fear, insecurity, jealousy, apathy, whatsoever. If you try to hide anything from your partner, that secret will sooner or later swallow you up from the inside out. Don’t try to deal with things all by yourself. Be open and honest with each other. Let your partner help you and give you the support you need. It’s better to look at the problem during its initial stage than to only disclose it when it’s all too late.

                                                                                  13. Know each other’s schedules.

                                                                                  It’s helpful to know when the other person is busy and free. So that you can drop a text or make a call at the right time. You wouldn’t want to disturb your partner when they are in the middle of class or halfway through a business meeting. Make sure you are aware of everyone’s small and big events in their lives, i.e., college midterms and exams, important business trips and meetings, job interviews, etc. Particularly if you live in different time zones, this becomes more important.

                                                                                  14. Keep track of each other’s social media activities.

                                                                                  Facebook and Instagram photos of each other. Send each other tweets. Tag each other on Facebook. Post stuff on each other’s wall. Let them know you care. Be cool with stalking each other.

                                                                                  15. Gift a personal object for the other person to hold on to.

                                                                                  Memories have power. No matter what it is–a pendant, a ring, a keychain, a collection of songs and videos, or a perfume bottle. Everyday items and things have meanings to us, whether we realize it or not. We all try to store memories in material things so that when our minds fail, we will still be able to look at or hold onto something that will help us recall our memories. This is why something so simple can mean so much to a person when others may see little or no value in it.

                                                                                  16. Get a good messaging app.

                                                                                  This is extremely important because texting is the most frequent and common way of communication the two of you have. You need a good messaging app on your phones that allows interactions beyond words and emoticons.

                                                                                  Personally, I use this messaging app called LINE. I find it highly effective because it has a huge reserve of playful and very funny “stickers” that are free for its users to use. You can also go to the app’s “Sticker Shop” to download (or gift!) extra stickers of different themes (e.g., Hello Kitty, Pokemon, Snoopy, MARVEL, etc.) at a low price. Occasionally, the app will give out free sticker sets for promotions. This messaging app is cute and easy to learn to use.

                                                                                  17. Snail-mail your gift.

                                                                                  Mail each other postcards and hand-written love letters. Send each other gifts across the globe from time to time. Flower deliveries on birthdays, anniversaries, and Valentine’s Day. Shop online and surprise each other with cool T-shirts, sexy underwear, and such.

                                                                                  18. Stay positive.

                                                                                  You need to constantly inject positive energy into the long-distance relationship to keep it alive. Yes, the waiting can be painful, and you can sometimes feel lonely, but you need to remind yourself that the fruits at the end will be sweet as heaven.

                                                                                  One good trick to staying positive is to be grateful all the time. Be thankful that you have someone to love — someone who also loves you back. Be thankful for the little things, like the hand-made letter that arrived safely in your mailbox the other day. Be thankful for each other’s health and safety.

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                                                                                  19. Keep each other updated on each other’s friends and family.

                                                                                  This will help you two to know each other’s culture and values. Knowing small habits of each other helps in developing an understanding and building mutual trust.

                                                                                  Talking about family and friends gives you more matters to talk about. The best thing to talk about is gossip and scandals.

                                                                                  20. Video-call whenever possible.

                                                                                  Because sometimes looking into each other’s eyes and hearing each other’s voices can make everything feel alright again.

                                                                                  A video call is though nothing like being together, but it’s the best thing and the most to do for coziness in a long-distance relationship.

                                                                                  21. Give each other pet names.

                                                                                  Because it’s cute. It keeps the lovey-dovey going. Having special names for each other reserved only for one another are heart-warming. Hearing that one word with love lifts our spirits up, and we feel assured all over again.

                                                                                  Chaos seems to fade away just by hearing that special word from someone special.

                                                                                  With the best wishes…

                                                                                  Love (or like) is a force that is beyond your control. Love just happens. The same goes for turning off those feelings, even when you get the perfect job halfway across the country.

                                                                                  Neither one of us expects to be long-distance in a relationship. But if you’re in a relationship like this, you’ll just have to make the most out of a difficult situation. These advice for long distance relationships will hopefully help you stay strong and cheerful when living apart from one another.

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                                                                                  • Randy Skilton —  An educator in the areas of relationships and self-help

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