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5 Ways To Bring Happiness and Fulfillment Into Your Life

5 Ways To Bring Happiness and Fulfillment Into Your Life

The purpose of our entire life could be summed up into one accurate word — happiness. Why you’ve not found happiness may be unexplainable, but finding and unlocking the secret to true and lasting happiness is a duty we all owe ourselves. According to research, only one in three Americans say they are very happy.

Fulfillment in life will always bring happiness, but how do you attain fulfillment? This article will be sharing ways to stay happy and fulfilled.

1. Remind yourself of things that make you happy

For many of us, some of the things and people in our lives are what makes us happy. It could be the smile on the face of a loved one or the conversations you have with your significant other. This makes it possible for you to look within your circle to find the happiness that you seek. Reminding yourself that you have these beautiful people in your life will keep you fulfilled when you’re experiencing depression and letdown. Depression particularly depletes your energy and focus – leading many people to make mistakes that often cost them their loved ones.

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“Depressed drivers are most prone to road accidents,” says Jimmy Doan, a Houston accident truck lawyer. He has handled a lot of cases involving truck accidents (the accident type that takes the most lives on American roads), and he believes depression is one of the leading causes of accidents involving truck drivers.

Being able to find a way to fight depression and keep your mood light always will help you avoid a lot of human-errors and stay fulfilled. Keeping your mind on the joy that your loved ones bring you is certainly one of the best ways to stay happy and fulfilled.

2. Keep your focus on your life goals

People often get depressed when they stop focusing on their main goals and let distractions occupy their minds. Realizing that you can achieve your goals and make whatever dream you set your mind on become a reality, will help you stay fulfilled.

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Experts recommend celebrating every little wins on your way to success. This means you should stop beating yourself up whenever you think you’ve not achieved your goals, but to take time and celebrate the small steps you’ve successfully completed. Keeping your focus on your life goals and celebrating every little win will help you stay happier and fulfilled.

3. Only spend time with people that make your happy

The people we surround ourselves with can impact our mood significantly. This means you have to cut off communications with those that constantly let you down by injecting negativity into your life.

It’s true that you can’t make everybody happy. That said, you can’t be friends with everyone either. Only spend time with those people in your life that go out of their way to make you happy, and you’ll see how much your mood improves. Spending time with positive minded people is key to fulfillment and happiness.

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4. Seek the happiness of others

When we go out of our way to make others happy, the positive effect rubs off on us. According to a Harvard research, doing things that make other people happy such as spending money on them will always have a positive effect on our happiness.

Just make time out of your day and take someone out for a cup of coffee. This will have more impact on your entire day than you imagine.

5. Stop taking yourself too seriously

Do you often find that you criticize yourself too much? We’re humans and that means we will make a couple of mistakes every now and then. That doesn’t mean you should spend time wishing you had done things differently. Rather look at the fun side of it and make fun of yourself. Not taking yourself too seriously can help you fight stress and keep you in a lighter mood.

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Staying happy and fulfilled always is not out of reach for anyone. We only need to discover the things we could do to help us stay happy and spend more time doing these things.

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Last Updated on March 23, 2021

Manage Your Energy so You Can Manage Your Time

Manage Your Energy so You Can Manage Your Time

One of the greatest ironies of this age is that while various gadgets like smartphones and netbooks allow you to multitask, it seems that you never manage to get things done. You are caught in the busyness trap. There’s just too much work to do in one day that sometimes you end up exhausted with half-finished tasks.

The problem lies in how to keep our energy level high to ensure that you finish at least one of your most important tasks for the day. There’s just not enough hours in a day and it’s not possible to be productive the whole time.

You need more than time management. You need energy management

1. Dispel the idea that you need to be a “morning person” to be productive

How many times have you heard (or read) this advice – wake up early so that you can do all the tasks at hand. There’s nothing wrong with that advice. It’s actually reeks of good common sense – start early, finish early. The thing is that technique alone won’t work with everyone. Especially not with people who are not morning larks.

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I should know because I was once deluded with the idea that I will be more productive if I get out of bed by 6 a.m. Like most of you Lifehackers, I’m always on the lookout for productivity hacks because I have a lot of things in my plate. I’m working full time as an editor for a news agency, while at the same time tending to my side business as a content marketing strategist. I’m also a travel blogger and oh yeah, I forgot, I also have a life.

I read a lot of productivity books and blogs looking for ways to make the most of my 24 hours. Most stories on productivity stress waking up early. So I did – and I was a major failure in that department – both in waking up early and finishing early.

2. Determine your “peak hours”

Energy management begins with looking for your most productive hours in a day. Getting attuned to your body clock won’t happen instantly but there’s a way around it.

Monitor your working habits for one week and list down the time when you managed to do the most work. Take note also of what you feel during those hours – do you feel energized or lethargic? Monitor this and you will find a pattern later on.

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My experiment with being a morning lark proved that ignoring my body clock and just doing it by disciplining myself to wake up before 8 a.m. will push me to be more productive. I thought that by writing blog posts and other reports in the morning that I would be finished by noon and use my lunch break for a quick gym session. That never happened. I was sleepy, distracted and couldn’t write jack before 10 a.m.

In fact that was one experiment that I shouldn’t have tried because I should know better. After all, I’ve been writing for a living for the last 15 years, and I have observed time and again that I write more –and better – in the afternoon and in evenings after supper. I’m a night owl. I might as well, accept it and work around it.

Just recently, I was so fired up by a certain idea that – even if I’m back home tired from work – I took out my netbook, wrote and published a 600-word blog post by 11 p.m. This is a bit extreme and one of my rare outbursts of energy, but it works for me.

3. Block those high-energy hours

Once you have a sense of that high-energy time, you can then mold your schedule so that your other less important tasks will be scheduled either before or after this designated productive time.

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Block them out in your calendar and use the high-energy hours for your high priority tasks – especially those that require more of your mental energy and focus. You also need to use these hours to any task that will bring you closer to you life’s goal.

If you are a morning person, you might want to schedule most business meetings before lunch time as it’s important to keep your mind sharp and focused. But nothing is set in stone. Sometimes you have to sacrifice those productive hours to attend to other personal stuff – like if you or your family members are sick or if you have to attend your son’s graduation.

That said, just remember to keep those productive times on your calendar. You may allow for some exemptions but stick to that schedule as much as possible.

There’s no right or wrong way of using this energy management technique because everything depends on your own personal circumstances. What you need to remember is that you have to accept what works for you – and not what other productivity gurus say you should do.

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Understanding your own body clock is the key to time management. Without it, you end up exhausted chasing a never-ending cycle of tasks and frustrations.

Featured photo credit: Collin Hardy via unsplash.com

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