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Pregnancy At Week 17

Pregnancy At Week 17

What Vegetable Is My Baby The Size Of At Week 17?

Your baby is now the size of a turnip — that is, about 5 inches and 5 ounces. Wow, compared to where we started, that baby is really growing!

What Are The Changes My Baby Has Going On?

They can move their joints and their sweat glands are starting to develop. Aww, your sweet little baby is going to have stinky sweat some day!

What Changes Is Mom Going Through?

At this point, you might start to feel off-balance. As your baby belly starts to grow, your center of gravity is going to change a little. While you adjust to this, you might feel a little bit clumsy. Try to avoid doing things that might result in injury — you know, like walking on stilts. Some women feel more comfortable switching to low-heeled shoes at this point. A fall could result in harm done, and the stakes are a little higher now that you’re carrying a baby along with you.

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When you are buckling your seatbelt upon getting into your car, make sure the lap belt goes underneath the belly and the shoulder part should go between your breasts.

For some reason, some women find their eyes are drier during this time. Over-the-counter drops for lubrication should do the trick. If you wear contacts, giving your eyes a longer break might be helpful.

What Are Your Dreams Telling You?

Have some doozy dreams lately? That happens a lot for women during pregnancy.

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Some interesting facts: During pregnancy, you spend less time in REM sleep (the time when you dream), so it’s interesting that women have more dream activity. It’s hypothesized that this may be due to the frequent waking. It allows you to remember your dreams better. Therefore, you aren’t necessarily having more dreams or crazier dreams, but you are waking up so frequently during them that you are actually able to recall them. Things that may be causing those disturbances in the ol’ sleeping patterns include having to pee, backaches, heartburn, leg cramps, and legs that are restless. Also, it’s guessed that the emotions are so heightened during this time that your dreams may be reflecting this as well.

Below are some dream scenarios that are outlined by Patricia Garfield in her book Women’s Bodies Women’s Dreams.

Caring for baby animals: Friendly critters in your dreams, like fluffy chicks, kittens, and puppies, might signify that you are tuning into your motherly instincts. Less-friendly critters might represent some hesitation about the new phase of your life. Both seem about equally normal for what’s going on.

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Sexy time with an ex: You may be worried about your sex life after the baby comes, or you may be feeling sexy with the changes happening in your body. There is some comfort and reassurance in these dreams for you concerning your changing body. The ex is less important in the dream as a person — it’s more like you are returning to a time when you really felt you were desirable.

Cheating significant other: You may be worried about holding the attention of your mate. You might fear losing some of the attention and love that you are used to. This could be something to discuss with your partner if this seems likely. The relationship will likely change after the baby, but there will be a new sense of normal and a new love that develops.

Activities To Try At Week 17

Try making a baby name list. Make a list of 10 names that you like and see if your partner will list 10 that they like. Trade lists and “X” out the ones you cannot live with. Then, watch the debates begin. You might discover how many people you know that are jerks once you start crossing off names because you “knew someone one time that had that name and they were pretty rude.” Some people have rules, like no names of former girlfriends or boyfriends. It’s probably not a good idea to use the name of household pets, simply to avoid confusion. Now would be a fun time to discuss that and see what will work for you and your partner.

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Another activity to try is to keep a dream journal and record the craziest dreams that you have had. This could be interesting later on to see if you got the gender of the baby correct in your dream or if there was some other detail you dreamed that your baby had after it was born. Did the baby have blonde curls and blue eyes? Or green eyes and brown hair?

For more information about this and other weeks of pregnancy, please go to this website. Also, look into the forums there to connect to other moms (or soon-to-be moms!).

Featured photo credit: Phalinn Ooi via creativecommons.org

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Published on April 9, 2021

50 Single Mom Quotes On Staying Strong And Loving

50 Single Mom Quotes On Staying Strong And Loving

Being a mom is not easy. Being a single mom is even more challenging. Having children means you are on the job 24/7. Even while you are sleeping, you are still ready to wake at the slightest peep because that is what moms do.

Moms, especially single moms, need more people cheering them on. Your love and care matter to your kids. You are their superhero. I think single moms are superheroes, too.

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The quotes below are words of encouragement for all of the single moms out there. Keep up the great work! Your hard work will pay off. Someday, they will be grown up and living on their own. Your job will never truly be done as a mom, but you can pat yourself on the back today and every day for doing mom duty day in and day out.

Here are 50 single mom quotes to encourage all the single moms out there.

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  1. “Being raised by a single mother, I learned to appreciate and value independent women.”—Kenny Conley
  2. “As a single mum you’ll discover inner strengths and capabilities you never knew you had.”—Emma-Louise Smith
  3. “One thing I know for sure – this motherhood thing is not for sissies.”—Jennifer Nettles
  4. “Mothers and their children are in a category all their own. There’s no bond so strong in the entire world. No love so instantaneous and forgiving.”—Gail Tsukiyama
  5. “And one day she discovered that she was fierce and strong, and full of fire and that not even she could hold herself back because her passion burned brighter than her fears.”—Mark Anthony
  6. “She never quite leaves her children at home, even when she doesn’t take them along.”—Margaret Culkin Banning
  7. “The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.”—Alice Walker
  8. “Everyone has inside of her a piece of good news. The good news is that you don’t know how great you can be, how much you can love, what you can accomplish, and what your potential is.”—Anne Frank
  9. “Doubt is a killer. You just have to know who you are and what you stand for.”—Jennifer Lopez
  10. “You are more powerful than you know; you are beautiful just as you are.”—Melissa Etheridge
  11. “Motherhood is the greatest thing and the hardest thing.”—Ricki Lake
  12. “You don’t take a class; you’re thrown into motherhood and learn from experience.”—Jennie Finch
  13. “If you look at what you have in life, you’ll always have more. If you look at what you don’t have in life, you’ll never have enough.”—Oprah Winfrey
  14. “I am no bird; and no net ensnares me: I am a free human being with an independent will.”—Charlotte Brontë
  15. “Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim.”—Nora Ephron
  16. “When a woman becomes her own best friend life is easier.”—Diane Von Furstenberg
  17. “If you want something said, ask a man; if you want something done, ask a woman.”—Margaret Thatcher
  18. “Women have discovered that they cannot rely on men’s chivalry to give them justice.”—Helen Keller
  19. “Successful mothers are not the ones that have never struggled. They are the ones that never give up, despite the struggles.”—Sharon Jaynes
  20. “Success, they taught me, is built on the foundation of courage, hard work, and individual responsibility. Despite what some would have us believe, success is not built on resentment and fears.”—Susana Martinez
  21. “You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”—Maya Angelou
  22. “The question isn’t who’s going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me.”—Ayn Rand
  23. “God could not be everywhere, and therefore he made mothers.”—Rudyard Kipling
  24. “The women whom I love and admire for their strength and grace did not get that way because stuff worked out. They got that way because stuff went wrong, and they handled it. They handled it in a thousand different ways on a thousand different days, but they handled it. Those women are my superheroes.”—Elizabeth Gilbert
  25. “There will be so many times you feel like you failed. But in the eyes, ears, and mind of your child, you are a SUPER MOM.”—Stephanie Precourt
  26. “Motherhood is the ultimate call to sacrifice.”—Wangechi Mutu
  27. “We may encounter many defeats but we must not be defeated.”—Maya Angelou
  28. “A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone else’s.”—Princess Diana
  29. “There’s no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one.”—Jill Churchill
  30. “There’s no doubt that motherhood is the best thing in my life. It’s all that really matters.”—Courtney Cox
  31. “I realized when you look at your mother, you are looking at the purest love you will ever know.”—Mitch Albom
  32. “I have found being a mother has made me emotionally raw in many situations. Your heart is beating outside your body when you have a baby.”—Kate Beckinsale
  33. “Single moms, you are a doctor, a teacher, a nurse, a maid, a cook, a referee, a heroine, a provider, a defender, a protector, a true Superwoman. Wear your cape proudly.”—Mandy Hale
  34. “I’m not really single. I mean, I am, but I have a son. Being a single mother is different from being a single woman.”—Kate Hudson
  35. “Being a single parent is twice the work, twice the stress, and twice the tears but also twice the hugs, twice the love, and twice the pride.”—Unknown
  36. “For me, motherhood is learning about the strengths I didn’t know I had, and dealing with the fears I didn’t know existed.”—Halle Berry
  37. “A single mom tries when things are hard. She never gives up. She believes in her family, even when things are tough. She knows that above all things… a mother’s love is more than enough.”—Denice Williams
  38. “You do the best you can. Some days you feel really good about yourself and some days you don’t.”—Katie Holmes
  39. “I would say to any single parent currently feeling the weight of stereotype or stigmatization that I am prouder of my years as a single mother than of any other part of my life.”JK Rowling
  40. “Just because I am a single mother doesn’t mean I cannot be a success.”—Yvonne Kaloki
  41. “I didn’t plan on being a single mom, but you have to deal with the cards you are dealt the best way you can.”—Tichina Arnold
  42. “Nothing you do for children is ever wasted.”—Garrison Keillor
  43. “A single mom tries when things are hard. She never gives up. She believes in her family, even when things are tough. She knows that above all things, a mother’s love is more than enough.”—Deniece Williams
  44. “Motherhood has a very humanizing effect. Everything gets reduced to essentials.”—Meryl Streep
  45. “Having kids—the responsibility of rearing good, kind, ethical, responsible human beings—is the biggest job anyone can embark on.”—Maria Shriver
  46. “Mother is a verb. It’s something you do. Not just who you are.”—Cheryl Lacey Donovan
  47. “A mother’s love for her child is like nothing else in the world. It knows no law, no pity, it dates all things and crushes down remorselessly all that stands in its path.”—Agatha Christie
  48. “A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone else’s.”—Princess Diana
  49. “The hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world.”—W.R. Wallace
  50. “Being a mother is the greatest blessing and the hardest challenge in all of life.”—Dr. Magdalena Battles

Final Thoughts

Single moms are remarkable women. They are to be respected and honored for all that they do. If you know a single mom, then share this article with them. Tell them “you are doing a great job as a single mom.” They need our encouragement and support.

They may be parenting alone, but it is good to let them know that there are people in their life who care for them. We can all be there for the single moms out there. Even if it is just to say, “keep up the great work, you are an amazing woman!”

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If you are a single mom, keep up the good work! You are amazing, and your kids are lucky to have you!

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