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10 Reasons Nurses Make Great Partners

10 Reasons Nurses Make Great Partners

Nurses are known for their caring nature, extensive medical knowledge, and ability to solve complex issues quickly. They may not get as much credit as doctors, but they are often doing as much (if not more) to contribute to a patient’s well-being. Unsurprisingly, a nurse’s caring nature carries over to their home life as well as their relationships. Here are a few reasons why nurses not only make great professionals, but excellent partners as well.

1. They have a high level of endurance

Working long shifts while attending to numerous patients make nurses great at facing any personal problems they might encounter at home. It’s great to have a partner by your side who is not willing to give up easily and is in it for the long haul.

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2. They have an extensive medical background

Being a nurse means dealing with many different medical situations, big and small. Having a partner with this wealth of knowledge is ideal, because they can help take care of you in all but the worst situations. There might even be a time when they save your life.

3. They understand the necessity of check-ups

A nurse understands how important it is to be vigilant about your health and to go to all of your annual check-ups. It might be easy letting your annual exams slip your mind, but having a partner that insists that you go on-time is a real blessing and will help you stay healthy for the rest of your life.

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4. They are great listeners

Successful nurses need to be good listeners. Having a partner that takes the time to really comprehend what you are saying is essential to communication, which is a key building block to a healthy, happy relationship.

5. They are great teammates

Working long shifts with other nurses requires solid teamwork. There may be disagreements and personality clashes, but in the end all nurses understand that personal issues need to be put aside to make sure that their patients are properly cared for. This makes nurses great team players at home.

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6. They have a good sense of humor

Nurses encounter many things at work they often wish they didn’t have to see. Humor is one of the many ways that nurses deal with these uncomfortable situations. This is important for any relationship, because the difficult moments you will face together as a couple will always go easier with little bit of humor.

7. They aren’t squeamish

Nurses deal with bodily fluids all the time, and can bear (almost) any squeamish situation. Having a partner that is fine with a little blood is a keeper, because they won’t freak out when life inevitably gets a little messy.

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8. They know when to be concerned

Having dealt with their fair share of medical emergencies, nurses know when a situation is dire and when it is not. It’s important to have a partner who has this outlook in life, because drama is the last thing you need in your relationship.

9. They are financially sound

Nurses often make a average salary of $65, 470, a respectable amount of money that allows them to lead a comfortable and independent lifestyle. This is great for a relationship, because between both your salaries you will not have the burden of financial stress weighing you down.

10. They are able to operate on little sleep

Nurses often are used to working long hours, including working through the night across 12-hour shifts. This is especially useful if you decide to have children. Caring for a newborn means finding little sleep, and having someone who is able to function in this state is a valuable partner to keep around.

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Last Updated on November 15, 2018

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

What do you think it takes to achieve your goals? Hard work? Lots of actions? While these are paramount to becoming successful in reaching our goals, neither of these are possible without a positive mindset.

As humans, we naturally tend to lean towards a negative outlook when it comes to our hopes and dreams. We are prone to believing that we have limitations either from within ourselves or from external forces keeping us from truly getting to where we want to be in life. Our tendency to think that we’ll “believe it when we see it” suggests that our mindsets are focused on our goals not really being attainable until they’ve been achieved. The problem with this is that this common mindset fuels our limiting beliefs and shows a lack of faith in ourselves.

The Success Mindset

Success in achieving our goals comes down to a ‘success mindset’. Successful mindsets are those focused on victory, based on positive mental attitudes, empowering inclinations and good habits. Acquiring a success mindset is the sure-fire way to dramatically increase your chance to achieve your goals.

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The idea that achieving our goals comes down to our habits and actions is actually a typical type of mindset that misses a crucial point; that our mindset is, in fact, the determiner of our energy and what actions we take. A negative mindset will tend to create negative actions and similarly if we have a mindset that will only set into action once we see ‘proof’ that our goals are achievable, then the road will be much longer and arduous. This is why, instead of thinking “I’ll believe it when I see it”, a success mindset will think “I’ll see it when I believe it.”

The Placebo Effect and What It Shows Us About The Power of Mindset

The placebo effect is a perfect example of how mindset really can be powerful. In scientific trials, a group of participants were told they received medication that will heal an ailment but were actually given a sugar pill that does nothing (the placebo). Yet after the trial the participants believed it’s had a positive effect – sometimes even cured their ailment even though nothing has changed. This is the power of mindset.

How do we apply this to our goals? Well, when we set goals and dreams how often do we really believe they’ll come to fruition? Have absolute faith that they can be achieved? Have a complete unwavering expectation? Most of us don’t because we hold on to negative mindsets and limiting beliefs about ourselves that stop us from fully believing we are capable or that it’s at all possible. We tend to listen to the opinions of others despite them misaligning with our own or bow to societal pressures that make us believe we should think and act a certain way. There are many reasons why we possess these types of mindsets but a success mindset can be achieved.

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How To Create a Success Mindset

People with success mindsets have a particular way of perceiving things. They have positive outlooks and are able to put faith fully in their ability to succeed. With that in mind, here are a few ways that can turn a negative mindset into a successful one.

1. A Success Mindset Comes From a Growth Mindset

How does a mindset even manifest itself? It comes from the way you talk to yourself in the privacy of your own head. Realising this will go a long way towards noticing how you speak to yourself and others around you. If it’s mainly negative language you use when you talk about your goals and aspirations then this is an example of a fixed mindset.

A negative mindset brings with it a huge number of limiting beliefs. It creates a fixed mindset – one that can’t see beyond it’s own limitations. A growth mindset sees these limitations and looks beyond them – it finds ways to overcome obstacles and believes that this will result in success. When you think of your goal, a fixed mindset may think “what if I fail?” A growth mindset would look at the same goal and think “failures happen but that doesn’t mean I won’t be successful.”

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There’s a lot of power in changing your perspective.

2. Look For The Successes

It’s really important to get your mind focused on positive aspects of your goal. Finding inspiration through others can be really uplifting and keep you on track with developing your success mindset; reinforcing your belief that your dreams can be achieved. Find people that you can talk with about how they achieved their goals and seek out and surround yourself with positive people. This is crucial if you’re learning to develop a positive mindset.

3. Eliminate Negativity

You can come up against a lot of negativity sometimes either through other people or within yourself. Understanding that other people’s negative opinions are created through their own fears and limiting beliefs will go a long way in sustaining your success mindset. But for a lot of us, negative chatter can come from within and these usually manifest as negative words such as can’t, won’t, shouldn’t. Sometimes, when we think of how we’re going to achieve our goals, statements in our minds come out as negative absolutes: ‘It never works out for me’ or ‘I always fail.’

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When you notice these coming up you need to turn them around with ‘It always works out for me!’ and ‘I never fail!’ The trick is to believe it no matter what’s happened in the past. Remember that every new day is a clean slate and for you to adjust your mindset.

4. Create a Vision

Envisioning your end goal and seeing it in your mind is an important trait of a success mindset. Allowing ourselves to imagine our success creates a powerful excitement that shouldn’t be underestimated. When our brain becomes excited at the thought of achieving our goals, we become more committed, work harder towards achieving it and more likely to do whatever it takes to make it happen.

If this involves creating a vision board that you can look at to remind yourself every day then go for it. Small techniques like this go a long way in sustaining your success mindset and shouldn’t be dismissed.

An Inspirational Story…

For centuries experts said that running a mile in under 4 minutes was humanly impossible. On the 6th May 1954, Rodger Bannister did just that. As part of his training, Bannister relentlessly visualised the achievement, believing he could accomplish what everyone said wasn’t possible…and he did it.

What’s more amazing is that, as soon as Bannister achieved the 4-minute mile, more and more people also achieved it. How was this possible after so many years of no one achieving it? Because in people’s minds it was suddenly possible – once people knew that it was achievable it created a mindset of success and now, after over fifty years since Bannister did the ‘impossible’, his record has been lowered by 17 seconds – the power of the success mindset!

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