
Some people think that life balance is a thing of luxury, something you pursue when times are good…that we should work like dogs to remain indispensable in this unpredictable economy. But wait a sec. Weren’t we were already working like dogs, before we added in the fear of losing our jobs? Here’s what got me going on this subject:
In the post Keep Your Job: A 10-Point Survival Guide at CNNMoney/Fortune, Anne Fisher quoted some sobering numbers:
According to a poll by the Society for Human Resource Management 60% [of US employers] plan to cut headcount. Challenger Gray & Christmas, a Chicago-based outplacement firm that closely tracks layoff statistics, predicts 1 million more pink slips in 2009, and says the job market may not bounce back until 2011.
She goes on to share 10 excellent points offered up by executive coach Deb Bright but #7 made me gulp:
For now, forget about work-life balance. A major preoccupation when the economy was humming along nicely, “having time for outside interests has to go right out the window now,” says Bright. “You need to concentrate on doing whatever it takes to make yourself indispensable.”
If you’re listening with one ear, it might sound like logical advice, but a little trickster lives inside that suggestion. Work-life balance isn’t solely about balancing work and play. It’s about how you work, what you value, finding ways to match your values to your employer’s values, and accomplishing workplace goals with clarity and finesse.
In contrast, here’s what FedEx Kinko’s employees found out about themselves thanks to DM News and the Work-Life Balancing Act:
Nearly half – 47% – of those polled in FedEx Office’s Finding Better Balance survey say finding a better work/life balance is even more important to them in 2009, compared to last year.
The survey, released today, queried 501 full-time, U.S. workers. Among 18- to 34-year-olds, 58% believe it will be more important to find better work/life balance in 2009, compared to 46% of those age 35 to 54, and just 30% for the 50-and-over group. In addition, 86% say they plan to actively pursue this better balance this year.
“As we start a new year, it’s common for employees to take stock of the last 12 months and evaluate their priorities at home and in the office,” said Tracy Brightman, senior vice president of human resources for FedEx Office (formerly FedEx/Kinko’s), in a statement. “Proper work/life balance is a key factor in employee satisfaction and productivity.”
Among those surveyed, 49% said they planned to take advantage of all vacation time in the new year; 44% said they would prioritize projects, and 42% said they would create a weekly to-do list; 41% said they would leave work at a reasonable hour and 36% said they planned to take lunch breaks on a consistent basis.
Lack of Balance Adds Pounds to Your Body, Mind and Spirit
Forgetting about balance is rooted in fear. And I’m guessing that a large proportion of people recently laid off we’re working like dogs to be indispensable. With so many more people on the brink of losing their jobs, fear needs balance to be a useful emotion.
If you’ve been working hard at becoming indispensable, it’s likely that you’re working late, powering through lunch, skipping workouts, ditching networking and playing with friends. You’re probably also missing soccer games and not too thrilled about doing homework with your kids, not to mention being coherent enough to perk up your resume and research possible career opportunities. If this is true for you, you’re going to be scrambling to make up for lost time if you lose your job.
Living in balance in a down economy is essential, not only for your wellbeing outside of work, but to assure you remain agile and flexible and capable of making good, values-based decisions in and about your work. As an example, if you were interested in maintaining a competitive advantage and being in shape to meet the next opportunity with confidence, wouldn’t working out make great sense? Who feels agile and flexible and confident with 20 or 30 extra pounds? And what about the burden of weight you’ll carry in your mind and spirit?
Work smart and strategically. Make sure what you choose to say yes to at work serves the company’s larger goals and your career goals. Less is more. And the only time more is more is when it’s more of less.
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This one really hit home, with all the fear out there, we are (where I work) are working out ways of making things better for employees, not trying to squeeze out every last erg of productivity. It is still the happy employee that will give you the best returns, managers (and that includes me, I manage 17 people directly) needs to remember this always.
Happy people = productive workforce
the manager that forgets that, is in for a bad time.
my 2 cents
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Here a few thought I had when reading this article that might help to get a better work-life balance:
At work
- Manage your time
- Learn to say no
- Focus on outcome
At home
- Take care of yourself. Take time out.
- Make time with friends and family at
least as important as a work task
- Exercise regularly
And most important. HAVE FUN ONCE IN WHILE :-)
See ya, Mike
I read that Fisher article and balked at the advice to forget Work/Life Balance. If I am not already indispensable at my company, turning myself into a miserable person with no life outside of work certainly isn’t going to help the situation. My company values its employees and has policies in place to promote a work/life balance. I don’t think anyone here is advocating moving backward in that regard.
I’ve given up the very notion a “work” life and some “other life.” It is all my life and it is one life. I work when my children are present so they can see that work can be fun and rewarding. I play when I’m working. I’m publishing a post about this very subject tomorrow. I think the work-life paradigm is an old industrial age paradigm that should be tossed.
@Michelle, so glad for your comment. Seems to me a strategic move for managers/employees is to focus on simplifying and prioritizing. Work smarter, not harder.
@Steve, I couldn’t agree more. My son has two models in our household: me, with a working structure that sounds a lot like yours, and dad, who works 12 hours a day. He’s smart and I have no doubt he’ll choose well.
the idea of ditching work life balance in order to succeed in keeping down your job is a crazy strategy. Anyone who considers work life balance an either/or decision has missed the point. 12 hours a day IS your life its not just work. Our roles outside of the work place are equally as important during tougher times, think about your family and friends and what they need from you as well as your so called ‘career’ or ‘job’
@Mike, Dan and Greg: Glad to see we’re having the same thoughts…and thanks for the tips.
I think that summarizes how at least 90% of people feel these days, yet few are actually willing to take action and start a home-based business or blog about something they enjoy and run that hobby like a business.
Worrying will only get you so far, right?
This is a great topic and I believe that lots of people are struggling with work life balance. Whenever one is fearful of unemployment and start to forgo their work life balance, things may start to crumble in their life. Do not let fear to control what you are doing, staying positive and focus on providing value will be adequate.
Cheers
Vincent
Personal Development Blogger
Since going self-employed in the middle of last year (walking out of a well-paid job) , everyone says how much happier I look. The firm I left asked me back to do consultancy work for a few months and, with my new perspective on life, I saw in my ex-colleagues’ faces how miserable they are – constantly driven by impossible targets for insufficient remuneration. Add to this recent reports that UK workers do the highest amount of unpaid overtime … Your post is spot on!
It is currently 20:16 and I am still in the office faced with an unsumountable amount of tasks to do before tomorrow. I am currently in the lowest position of a medium sized communications agency in the media and split across three divisions as I’m the only person at my level.
I have recently had a pay rise of 4.75% and i’m grateful for this in the current economic climate. I am not particularly well paid in the first place, it should be added, for a university graduate in an industry that can pay well.
I can not find a way of getting around this challenge as things stand. I can’t leave my job for fear of not being able to get a new one and may subsequently lose my flat, yet I feel undervalued and underpaid. It is common that I will be the last person to leave our office as i have a mountain of jobs that need to be done. This is, i hope, not a reflection on management skills as I am efficient and effective in my output.
I would dearly love to not be in a position where i have to remain at work for hours more than I am being paid, but I am the ‘safe pair of hands’ for each team and as a result it is difficult to say no to extra jobs being thrown my way.
Your post is spot on, for me at least, not a reality.
@Disgruntled, you, I think, may be the poster child for what I’m talking about. I’m so sorry you’re experiencing such a challenge. If you haven’t requested a meeting with your manager to “triage” your priorities, I certainly would. And if you could inch your way backwards on the leaving time (start with 15 minutes earlier tomorrow, and 15 minutes earlier the next day…and so on) you might have some energy leftover for getting your resume in order and taking a look out there for what’s next. This is not a sustainable situation…but just take some small steps in the right direction.
Always saying “yes” to your job won’t necessarily help you keep that job. My group recently laid off 4 people – 2 of whom were just back from a month’s long project in Canada (we’re based in the southeast US). Working several months in a different country and only coming home every other weekend = no work/life balance. And yet these employees were still laid off. Take care of yourself because corporations won’t do it for you – especially in this economy!
I recently told my non-profit org that I would only work the hours that I am paid for. If something absolutely needs to be done I will need compensation or they will need to find someone else to do it. Now I am poor and happy rather than poor and overworked!
@Stuart, yes! What a great, empowering example you are.
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@Lisa Thanks for the well-written article and the encouragement!
I do think that the economic climate has resulted in some employees feeling that work has to be their number one priority. And in some cases, this is probably a smart decision. However I would encourage employers to support employees with their work-life issues, as research indicates that stress and overwork lowers performance and productivity. In a time when organizations are doing more with less, I would think that would want the best from their employees – this can often be achieved when workers can exercise, eat a meal with their family and get enough sleep. See our Overwork Effective Workplace Series for more at: http://wfnetwork.bc.edu/pdfs/EWS_Overwork.pdf
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I work for a company that sells trucks and vans, and i’ve found that a work-life balance is more important than ever…in some industries, even if you are indispensible to your company, this still doesnt make your job secure. the most important thing is making sure if you do lose your job, you have the support you need to get through it, and that doesnt come from living in your office.
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