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Where’s the boss?

Where’s the boss?

There is a new boogeyman striking fear into top executives.

In the past decade managers have gotten pretty well brainwashed in their hero-worship of the caped crusader called Empowerment. They know it’s a good thing to strive for in their organizations. They even understand that their own work-life balance depends on it. They realize that only by driving decision-making authority as far down the hierarchy as possible will they themselves enjoy a good life as they finally get to work on some other cool things.

Trouble is, while managers learned the what and the why about empowerment, they didn’t pay enough attention to the how to go about delivering it to their organizations. That is, except for the part about avoiding the boogeyman like you’d avoid the plague. Who is this boogeyman? He’s called micro-management.

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I continue to see this very alarming trend where top executives are not involved enough in day-to-day operations under the ignoble guise of not being a boss who micro-manages. As a result, they have become so detached and out of the mainstream consciousness of their companies, they may as well take a permanent vacation. No one would notice.

However what we are noticing, is that at the other extreme of micro-managing, is this very large, very hollow leadership void being created, a proverbial black hole of despair. As executives focus on new product development, and adapting or growing their business models in our brave new world, they leave their operational bread and butter processes floundering at the hands of mid-level managers who are not yet equipped for their roles. Mentorship has been abandoned, and dismissed as something superfluous if you espouse the ideal of empowerment instead.

Huh? How did we get this misguided notion that empowerment was some magic elixir?

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Thanks in part to Thomas L. Friedman and his legions of admirers, ‘flattening’ is the new buzzword of the day, and in addition to the “Globalization 3.0” flattening of which Friedman speaks, organizational hierarchies are again coming under fire. Paper placemats of horizontal org charts are available for doodling in every HR lunchroom on the planet; those inverted triangles never made much sense to us anyway… smashing them down and flattening everything out is way easier.

But guess what folks, with all of this Learning 101, Web 2.0, Globalization 3.0, and Life A-Z happening in our world, we need managers more than ever before.

We just need them doing the right things. Like delivering worthwhile work to us in everyday examples that are close to home. Close to us.

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Every single day, people at all levels of organizations are asking me, via the Managing with Aloha coaching programs, to “tell my boss why we need him/her to _________.” They fill in the blank with all sorts of requests.

They want the boss back; they want a strategy-mapping, consistently driving, objective, organized, and predictable boss with an inspiring vision and championship team mission. They want high expectations, they want direction, they want leadership, and they want coaching and mentorship.

So if you’re the boss, check back in, would you? You’ve been missed.

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Rosa Say is the author of Managing with Aloha, Bringing Hawaii’s Universal Values to the Art of Business and the Talking Story blog. She is the founder and head coach of Say Leadership Coaching, a company dedicated to bringing nobility to the working arts of management and leadership. For more of her ideas, click to her Thursday columns in the archives, or download her manifesto: Managing with Aloha, on ChangeThis.com.

Rosa’s Previous Thursday Column was: Discover your 4-Fold Capacity.

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How to Find Your Entrepreneurial Passion and Purpose

How to Find Your Entrepreneurial Passion and Purpose

I wrote a few articles about starting a business based on something you love doing and are passionate about. I received several responses from people saying they weren’t sure how to go about figuring out what they were most passionate about or how to find their true purpose. So I’m dedicating this article to these issues — how to find your entrepreneurial passion and purpose.

When I work with a new client, the first thing we talk about is lifestyle design. I ask each client, “What do you want your life to look like?” If you designed a business without answering this question, you could create a nice, profitable business that is completely incompatible with your goals in life. You’d be making money, but you’d probably be miserable.

When you’re looking for your life purpose, lifestyle design isn’t a crucial component. However, since we’re talking about entrepreneurial purpose, lifestyle design is indeed crucial to building a business that you’ll enjoy and truly be passionate about.

For example, say you want to spend more time at home with your family. Would you be happy with a business that kept you in an office or out of town much of the time? On the flip side, if you wanted to travel and see the world, how well could you accomplish that goal if your business required your presence, day in and day out, to survive? So start by getting some clarity on your personal goals and spend some time working on designing your life.

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At this point, you may need a little prodding, and you may want to hire a coach or mentor to work with you through this process. Many people are very used to the idea that there is a particular way a life “should” be. There are certain milestones most people tend to live by, and if you don’t meet those markers when or in the manner you’re “supposed” to meet them, that can cause some anxiety.

Here’s how to find your passion and purpose:

Give Yourself Permission to Dream a Little

Remember that this is your life and you can live it however you choose. Call it meditation or fantasy, but let your imagination run here. And answer this question:

“If you had no fears or financial limitations, what would your ideal life, one in which you could be totally content and happy, look like?”

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Once you’ve figured out your lifestyle design, it’s time to do a little more soul-searching to figure out what you’re truly passionate about. This is a time to really look within and look back.

Specifically, look back over your life history. When were you the happiest? What did you enjoy doing the most? Remember that what you’re looking for doesn’t necessarily have to be an entire job, but can actually be aspects of your past jobs or hobbies that you’ve really enjoyed.

Think About a Larger Life Purpose

Many successful entrepreneurs have earned their place in history by setting out to make a difference in the world. Is there a specific issue or cause that is important to you or that you’re particularly passionate about?

For some, this process of discovery may come easily. You may go through these questions and thought experiments and find the answers quickly. For others, it may be more difficult. In some cases, you may suffer from a generalized lack of passion and purpose in your life.

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Sometimes, this can come from having suppressed passion in your life for too long. Sometimes, it can come from eating poorly and lack of exercise. But occasionally, it may have something to do with your internal chemistry or programming. If the latter applies to you, it may be useful for you to seek help in the form of a coach, mentor, or counselor.

In other cases, not knowing your true purpose may be a matter of having not discovered it yet: you may not have found anything that makes your heart beat faster. If this is the case, now is the time to explore!

The Internet is a fantastic tool for learning and exploration. Search hobbies and careers and learn as much as you can about any topic that triggers your interest, then follow up at the library on the things that really intrigue you. Again, remember that this is your life and only you can give yourself permission to explore all that the world has available to you.

How Do You Know When You’ve Found Your True Entrepreneurial Purpose?

I can only tell you how I knew when I had discovered my own — it didn’t hit me like a ton of bricks. Rather, it settled over me, bringing a deep sense of peace and commitment. It felt like I had arrived home and knew exactly what to do and how to proceed.

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Everything flowed easily from that point forward. That’s not to say that I found success immediately after that moment. But rather, the path ahead of me was clear, so I knew what to do.

Decisions were easier and came faster to me. And success has come on MY terms, according to my own definitions of what success means to me in my own lifestyle design.

Dig deep, look within, and seek whatever help you need. Once you find that purpose and passion, your life — not just your entrepreneurial life, but your entire life — will never be the same.

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