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Where’s the boss?

Where’s the boss?

There is a new boogeyman striking fear into top executives.

In the past decade managers have gotten pretty well brainwashed in their hero-worship of the caped crusader called Empowerment. They know it’s a good thing to strive for in their organizations. They even understand that their own work-life balance depends on it. They realize that only by driving decision-making authority as far down the hierarchy as possible will they themselves enjoy a good life as they finally get to work on some other cool things.

Trouble is, while managers learned the what and the why about empowerment, they didn’t pay enough attention to the how to go about delivering it to their organizations. That is, except for the part about avoiding the boogeyman like you’d avoid the plague. Who is this boogeyman? He’s called micro-management.

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I continue to see this very alarming trend where top executives are not involved enough in day-to-day operations under the ignoble guise of not being a boss who micro-manages. As a result, they have become so detached and out of the mainstream consciousness of their companies, they may as well take a permanent vacation. No one would notice.

However what we are noticing, is that at the other extreme of micro-managing, is this very large, very hollow leadership void being created, a proverbial black hole of despair. As executives focus on new product development, and adapting or growing their business models in our brave new world, they leave their operational bread and butter processes floundering at the hands of mid-level managers who are not yet equipped for their roles. Mentorship has been abandoned, and dismissed as something superfluous if you espouse the ideal of empowerment instead.

Huh? How did we get this misguided notion that empowerment was some magic elixir?

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Thanks in part to Thomas L. Friedman and his legions of admirers, ‘flattening’ is the new buzzword of the day, and in addition to the “Globalization 3.0” flattening of which Friedman speaks, organizational hierarchies are again coming under fire. Paper placemats of horizontal org charts are available for doodling in every HR lunchroom on the planet; those inverted triangles never made much sense to us anyway… smashing them down and flattening everything out is way easier.

But guess what folks, with all of this Learning 101, Web 2.0, Globalization 3.0, and Life A-Z happening in our world, we need managers more than ever before.

We just need them doing the right things. Like delivering worthwhile work to us in everyday examples that are close to home. Close to us.

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Every single day, people at all levels of organizations are asking me, via the Managing with Aloha coaching programs, to “tell my boss why we need him/her to _________.” They fill in the blank with all sorts of requests.

They want the boss back; they want a strategy-mapping, consistently driving, objective, organized, and predictable boss with an inspiring vision and championship team mission. They want high expectations, they want direction, they want leadership, and they want coaching and mentorship.

So if you’re the boss, check back in, would you? You’ve been missed.

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Rosa Say is the author of Managing with Aloha, Bringing Hawaii’s Universal Values to the Art of Business and the Talking Story blog. She is the founder and head coach of Say Leadership Coaching, a company dedicated to bringing nobility to the working arts of management and leadership. For more of her ideas, click to her Thursday columns in the archives, or download her manifesto: Managing with Aloha, on ChangeThis.com.

Rosa’s Previous Thursday Column was: Discover your 4-Fold Capacity.

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Last Updated on August 20, 2018

Quit Your Job If You Don’t Like It, No Matter What

Quit Your Job If You Don’t Like It, No Matter What

Do you know that feeling? The one where you have to wake up to go to your boring 9-5 job to work with the same boring colleagues who don’t appreciate what you do.

I do, and that’s why I’ve decided to quit my job and follow my passion. This, however, requires a solid plan and some guts.

The one who perseveres doesn’t always win. Sometimes life has more to offer when you quit your current job. Yes, I know. It’s overwhelming and scary.

People who quit are often seen as ‘losers’. They say: “You should finish what you’ve started”.

I know like no other that quitting your job can be very stressful. A dozen questions come up when you’re thinking about quitting your job, most starting with: What if?

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“What if I don’t find a job I love and regret quitting my current job?”
“What if I can’t find another job and I get in debt because I can’t pay my bills?”
“What if my family and friends judge me and disapprove of the decisions I make?”
“What if I quit my job to pursue my dream, but I fail?

After all, if you admit to the truth of your surroundings, you’re forced to acknowledge that you’ve made a wrong decision by choosing your current job. But don’t forget that quitting certain things in life can be the path to your success!

One of my favorite quotes by Henry Ford:

If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got.

Everything takes energy

Everything you do in life takes energy. It takes energy to participate in your weekly activities. It takes energy to commute to work every day. It takes energy to organize your sister’s big wedding.

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Each of the responsibilities we have take a little bit of our energy. We only have a certain amount of energy a day, so we have to spend it wisely.  Same goes for our time. The only things we can’t buy in this world are time and energy. Yes, you could buy an energy drink, but will it feel the same as eight hours of sleep? Will it be as healthy?

The more stress there is in your life, the less focus you have. This will weaken your results.

Find something that is worth doing

Do you have to quit every time the going gets touch? Absolutely not! You should quit when you’ve put everything you’ve got into something, but don’t see a bright future in it.

When you do something you love and that has purpose in your life, you should push through and give everything you have.

I find star athletes very inspiring. They don’t quit till they step on that stage to receive their hard earned gold medal. From the start, they know how much work its going to take and what they have to sacrifice.

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When you do something you’re really passionate about, you’re not in a downward spiral. Before you even start you can already see the finish line. The more focus you have for something, the faster you’ll reach the finish.

It is definitely possible to spend your valuable time on something you love and earn money doing it. You just have to find out how — by doing enough research.

Other excuses I often hear are:

“But I have my wife and kids, who is going to pay the bills?”
“I don’t have time for that, I’m too busy with… stuff” (Like watching TV for 2 hours every day.)
“At least I get the same paycheck every month if I work for a boss.”
“Quitting my job is too much risk with this crisis.”

I understand those points. But if you’ve never tried it, you’ll never know how it could be. The fear of failure keeps people from stepping out of their comfort zone.

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I’ve heard many people say, “I work to let my children make their dream come true”. I think they should rephrase that sentence to: “I pursue my dreams — to inspire and show my children anything is possible.” 

Conclusion

Think carefully about what you spend your time on. Don’t waste it on things that don’t brighten your future. Instead, search for opportunities. And come up with a solid plan before you take any impulsive actions.

Only good things happen outside of your comfort zone.

Do you dare to quit your job for more success in life?

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