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7 WARNING Signs You Chose the Wrong Job

7 WARNING Signs You Chose the Wrong Job

Remember the good old days when you first started your job?

It was exciting right? You were just happy to end the dredge of filling out applications and interviewing non-stop.  You could finally relax a little and start focusing on your work.

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    Now 6, 12, 20 months have passed…and the honeymoon is over.  You’re immersed in the job and can now see it for what it is, free from the rose colored glasses you began with. Maybe the culture is stone cold and you don’t really feel like you fit in or maybe some of the promises you were told before you started the job, have now been forgotten.

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    Whatever the case, you don’t want to crawl back to the job search market…unless you are certain this job isn’t going to work out.

    So what are the signs to look out for?

    1. Your Potential is Being Wasted

    About 17% of the U.S. population is classified as underemployed.  I can imagine that number only grows if you look world wide.

    The recession unfortunately caused many qualified workers to take jobs below their potential in order to make ends meet.  If this was a temporary set back, it wouldn’t be such a big deal.  But for many of you, the job you initially took as a bootstrap, is now looking like your new future.  Just look at this poor girl’s story on Reddit.

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    2. The Industry is Dying

    My good friend and co worker Michelle used to work in the propane industry.  Several years back, she started wondering how much longer a career in this field could go on…so she started looking into a job at Qualcomm (just a startup back then).  Soon after, she landed the job and got into a hot career all because she recognized a dying industry and left before it was too late.

    Like the propane field in Michelle’s story, today we have equivalent industry’s to worry about (newspapers and electronic stores for example.)  Sometimes it’s hard to leave an industry you love, but do you go down with the ship or explore what’s on the horizon?

    3. You Feel Like a Different Person at Work

    Many times a job can put you in uncomfortable positions.  When I was in sales, it took incredible energy to be the aggressive, “don’t take no for an answer” kind of person my boss wanted.  At home I was always the easy going guy, looking to make things easier for everyone else.

    Well that “energy” you spend doing your work in a way that falls outside your natural tendencies leads to stress, burnout, and unhappiness.  Sure, everyone will have to do some things outside their comfort zone, but doing this on a daily basis is a recipe for disaster.

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    4. You Are Taking More Sick Days

    Research has shown that unhappy employees take an average of 15 more sick days a year than happy employees.

    If you find yourself using up more sick days, you might wonder if the job is the cause.

    5. You Stopped Learning

    In the predigital age, it was found that 70 percent of your learning came from on the job training itself.  Today that numbers fallen to 10%.

    With globalization and a shifting economy, learning is not a commodity to be taken lightly.  If you’ve stopped learning new skills in your job, you’re limiting how competitive you can be in the job market.

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    6. The Only Difference Between Last Year’s Resume and This Year’s is the Time on the Job

    Every year you should think of what milestones occurred in the last 12 months that  you can add to your resume.

    If you are drawing blanks on what you accomplished last year, it might be time to move on.

    7. The Only Reward is the Money

    As a career coach, the first thing I ask the readers on my site is what their biggest career challenge is.  We have hundreds of subscribers and not once have we heard that money was the challenge.

    In fact, our most engaged readers often share that they in fact get paid well but feel trapped, stressed out, or just lack the motivation they used to have for their job.

    Farnoosh on an earlier article at Lifehack shares the same feelings, “Let’s face it: the money is nice and there is nothing wrong with loving the money. But if you only do it for the money, then you are in the wrong job.”

    Any of these warning signs resonating with you?  If so share in the comments below.

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    Last Updated on December 1, 2020

    How to Find Your Entrepreneurial Passion and Purpose

    How to Find Your Entrepreneurial Passion and Purpose

    I wrote a few articles about starting a business based on something you love doing and are passionate about. I received several responses from people saying they weren’t sure how to go about figuring out what they were most passionate about or how to find their true purpose. So I’m dedicating this article to these issues — how to find your entrepreneurial passion and purpose.

    When I work with a new client, the first thing we talk about is lifestyle design. I ask each client, “What do you want your life to look like?” If you designed a business without answering this question, you could create a nice, profitable business that is completely incompatible with your goals in life. You’d be making money, but you’d probably be miserable.

    When you’re looking for your life purpose, lifestyle design isn’t a crucial component. However, since we’re talking about entrepreneurial purpose, lifestyle design is indeed crucial to building a business that you’ll enjoy and truly be passionate about.

    For example, say you want to spend more time at home with your family. Would you be happy with a business that kept you in an office or out of town much of the time? On the flip side, if you wanted to travel and see the world, how well could you accomplish that goal if your business required your presence, day in and day out, to survive? So start by getting some clarity on your personal goals and spend some time working on designing your life.

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    At this point, you may need a little prodding, and you may want to hire a coach or mentor to work with you through this process. Many people are very used to the idea that there is a particular way a life “should” be. There are certain milestones most people tend to live by, and if you don’t meet those markers when or in the manner you’re “supposed” to meet them, that can cause some anxiety.

    Here’s how to find your passion and purpose:

    Give Yourself Permission to Dream a Little

    Remember that this is your life and you can live it however you choose. Call it meditation or fantasy, but let your imagination run here. And answer this question:

    “If you had no fears or financial limitations, what would your ideal life, one in which you could be totally content and happy, look like?”

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    Once you’ve figured out your lifestyle design, it’s time to do a little more soul-searching to figure out what you’re truly passionate about. This is a time to really look within and look back.

    Specifically, look back over your life history. When were you the happiest? What did you enjoy doing the most? Remember that what you’re looking for doesn’t necessarily have to be an entire job, but can actually be aspects of your past jobs or hobbies that you’ve really enjoyed.

    Think About a Larger Life Purpose

    Many successful entrepreneurs have earned their place in history by setting out to make a difference in the world. Is there a specific issue or cause that is important to you or that you’re particularly passionate about?

    For some, this process of discovery may come easily. You may go through these questions and thought experiments and find the answers quickly. For others, it may be more difficult. In some cases, you may suffer from a generalized lack of passion and purpose in your life.

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    Sometimes, this can come from having suppressed passion in your life for too long. Sometimes, it can come from eating poorly and lack of exercise. But occasionally, it may have something to do with your internal chemistry or programming. If the latter applies to you, it may be useful for you to seek help in the form of a coach, mentor, or counselor.

    In other cases, not knowing your true purpose may be a matter of having not discovered it yet: you may not have found anything that makes your heart beat faster. If this is the case, now is the time to explore!

    The Internet is a fantastic tool for learning and exploration. Search hobbies and careers and learn as much as you can about any topic that triggers your interest, then follow up at the library on the things that really intrigue you. Again, remember that this is your life and only you can give yourself permission to explore all that the world has available to you.

    How Do You Know When You’ve Found Your True Entrepreneurial Purpose?

    I can only tell you how I knew when I had discovered my own — it didn’t hit me like a ton of bricks. Rather, it settled over me, bringing a deep sense of peace and commitment. It felt like I had arrived home and knew exactly what to do and how to proceed.

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    Everything flowed easily from that point forward. That’s not to say that I found success immediately after that moment. But rather, the path ahead of me was clear, so I knew what to do.

    Decisions were easier and came faster to me. And success has come on MY terms, according to my own definitions of what success means to me in my own lifestyle design.

    Dig deep, look within, and seek whatever help you need. Once you find that purpose and passion, your life — not just your entrepreneurial life, but your entire life — will never be the same.

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