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Improve Your Networking by Improving Your TMAY – Tell Me About Yourself.

Improve Your Networking by Improving Your TMAY – Tell Me About Yourself.
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I volunteer at Bracknell Careers Springboard , which is a club for job-seekers. We help unemployed people get into work. Many are middle-aged professionals who have been made redundant and find it hard to get re-employed. The most important skill that we work on is how they present themselves and in particular, how they answer the request, ‘Tell me about yourself.’

When first asked many people respond with wooly and wandering statements, sometimes including a long career history starting with their first job or with a detailed and bitter account of why they were made redundant. They miss the opportunity to present themselves in a clear, precise way. We encourage people to develop and practice a short, focused TMAY, which includes the following:

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  • Key skills
  • Recent work responsibilities including the names of the organizations they worked for
  • Evidence of achievements
  • What they are looking for

Everyone has skills. It is important to identify the skills which are transferable to other situations and which are valuable to employers.

We aim for about a one-minute delivery or about 120 words when written. It is best to write it out and then practice saying it in a natural way. The statement should avoid ‘motherhood’ claims such as ‘I am a good team player’ or ‘I am focused and determined.’ Who would not make such claims? Instead, they should include concrete statements of achievement e.g., ‘I was responsible for a team of 12 people who delivered a major IT project that resulted in savings of $10m for XYZ Company.’

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Some people find it hard to articulate the kind of opportunity they really want. They could turn their hand to many different jobs and do not want to commit themselves. They might say, ‘I am a manager who could tackle any administrative position.’ This may be true but it makes them hard to remember and hard to help. It is better to say something like, ‘I am a qualified project manager and am looking for an opportunity to help run a major change project.’

The TMAY is invaluable, not just in interviews and not just for job seekers. Anyone who networks needs a short description of himself or herself. It is useful when you meet people and they want to know about you. Obviously, it can be adjusted for different circumstances but the core elements remain.

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Most jobs are not advertised but are filled through contacts so networking is a crucial part of the job search and your TMAY is the opportunity to tell people concisely what you are and what you want. You may only get one chance so make it short, focused, and memorable.

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Last Updated on May 23, 2021

10 Best Free Job Apps You Need For Effective Job Hunting

10 Best Free Job Apps You Need For Effective Job Hunting
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Seeking for the right job but not sure how to do it in a more effective way?

Try job search apps!

To make the job hunting process easier, I’m recommending 10 best job apps that can help you look for the right match anywhere at any time. The best of all? They’re all free!

1. jobandtalent

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    Great for browsing new jobs as you commute home via subway, bus or carpool, the jobandtalent app is like a Pinterest for job seekers.

    Easily browse, save and revisit job postings from your smartphone and receive notifications about jobs that match your professional qualifications.

    Download it for iOS and Android.

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    2. Jobr

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      This job hunting app is unique in that it lets you anonymously browse job listings based on your professional resume. If a company that you like also shows an interest in you, the app let’s you chat directly with a company rep. Great for getting your foot in the door and making a memorable impression.

      Download it for iOS.

      3. Monster Job Search

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        I’m a big fan of Monster. It’s one of the first job sites employers think of when they want to list a new position online. The Monster Job Search app functions pretty similarly to the normal website, so it’s very easy to use for not-so-tech-savvy job hunters.

        Download it for iOS and Android.

        4. Jobs and Career Search

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        job and career search

          This is a good, simple app for browsing global locations for your next job. With a job index of more than 50,000 jobs listed globally, this app is a good choice if you are moving to a new area and want to line a new job up quickly.

          Download it for iOS.

          5. Hyper Networking Groups

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            This job hunting app isn’t so much a job hunting app as it is a connections hunting app. It’s great for learning who’s who in your desired field and forming connections. It also shows you how you and your industry connections are connected via your social networks, so you can follow up with them on your other social sites.

            Download it for iOS.

            6. CardDrop

            CardDrop

              CardDrop is an awesome job hunting app that let’s you digitally drop and pick up virtual business cards. This app is great for helping you make new connections at seminars, interviews, meetings and conferences. You can also attach social media profiles to the cards you pick up or send to enable easier connecting on social networks.

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              Download it for Android and iOS.

              7. Job Interview Questions

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                Okay, so this app looks kind of outdated, but it’s super useful for getting you into the swing of answering any kind of interview question that is thrown your way. The big benefit of using this app is that it explains to you what your interviewers motivations might be for asking you a specific kind of question. Learn what your interviewer is looking for in your answers and be more prepared for the real interview when the time comes.

                Download it for Android.

                8. 101 Interview Questions and Answers

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                  This app is great because it provides guidance about the kinds of answers you should give for each kind of question. Think of it as an essay rubric but for job interview questions.

                  Download it for Android.

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                  9. Job Interview Question-Answer

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                    Feeling confident with your text-answered interview questions but concerned about doing the face-to-face interview? This app prepares you for interacting with your interviewer by simulating an employer asking you questions.

                    You can record your response and see what you look like to the interviewer to understand what movements, vocal pauses, etc. you need to work on.

                    Download this app for iOS and Android.

                    10. HireVue

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                      HireVue is a great job hunting app for those times when your interviewer wants to get some preliminary questions out of the way.

                      When an interested employer wants to interview you, they send you a request via HireVue and you can answer it in your free time, when you’re ready. Your interview might consist of a some FaceTime, some multiple choice questions or open-ended text answers and can be completed and sent to the interviewer when you’re finish.

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                      Download it for Android and iOS.

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