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20 Bad Things Only People Who Work From Home Will Understand

20 Bad Things Only People Who Work From Home Will Understand

Escaping the 9 to 5 bubble of a cubicle can be a dream come true. You can work in your pajamas, set your own hours, and have no traffic, pollution, or commuter stress to deal with. Your friends envy you for having it all “figured out.” What they don’t know, however, is that working from home can present its own set of unexpected challenges over time. For those of you who work at home, you are probably familiar with these 20 bad things only people who work from home will understand.

1. Your best suit looks much like your best pajamas.

A power tie is a robe, and instead of $500 pumps, you wear the finest sheepskin boots money can buy.

2. No water cooler chit chat, except to your dog (or cat).

No need to talk about the weather or listen what your co-workers did over the weekend, but also no one to tell your own stories to or gossip about that crazy thing your neighbor did, or how cute your new baby niece or nephew is.

3. No office holiday party for you to embarrass yourself at.

Drinking Peppermint Schnapps and putting on a Santa hat is no fun if there is no one to kiss under the mistletoe.

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4. A sick day and a work day are the same thing.

You can’t call in sick, because you’re already home for the day. No need for a doctor’s note, and since you’re already home, you have no excuse to not get your work done on time.

5. A long lunch turns into a day off.

It can be too easy to think you can do a casual lunch, only to realize you’ve been gabbing with an old friend for hours, and then suddenly, you find yourself easing out of taking a whole day off.

6. Any “office gossip” consists of what everyone else is posting on Facebook.

The only “people” you talk to are Facebook “friends” by liking or commenting on their status updates. You suddenly find yourself sucked in the rabbit hole that is Facebook and hours later – after looking at cat videos and memes galore – you realize you need to go outside and say “hello” to people in the real world. But then, you’d have to trade in your pajamas for real clothes.

7. You start talking to yourself … and you start answering back.

Talking to your pet does not count. You are still really talking to yourself, since even though your pet seems like they can understand what you’re going through, pets truly aren’t people after all.

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8. People think you have nothing to do.

They assume you play video games or stalk on Facebook all day which, in reference to number six above, you probably do.

9. Your family thinks you don’t have a “real” job.

Since you  have no company car, key to the executive washroom, or office party you take pictures of, that you must just be unemployed and lying to them.

10. The dog always seems to bark the minute you jump on a conference call.

This is because that is also simultaneously the time the mailman seems to show up.

11. Cleaning your house several times a day still counts as procrastination.

You can only scrub your tile grout so many times before you realize you are really avoiding your work.

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12. Your “hours of operation” turn into an open 24 hours kind of thing very easily.

When you check emails on your phone from bed, you know you are in trouble.

13. Your inbox rules your day.

Those constant dings of your email that you seemingly just have to answer right away can go all day because you have no set hours, so people assume you are always available.

14. Some days your commute can still seem long, even if you are only commuting a room away.

The steps from the bed to your desk can seem daunting, so you pull the covers over your head and elect to email from bed.

15. You can still get a lot of work done while watching a TV show marathon.

It’s just “background noise,” right?

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16. Some days look like not putting on any makeup or showering, because you have a 6 am conference call.

No one will notice if you smell or have bedhead. Then, 5 hours later you look in the mirror and realize you forgot to shower that day.

17. Video chat calls require twice as much blush as usual.

No matter what lighting you have in the room, you look like a ghost when it comes to video chatting.

18. Happy Hour can start whenever you want.

It’s been a tough day. One beer for lunch won’t hurt.

19. Your desk turns into your couch, as you snuggle up next to your dog or cat.

Since you stayed up late emailing from bed, and your desk seems too far away, the couch is sort of like halfway between a bed and a desk.

20. No one will know if you don’t get your work done.

Except you, and then your clients. The only one that is there to motivate you is yourself.

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Last Updated on July 27, 2020

How to Find Your Entrepreneurial Passion and Purpose

How to Find Your Entrepreneurial Passion and Purpose

I wrote a few articles about starting a business based on something you love doing and are passionate about. I received several responses from people saying they weren’t sure how to go about figuring out what they were most passionate about or how to find their true purpose. So I’m dedicating this article to these issues — how to find your entrepreneurial passion and purpose.

When I work with a new client, the first thing we talk about is lifestyle design. I ask each client, “What do you want your life to look like?” If you designed a business without answering this question, you could create a nice, profitable business that is completely incompatible with your goals in life. You’d be making money, but you’d probably be miserable.

When you’re looking for your life purpose, lifestyle design isn’t a crucial component. However, since we’re talking about entrepreneurial purpose, lifestyle design is indeed crucial to building a business that you’ll enjoy and truly be passionate about.

For example, say you want to spend more time at home with your family. Would you be happy with a business that kept you in an office or out of town much of the time? On the flip side, if you wanted to travel and see the world, how well could you accomplish that goal if your business required your presence, day in and day out, to survive? So start by getting some clarity on your personal goals and spend some time working on designing your life.

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At this point, you may need a little prodding, and you may want to hire a coach or mentor to work with you through this process. Many people are very used to the idea that there is a particular way a life “should” be. There are certain milestones most people tend to live by, and if you don’t meet those markers when or in the manner you’re “supposed” to meet them, that can cause some anxiety.

Here’s how to find your passion and purpose:

Give Yourself Permission to Dream a Little

Remember that this is your life and you can live it however you choose. Call it meditation or fantasy, but let your imagination run here. And answer this question:

“If you had no fears or financial limitations, what would your ideal life, one in which you could be totally content and happy, look like?”

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Once you’ve figured out your lifestyle design, it’s time to do a little more soul-searching to figure out what you’re truly passionate about. This is a time to really look within and look back.

Specifically, look back over your life history. When were you the happiest? What did you enjoy doing the most? Remember that what you’re looking for doesn’t necessarily have to be an entire job, but can actually be aspects of your past jobs or hobbies that you’ve really enjoyed.

Think About a Larger Life Purpose

Many successful entrepreneurs have earned their place in history by setting out to make a difference in the world. Is there a specific issue or cause that is important to you or that you’re particularly passionate about?

For some, this process of discovery may come easily. You may go through these questions and thought experiments and find the answers quickly. For others, it may be more difficult. In some cases, you may suffer from a generalized lack of passion and purpose in your life.

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Sometimes, this can come from having suppressed passion in your life for too long. Sometimes, it can come from eating poorly and lack of exercise. But occasionally, it may have something to do with your internal chemistry or programming. If the latter applies to you, it may be useful for you to seek help in the form of a coach, mentor, or counselor.

In other cases, not knowing your true purpose may be a matter of having not discovered it yet: you may not have found anything that makes your heart beat faster. If this is the case, now is the time to explore!

The Internet is a fantastic tool for learning and exploration. Search hobbies and careers and learn as much as you can about any topic that triggers your interest, then follow up at the library on the things that really intrigue you. Again, remember that this is your life and only you can give yourself permission to explore all that the world has available to you.

How Do You Know When You’ve Found Your True Entrepreneurial Purpose?

I can only tell you how I knew when I had discovered my own — it didn’t hit me like a ton of bricks. Rather, it settled over me, bringing a deep sense of peace and commitment. It felt like I had arrived home and knew exactly what to do and how to proceed.

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Everything flowed easily from that point forward. That’s not to say that I found success immediately after that moment. But rather, the path ahead of me was clear, so I knew what to do.

Decisions were easier and came faster to me. And success has come on MY terms, according to my own definitions of what success means to me in my own lifestyle design.

Dig deep, look within, and seek whatever help you need. Once you find that purpose and passion, your life — not just your entrepreneurial life, but your entire life — will never be the same.

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