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58 Noteworthy Resolutions For Anytime in the Year

58 Noteworthy Resolutions For Anytime in the Year

“We will open the book.  Its pages are blank.  We are going to put words on them ourselves. The book is called Opportunity and its first chapter is New Year’s Day.” – Edith Lovejoy Pierce

A brand new year is coming, festive songs are in the air and everyone is gearing up for the new year ahead! 

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     I’m really psyched up for the upcoming year because there are so many exciting things I have planned for next year.

    How about you? How do you feel about the new year? How do you want it to be? What kind of experiences do you want to create? What memories do you want to build? What impact do you want to have for yourself and others?

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    With every upcoming year, I’m always sure it will supersede all previous years to become the best year ever. One reason is because I set goals – Goals which I know will improve the quality and fulfillment of my life. I’m a huge fan of goal setting. The best way to determine how your next year to be is to set goals AND act on them. As Zig Ziglar said, “You need a plan to build a house. To build a life, it is even more important to have a plan or goal.”

    For this same reason, I recommend you to think about what you want for yourself in the year 2013 and set them as goals. Here is a list to kickstart your thinking process. Of course, goal setting isn’t restricted to just the start of the year – you can refer to it anytime of the year. There’s never a ‘best’ time to set goals – it’s all the time! 

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      1. Stop procrastinating
      2. Spend more time with your family
      3. Widen your social circle – Meet new people!
      4. Become more organized
      5. Exercise more and keep fit
      6. Lose weight: Achieve your ideal weight
      7. Eat more healthily
      8. Wake up early every day
      9. Be on time
      10. Express gratitude to people who have made a difference in your life
      11. Do volunteer work
      12. Do more kind deeds
      13. Further your education
      14. Learn a new language
      15. Cultivate at least one new skill that will enable you to perform even better at work (presentation skills, public speaking, effective writing, etc)
      16. Be emotionally generous
      17. Drop caffeine
      18. Reconnect with old friends
      19. Make at least 5 positive, like-minded friends and foster strong relationships with them
      20. Take your family out on a vacation
      21. Revamp your room into your personal, inspirational haven
      22. Run a marathon
      23. Don’t bad mouth other people
      24. Stop complaining
      25. Be a more positive person
      26. Be your real self
      27. Read more books
      28. Read one meaningful self-help article a day
      29. Visit the holiday destination of your dreams
      30. Deliver your best performance at work ever
      31. Double your business revenue (for business owners)
      32. Get a career switch to a better career
      33. Or better still, pursue a career of your true passion
      34. Earn a million dollars
      35. Earn a billion dollars (for those who have achieved #34)
      36. Find your soulmate
      37. Move out and get your own apartment
      38. Get out of debt (if you are in debt)
      39. Save more money
      40. Help other people achieve their dreams
      41. Get rid of clutter
      42. Take up a class in something of your interest (dancing, singing, roller blading, ice skating, swimming, photography, web design, rock climbing, piano, guitar, yoga, pilates, etc)
      43. Drink more water
      44. Reduce your alcohol intake or quit drinking altogether (for people who drink)
      45. Quit smoking (for smokers)
      46. Learn to see the positive side of everything
      47. Turn every challenge into an opportunity
      48. Let go of any past baggage
      49. Meditate daily
      50. Go on a Vipassana Meditation Retreat
      51. Write a book
      52. Visit a new place you have never been to
      53. Stop beating yourself up when bad things happen
      54. Love yourself more
      55. Start your life handbook and use it document everything it takes to live your best life
      56. Limit your mass media exposure – Stop watching television or reading newspapers (remove negative stimuli from your environment)
      57. Take time out to rest and rejuvenate every week
      58. Live every moment to the fullest! 
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        Note: Success in resolutions is almost always in line with cultivating habits. Be sure to read how to successfully cultivate a habit in 21 days, an all-time readers’ favorite article.

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        Ditch Work Life Balance and Embrace Work Life Harmony

        Ditch Work Life Balance and Embrace Work Life Harmony

        How do you usually go about your day?

        Do you wake up in the morning, get ready for work, and then spend the whole day looking forward to being at home and unwinding?

        We often hear about work life balance – having a good balance between work and personal time. Whilst this may sound like a smart idea, it can also imply that we should dedicate at least half of our time to work–and sacrifice time for our “personal life”.

        To me, that seems…off balance. Because, the truth is, it’s nearly impossible to split your time equally between the two. And, you may end up stressing out if you’re not able to meet that expectation of balance.

        Instead, why not think of having work life harmony instead?

        With this mindset, you can actually integrate work into your life in a way that feels more complete. This way, you don’t need to view work and having personal time as separate.

        So, how do you achieve work life harmony?

        Work Life Harmony Explained

        The difference between work life balance and work life harmony is pretty simple.With the former, there is an implication that you have to sacrifice your “life” for work. But, this is the worst way to go about things! How can you truly be at peace in life if you dread 8 hours of your day?

        Work life harmony on the other hand, allows your work to be a part of your life. This means that you can choose to be happy both at home, and at work! Work no longer needs to be seen as the ‘bad’ or un-fun activity.

        Having work life harmony also ensures you’re truly present in whatever place you find yourself.

        Just take a look at Jeff Bezos, CEO of Amazon for example.

        He uses a non traditional approach to work by making time for breakfast every morning with his family, doesn’t set his alarm before going to bed, schedules surprisingly few meetings, and still puts aside a few minutes every day to wash his own dishes.

        He believes that all his staff should stop trying to achieve a ‘balance’ in their work and personal lives as that implies a trade off. Instead, he envisions a more holistic relationship between the two.

        As the world’s richest man, he must be doing something right!

        Rethink Time Management

        Now, when we think of striking a balance, we usually associate it with time, don’t we? How much time are we spending at work versus how much time are we spending in our personal lives?Are we taking enough time to be with our loved ones, to do meaningful activities with others or even for ourselves, or are we just dedicating all our time to work?

        This is the so-called-balance that many struggle with.

        With work life harmony, we learn to rethink time management. By re-assessing how you manage your time, you’ll have a lot more of it. It’s incredible how much time can get wasted over the period of a day–especially when you’re not accurately tracking it.

        Unfortunately, unless you’re consciously making an effort, your brain is not always the best at making accurate judgement calls when it comes to prioritizing. It tends to have a bias towards short term benefits and short term costs.

        As there are often many more options our brains link to short term benefit; when you’re trying to focus on a task that gives you a long term benefit, that task usually becomes low priority. This is otherwise known as Priority Chaos.

        In order to overcome this and be in better control of your time, identify the tasks that need the most focus to get accomplished. If it’s a big task, then it’s good to break it down into smaller bite-sized actions that will provide you with a clearer short term benefit.

        When setting up tasks, give yourself a time limit. The brain has a bias towards short term benefits, and your attention span is limited, so if your tasks are going to take ages to complete, you’ll end up losing focus… and wasting time.

        Once you have all your tasks written down, it’s time to prioritize them. Since you have a time limit, your focus should be on the top priority tasks. By doing this, you will already be able to get more done in less time at work!

        Have Passion for What You Do

        Managing your time is important in achieving that work life harmony. But, perhaps of greater importance, is loving what you do in life.One of the most effective ways to achieve a work life harmony is to really enjoy, or find a purpose, in what you do for a living. Even though everyone isn’t always lucky enough to find a position that pays them for pursuing their passion, you can strive to find meaning in what you are already doing, or pursue something new entirely!

        For example, say you work at an office that sells paper. While many people wouldn’t consider this a world changing pursuit, I beg to differ. Think of all the individuals in the world that rely on paper. From creative types to quantum physics experts, your role at your workplace brings incredible value to many many people all over the world. You will have, without a doubt, helped bring a new idea into existence. Several new ideas to be precise.

        So have a think about what you’re doing now. Is it something that allows you to embrace your passion?

        Or perhaps you might not even know what it is that you love or enjoy doing. Why not explore and reflect on what gives you joy and contentment? Is there an area or industry that you could see yourself exploring to experience that fulfillment?

        Can you find a deeper purpose in what you’re already doing?

        When you’re able to find meaning in your work, you’re that much closer to achieving work life harmony.

        Don’t Be Intimidated By Obstacles and Limitations

        Creating work life harmony is also about understanding yourself–which includes your limitations and past obstacles–as this allows you to become more resilient.

        If you never had to experience struggles, challenges or setbacks, then you would never be forced to adapt and mature. So in theory, having to face obstacles in life is actually quite necessary.

        Most of us think of setbacks and obstacles as negative. Though, if you’re able to maintain an optimistic attitude, you’ll almost always have a higher chance of success of overcoming those obstacles to reach your eventual goal.

        Your attitude towards setbacks will define the outcome of whether you rise from the challenge or remain stuck in it. So, in order to achieve work life harmony, it’s important to have a resilient attitude as challenges will always come your way–especially when you strive to integrate work into your life, and not a separate or dominant part of life.

        Delegate When You Need To

        Of course, when you want to increase productivity and minimize the time or effort spent, a great way to do so is to delegate!

        If you spend a lot of time doing tasks on your own that could be delegated to others (whether at work or at home) you’re losing a lot of precious free time that could otherwise be spent elsewhere.

        At the end of the day, we all have a limited amount of time. So we should all be striving to create a harmonious work and living situation where we can find meaning in all that we do.

        While an overall goal may be meaningful, not all of the milestones or tasks needed to get there may be meaningful. That’s because we have our strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes. Not every task is going to be enjoyable or easy to complete. That’s where delegation comes in.

        Delegation simply allows you to leverage time from an external source, thus giving you opportunities to increase your own quality of time. Keep in mind that delegation should be done with deliberate attention, otherwise you may end up over relying on others.

        If you find that you’re running into the problem of over delegating, then it may be time to re-evaluate your motivation for doing whatever it is that you’re doing.

        Embrace the Circle and Become Happier and More Productive

        Living in harmony is about feeling good about the ways in which you spend your time, despite how busy you may be.Your switch from work mode to a more personal mode should be effortless. It’s about integrating your personal life and the things you love into your busy work life!

        It all begins with the shift in perspective. Understanding what your passions are, and learning to be resilient, before taking a different approach to the way you manage your time and everyday tasks.

        These are steps that you can start taking to move away from balance to harmony. 

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