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5 Phrases An Ambitious Person Will Never Say

5 Phrases An Ambitious Person Will Never Say

We all have dreams and aspirations, and many of us will follow through on those dreams and achieve exactly what we desire. However, the path to achieving those dreams isn’t always straight and narrow. It takes a lot of work to get to where you want to go, so if you want to be a successful person, you need to surround yourself with positivity. That’s why we have compiled a list of five phrases that ambitious people just don’t abide.

“I’ll do it tomorrow.”

Your capacity for work in the present is limited, sure, but many people give themselves short shrift by waiting to complete something until later. Olin Miller said, “If you want to make an easy job seem hard seem mighty hard, just put off doing it.” He was right. Successful people never delay until later, until tomorrow. They enjoy challenges, sometimes they even go out of their way to create hurdles to overcome. Don’t procrastinate. It only hinders you.

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“That’s not my job.”

When you work someplace, you are thoroughly invested in their mission. Regardless of your level on the totem pole, you are should try not to shirk your responsibilities. Even Abraham Lincoln had a little bit of this in him when he said, “My father taught me to work. He didn’t teach me to like it.”  If the most well-liked president in U.S. history got to where he is by putting his nose to the grindstone and just working hard, then you can get to where you want to be by going the extra mile. When you are an ambitious person, everything is your job.

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“Whose fault was it?”

This one is very important. In business settings, or any formal settings for that matter, blame and laying of fault should be entirely abandoned. The idea of blaming someone for some error is wrong on some many fronts; it causes you to assign a negative value to some sort of outcome, when it very well can be labeled as a success. It then causes you to take time out to single someone out and diminish their value, often in front of others. Lack of success among groups is often the result of a lack of communication. As Arnold Glasow said, “A good leader takes a little more than his share of the blame and a little less than his share of the credit.”

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“No.”

This is a broad one, but it digs deep at a central tendency of ambitious people: they tend to think anything is possible, regardless of how far-fetched, difficult, or absurd that thing may be. Thomas Edison’s thoughts best encapsulate this one: “I have not failed. I’ve just found ten thousand ways that don’t work.” He didn’t give up, nor did he decide at any point that the creation of a light bulb must be impossible. He continued over and over and over, thinking of creative solutions to solve a problem other people weren’t even aware of at the time. And he succeeded, all because he didn’t say, “No.”

“That doesn’t interest me.”

Salvador Dali put it best when he said, “Intelligence without ambition is a bird without wings.” An ambitious person tends to be interested in everything. They make it a hobby to learn new facts and acquire new skills, thereby creating new ways by which to succeed. Whether it is the marketing manager who applies the analytic side of calculus to his work, or the scientist who paints in her free time, ambitious people are constantly expanding their horizons by trying new things and applying them centrally to what they care about most.

Featured photo credit: Black-and-white portrait of an ambitious business guy wearing sunglasses via shutterstock.com

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Last Updated on March 23, 2021

Manage Your Energy so You Can Manage Your Time

Manage Your Energy so You Can Manage Your Time

One of the greatest ironies of this age is that while various gadgets like smartphones and netbooks allow you to multitask, it seems that you never manage to get things done. You are caught in the busyness trap. There’s just too much work to do in one day that sometimes you end up exhausted with half-finished tasks.

The problem lies in how to keep our energy level high to ensure that you finish at least one of your most important tasks for the day. There’s just not enough hours in a day and it’s not possible to be productive the whole time.

You need more than time management. You need energy management

1. Dispel the idea that you need to be a “morning person” to be productive

How many times have you heard (or read) this advice – wake up early so that you can do all the tasks at hand. There’s nothing wrong with that advice. It’s actually reeks of good common sense – start early, finish early. The thing is that technique alone won’t work with everyone. Especially not with people who are not morning larks.

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I should know because I was once deluded with the idea that I will be more productive if I get out of bed by 6 a.m. Like most of you Lifehackers, I’m always on the lookout for productivity hacks because I have a lot of things in my plate. I’m working full time as an editor for a news agency, while at the same time tending to my side business as a content marketing strategist. I’m also a travel blogger and oh yeah, I forgot, I also have a life.

I read a lot of productivity books and blogs looking for ways to make the most of my 24 hours. Most stories on productivity stress waking up early. So I did – and I was a major failure in that department – both in waking up early and finishing early.

2. Determine your “peak hours”

Energy management begins with looking for your most productive hours in a day. Getting attuned to your body clock won’t happen instantly but there’s a way around it.

Monitor your working habits for one week and list down the time when you managed to do the most work. Take note also of what you feel during those hours – do you feel energized or lethargic? Monitor this and you will find a pattern later on.

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My experiment with being a morning lark proved that ignoring my body clock and just doing it by disciplining myself to wake up before 8 a.m. will push me to be more productive. I thought that by writing blog posts and other reports in the morning that I would be finished by noon and use my lunch break for a quick gym session. That never happened. I was sleepy, distracted and couldn’t write jack before 10 a.m.

In fact that was one experiment that I shouldn’t have tried because I should know better. After all, I’ve been writing for a living for the last 15 years, and I have observed time and again that I write more –and better – in the afternoon and in evenings after supper. I’m a night owl. I might as well, accept it and work around it.

Just recently, I was so fired up by a certain idea that – even if I’m back home tired from work – I took out my netbook, wrote and published a 600-word blog post by 11 p.m. This is a bit extreme and one of my rare outbursts of energy, but it works for me.

3. Block those high-energy hours

Once you have a sense of that high-energy time, you can then mold your schedule so that your other less important tasks will be scheduled either before or after this designated productive time.

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Block them out in your calendar and use the high-energy hours for your high priority tasks – especially those that require more of your mental energy and focus. You also need to use these hours to any task that will bring you closer to you life’s goal.

If you are a morning person, you might want to schedule most business meetings before lunch time as it’s important to keep your mind sharp and focused. But nothing is set in stone. Sometimes you have to sacrifice those productive hours to attend to other personal stuff – like if you or your family members are sick or if you have to attend your son’s graduation.

That said, just remember to keep those productive times on your calendar. You may allow for some exemptions but stick to that schedule as much as possible.

There’s no right or wrong way of using this energy management technique because everything depends on your own personal circumstances. What you need to remember is that you have to accept what works for you – and not what other productivity gurus say you should do.

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Understanding your own body clock is the key to time management. Without it, you end up exhausted chasing a never-ending cycle of tasks and frustrations.

Featured photo credit: Collin Hardy via unsplash.com

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