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5 Phrases An Ambitious Person Will Never Say

5 Phrases An Ambitious Person Will Never Say

We all have dreams and aspirations, and many of us will follow through on those dreams and achieve exactly what we desire. However, the path to achieving those dreams isn’t always straight and narrow. It takes a lot of work to get to where you want to go, so if you want to be a successful person, you need to surround yourself with positivity. That’s why we have compiled a list of five phrases that ambitious people just don’t abide.

“I’ll do it tomorrow.”

Your capacity for work in the present is limited, sure, but many people give themselves short shrift by waiting to complete something until later. Olin Miller said, “If you want to make an easy job seem hard seem mighty hard, just put off doing it.” He was right. Successful people never delay until later, until tomorrow. They enjoy challenges, sometimes they even go out of their way to create hurdles to overcome. Don’t procrastinate. It only hinders you.

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“That’s not my job.”

When you work someplace, you are thoroughly invested in their mission. Regardless of your level on the totem pole, you are should try not to shirk your responsibilities. Even Abraham Lincoln had a little bit of this in him when he said, “My father taught me to work. He didn’t teach me to like it.”  If the most well-liked president in U.S. history got to where he is by putting his nose to the grindstone and just working hard, then you can get to where you want to be by going the extra mile. When you are an ambitious person, everything is your job.

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“Whose fault was it?”

This one is very important. In business settings, or any formal settings for that matter, blame and laying of fault should be entirely abandoned. The idea of blaming someone for some error is wrong on some many fronts; it causes you to assign a negative value to some sort of outcome, when it very well can be labeled as a success. It then causes you to take time out to single someone out and diminish their value, often in front of others. Lack of success among groups is often the result of a lack of communication. As Arnold Glasow said, “A good leader takes a little more than his share of the blame and a little less than his share of the credit.”

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“No.”

This is a broad one, but it digs deep at a central tendency of ambitious people: they tend to think anything is possible, regardless of how far-fetched, difficult, or absurd that thing may be. Thomas Edison’s thoughts best encapsulate this one: “I have not failed. I’ve just found ten thousand ways that don’t work.” He didn’t give up, nor did he decide at any point that the creation of a light bulb must be impossible. He continued over and over and over, thinking of creative solutions to solve a problem other people weren’t even aware of at the time. And he succeeded, all because he didn’t say, “No.”

“That doesn’t interest me.”

Salvador Dali put it best when he said, “Intelligence without ambition is a bird without wings.” An ambitious person tends to be interested in everything. They make it a hobby to learn new facts and acquire new skills, thereby creating new ways by which to succeed. Whether it is the marketing manager who applies the analytic side of calculus to his work, or the scientist who paints in her free time, ambitious people are constantly expanding their horizons by trying new things and applying them centrally to what they care about most.

Featured photo credit: Black-and-white portrait of an ambitious business guy wearing sunglasses via shutterstock.com

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

What Is Creativity? We All Have It, and Need It

What Is Creativity? We All Have It, and Need It

Do you think of yourself as a creative person? Do you play the drums or do watercolor paintings? Perhaps compose songs or direct plays? Can you even relate to any of these so called ‘creative’ experiences? Growing up, did you ever have that ‘artistic’ sibling or friend who excelled in drawing, playing instruments or literature? And you maybe wondered why you can’t even compose a birthday card greeting–or that drawing stick figures is the furthest you’ll ever get to drawing a family portrait. Many people have this common assumption that creativity is an inborn talent; only a special group of people are inherently creative, and everyone else just unfortunately does not have that special ability. You either have that creative flair or instinct, or you don’t. But, this is far from the truth! So what is creativity?

Can I Be Creative?

The fact is, that everyone has an innate creative ability. Despite what most people may think, creativity is a skill that everyone can learn and hone on. It’s a skill with huge leverage that allows you to generate enormous amounts of value from relatively little input. How is that so? You’ll have to start by expanding your definition of creativity. Ironically, you have to be creative and ‘think out of the box’ with the definition! Creativity at its heart, is being able to see things in a way that others cannot. It’s a skill that helps you find new perspectives to create new possibilities and solutions to different problems. So, if you encounter different challenges and problems that need solving on a regular basis, then creativity is an invaluable skill to have.Let’s say, for example, that you work in sales. Having creativity will help you to look for new ways to approach and reach out to potential customers. Or perhaps you’re a teacher. In this role you have to constantly look for new ways to deliver your message and educate your students.

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How Creativity Works

Let me break another misconception about creativity, which is that it’s only used to create completely “new” or “original” things. Again, this is far from the truth. Because nothing is ever completely new or original. Everything, including works of art, doesn’t come from nothing. Everything derives from some sort of inspiration. That means that creativity works by connecting things together in order to derive new meaning or value.From this perspective, you can see a lot of creativity in action. In technology, Apple combines traditional computers with design and aesthetics to create new ways to use digital products. In music, a musician may be inspired by various styles of music, instruments and rhythms to create an entirely new type of song. All of these examples are about connecting different ideas, finding common ground amongst the differences, and creating a completely new idea out of them.

What Really Is Creativity?

Creativity Needs an Intention

Another misconception about the creative process is that you can just be in a general “creative” state. Real creativity isn’t about coming up with “eureka!” moments for random ideas. Instead, to be truly creative, you need to have a direction. You have to ask yourself this question: “What problem am I trying to solve?” Only by knowing the answer to this question can you start flexing your creativity muscles. Often times, the idea of creativity is associated with the ‘Right’ brain, with intuition and imagination. Hence a lot of focus is placed on the ‘Right’ brain when it comes to creativity. But, to get the most out of creativity, you need to utilize both sides of your brain–Right and Left–which means using the analytical and logical part of your brain, too. This may sound surprising to you, but creativity has a lot to do with problem solving. And, problem solving inherently involves logic and analysis. So instead of throwing out the ‘Left’ brain, full creativity needs them to work in unison. For example, when you’re looking for new ideas, your ‘Left’ brain will guide you to a place of focus, which is based on your objective behind the ideas you’re searching for. The ‘Right’ brain then guides you to gather and explore based on your current focus. And when you decide to try out these new ideas, your ‘Right’ brain will give you novel solutions outside of the ones you already know. Your ‘Left’ brain then helps you evaluate and tune the solutions to work better in practice. So, logic and creativity actually work hand in hand, and not one at the expense of the other.

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Creativity Is a Skill

At the end of the day, creativity is a skill. It’s not some innate or natural born talent that some have over others. What this means is that creativity and innovation can be practiced and improved upon systematically.A skill can be learned and practiced by applying your strongest learning styles. Want to know what your learning style is? Try this test. A skill can be measured and improved through a Feedback Loop, and can be continuously upgraded over time by regular practice. Through regular practice, your creativity goes through different stages of proficiency. This means that you can become more and more creative! If you never thought that creativity was relevant to you, or that you don’t have a knack for being creative… think again! You can use creativity in any aspect of your life. In fact you should use it, as it will allow you to to break through your usual loop, get you out of your comfort zone, and inspire you to grow and try new things. Creativity will definitely give you an edge when you’re trying to solve a problem or come up with new solutions.

Start Connecting the Dots

Excited to start honing your creativity? Here at Lifehack, we’ve got a wealth of knowledge to help you get started. We understand that creativity is a matter of connecting things together in order to derive new meaning or value. So, if you want to learn how to start connecting the dots, check out these tips:

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