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4 Essential Tips for Managing the Family Calendar

4 Essential Tips for Managing the Family Calendar


    We fill our days and hours with activities, not only for ourselves but also for our family. It can be a challenge to keep all of these commitments straight. A family calendar is just the answer.

    If you’re just getting started with using a family calendar — or need to up your game with the one you’re currently using — here are 4 essential tips to manage it.

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    Paper vs. Electronic

    You will find both paper and electronic calendars can fit in well in your household. In fact, I recommend you use both.

    An electronic calendar will give you the reminders you need. For example, we generally only go to the dentist twice a year so a reminder that the appointment we scheduled 6 months ago is coming is very handy.

    A paper calendar in a central location helps the entire family quickly see what the schedule for tomorrow or the upcoming week is. Those young enough not to have an electronic calendar of their own will start to get used to using the calendar to see upcoming events.

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    If you use Google for your electronic family calendar, check out these planning tips.

    Where to Put Your Calendar

    Use a paper calendar with lots of space to write down appointments for the whole family. Place it in a central meeting area. Often the kitchen will be the best location. Choose a spot every family member can easily access — remember not everyone is as tall as you are. It will be easier to manage the family calendar when everyone is an active participant.

    Keep a holder for pens and pencils (and even stickers) nearby. Stickers will help keep your kids engaged with the calendar. Have them add stickers for birthdays, days when they don’t have to go to school, and maybe even when they complete a day with especially good behavior.

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    What Should Go on the Calendar

    Add the usual birthdays and anniversaries first; these can be written in pen as they won’t change. Use pencil to then note any appointments. Be sure to note the time and initials of the family member the appointment is for.

    Have a lot of details for the appointment? The best way to manage the family calendar and get all the details is to add extra information to the electronic version of the calendar. It is easy to list the who, what, where, when and why on the electronic calendar. Link the appointment to the relevant website for additional information and a contact listing to avoid having to retype the address and phone number for a future appointment.

    Keep Your Calendars in Sync

    If you have trouble keeping your paper and electronic calendars in sync, create a routine to check them. Make every Sunday night after dinner a time the family reviews the paper calendar to see what is coming up for the week ahead. At this time make sure all of the information is added to the electronic calendar and vice versa. Be sure to ask each member of the family if they have plans or dates that should be added to the calendar as well.

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    Make this a fun family time by having a special dessert or beverage that is served during this time — and this time only. You should also consider adding other items to your family weekly review.

    How can you better manage the family calendar?

    (Photo credit: Circling Important Calendar Date via Shutterstock)

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      Last Updated on December 7, 2018

      10 Steps For Success: Applying The Power Of Your Subconscious Mind

      10 Steps For Success: Applying The Power Of Your Subconscious Mind

      How big is the gap between you and your success?

      What is the difference between successful people and unsuccessful people?

      It is as simple as this: successful people think and talk about what they are creating, and unsuccessful people focus on and talk about what they’re lacking.

      So how do you bridge that gap between wanting success and having your success? Let’s make an important distinction. You see, there is a big difference between “Wanting” and “Having” something.

      Wanting: means lacking or absent. Deficient in some part, thing or aspect.

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      Having: means to possess, to hold, to get, to receive, to experience.

      You can have one OR the other, but not both at the same time with any particular object of your desire. You either have it or you don’t.

      When it comes to your subconscious, if you’re focusing on the “wanting”, i.e. the not having, guess what, you will build stronger neural networks in your brain around the “wanting.” However, through the power of your subconscious mind, you can focus on the “having” as if it has already happened. Research has shown that your brain doesn’t know the difference between what you’re visualizing inside your mind versus what is happening out there in your reality.

      This is a regular practice of elite athletes. They spend as much timing creating the internal mental imagery of their success playing out as they do actually physically practicing. This helps create both the neural pathways in their brain and the muscle memory to consistently deliver on that success.

      Here are 10 “brain hack” steps for success that you can take to create your version of a happy life. Make these steps a regular habit, and you will be astonished at the results.

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      Step 1: Decide exactly what you want to create and have

      This is usually the biggest problem that people have. They don’t know what they want and then they’re surprised when they don’t get it.

      Step 2: Write down your goal clearly in every technicolor detail

      A goal that is not written down is merely a wish. When you write it down in full detail, you signal to your subconscious mind that you really want to accomplish this particular goal.

      Step 3: Write your goal in simple, present tense words

      …that a three year old can understand on a three-by-five index card and carry it with you. Read it each morning after you awake and just before you go to sleep.

      Step 4: Backwards planning

      See your goal achieved and identify all the steps required that it took to bring it to life. Making a list of all these steps intensifies your desire and deepens your belief that the attainment of the goal is already happening.

      Step 5: Resolve to take at least one step every day from one of the items on your list

      Do something every day, even if it is just one baby step, that moves you toward your goal so you can maintain your momentum.

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      Step 6: Visualize your goal repeatedly

      See it in your mind’s eye as though it were already a reality. The more clear and vivid your mental picture of your goal, the faster it will come into your life.

      Step 7: Feel the feeling of success as if your goal were realized at this very moment

      Feel the emotion of happiness, satisfaction, and pleasure that you would have once you have achieved your goal. Visualize and feel this success for at least 20 seconds at a time.

      Step 8: “Fake it till you make it!”

      Confidently behave as if your subconscious mind was already bringing your goal into reality. Accept that you are moving toward your goal and it is moving toward you.

      Step 9: Relax your mind

      Take time to breathe, pray or mediate each day. Disengage the stress response and engage the relaxation response. A quiet state of mind allows your brain to access newly formed neural pathways.

      Step 10: Release your goal to your subconscious mind

      When you turn your goal over to the power of the universe and just get out of the way, you will always know the right actions to take at the right time.

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      Starting today, try tapping into the incredible power of your subconscious mind.Start with just one goal or idea, and practice it continually until you succeed in achieving that goal. Make it a game and have fun with it! The more lightly you hold it, the easier it will be to achieve. By doing so, you will move from the “positive thinking” of the hopeful person to the “positive knowing” of the totally successful person.

      Hit reply and let me know what you’re creating!

      To your success!

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