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How Cherishing Experiences Can Make You (Feel Like) a Millionaire

How Cherishing Experiences Can Make You (Feel Like) a Millionaire

This year, the holiday season is different for me, and many of the people I know. Times are tough.

Did the economy ever really bounce back? Wasn’t the world supposed to end? Is the upcoming year going to be better than the last?

But, most of all, this year is different because I’ve realized that I want more.

I Want More

This past year, I’ve come to an important conclusion: I want more out of life.

I want more out of every day—my career, my relationships, my body. I want better.

I want to feel more—fulfilled, free, happy, significant, healthy.

I want to do more to contribute, make an impact, help others, and exercise.

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I want to learn more about entrepreneurship, leadership, technology, and writing.

I want more, but there’s a problem: I’m not always sure how to go about it.  What am I to do?

The answer is easier than you’d image: choose experiences over spending.

Our lives are formed by the choices we make: we choose what to make of our lives, and how to spend them. We choose how to spend our money, and how to spend our time—nobody is taking either of things without our explicit consent. The choice to live a better life can start now—today, during this new year season.

Here’s the choice I’m making today:

I want my experiences to be front and center—not the stuff that piles up around me.

Are you with me?

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If you want more out of life, you can make a similar choice today. Choose experiences over spending on stuff and see how quickly things change.

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    The Ultimate Test: When We Go

    I remember that my grandmother liked to repeat a saying that used to creep me out when I was small, but now it has helped to put my life into perspective more than I ever imagined. She’d say:

    “You’re not taking your gold with you to the grave.”

    I don’t think she meant to say that money isn’t important, but I definitely don’t think she meant we should go on a spending spree. After all, we do need to eat, bathe, and so on. The meaning behind her ghoulish words is closer to encouraging appreciation of what we have while we have it. Guided by this concept, it’s easy for me to make quick decisions on what I want for my life: for example, there are things in life we may consider to be too expensive, but are worthwhile:

    I want to meet amazing people, but traveling to a conference costs a considerable amount of money.

    I want to have a wonderful night with my husband, but we can’t afford to go to a fancy restaurant.

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    I want to hang out with my closest friends, but they live all over the world.

    I want to see new places, but traveling is so costly.

    My dreams about experiences I desire the most are completely quashed due to lack of funds. It doesn’t seem fair—or right.

    How about we chuck that logic and find a new way to experience a great life? How about we put money aside and create those experiences ourselves?

    I’m Not a Millionaire, But I Want to Feel Like One

    When I analyze all of the things I want to do and buy with money, I realize that what I am really trying to chase down is a feeling.

    Last I checked, we don’t pay for feelings with money. We pay for them with experiences, so let’s take those examples from above and find ways to accomplish them without spending a dime.

    I want to meet meet amazing people, so I’ll organize informal meetups at a coffee shop, and invite thought-leaders in my city.

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    I want to have a wonderful night with my husband. Who says you can’t break out of the routine at home? I’ll plan an awesome meal at home and have a ridiculously bad dance party.

    I want to hang out with my closest friends. If they’re abroad, I’ll videochat with them regularly. Being there for each other and laughing is all that matters, even if it’s not in person.

    I want to see new places. I can get to know new areas in my community, while I budget for long-distance trips.

    Sure, these modifications require some sacrifices—traveling within my community is not the same as visiting Michelangelo’s David in Florence, but it’s a good start. By focusing on the feelings I desire, I’ve changed my approach: experiences can make me feel amazing—much more than spending money. Being a millionaire must be amazing, but there’s nothing like enjoying the experiences at my fingertips.

    The feelings I desire can come true without spending the big bucks. Who knew!?

    Featured photo credit:  Young beautiful couple kissing at the sea. Wedding kiss. via Shutterstock

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    Life Insurance: A Secure Way To Protect Your Future.

    Life Insurance: A Secure Way To Protect Your Future.

    Life is a journey full of ups and downs. No one can actually predict what might happen the next moment; there are times where the happiest moments do not even take a second to turn into the gravest. Planning for your future can help you face such unwelcomed but irrepressible situations with much ease. We all want to make every memorable event of our life more special and to cherish all those moments happily and worry less, you must financially plan your future. But no one has control over life and death. Who would wish to see his family suffer in his absence? Insurance hands over the financial jeopardy of life’s happenings to an insurance company.

    Importance of getting a life insurance

    No one has control over life and death. Nobody would like to see their family suffering in an absence, and that’s why many people recommend life insurance. A life insurance plan is one of the best ways to secure the future of your family, even against those financial troubles after an untimely demise. These plans are safe and credible, and you could trust them for your family’s better future.

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    On the other hand, a life insurance policy is a contract between a company (insurance provider) and policyholder in which the insurance provider ensures to pay a certain amount of money to the nominated beneficiary in case of the policyholder’s death during the term of the agreement. There are different types of insurance plans, and it is important for you to know the benefits of those plans such as a funeral, medical or some life expenses provided they are mentioned in the agreement.

    Choosing the right insurance plan

    If you’re about to select an insurance plan, you should consider some important factors:

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    • The time at which you start investing in a program and the number of family members you want to get insured. Obviously, a married man with two children has different needs compared to a single one. The number of persons who are dependent on an individual also varies from person to person.
    • The next thing you need to consider is you and your family needs. What are your child’s dream, your retirement plans, for how long would your dependents need financial support, any personal injury, etc. And do not forget those events or situations that will surely demand a huge sum of money.
    • The next thing one must consider is your current income. You should preferably choose a plan which you can afford.

    Now you must be having a pretty clear idea of how to choose the best plan for you. Further, you should also compare various plans offered by different companies and numerous sites available online that help will you to compare them.

    Differences between life insurance plans

    Here’s a short brief of some plan categories you can choose according to your needs:

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    • Term Insurance Plan – You have to pay once, and your nominee gets the paid money under your misfortune demise. It ensures a person for a fixed time. If you survive the policy period, you do not get your premiums back.
    • Whole Life Policy – This plan continues for your lifetime. Under this, the policyholder has to pay regular premiums, until their death.
    • Endowment Policy –  In case the individual dies during the tenure, the beneficiary gets the amount assured. If the person survives the policy tenure, they gets back the premiums paid with other investment returns along with several other benefits.
    • Money Back Policy – In this a portion of the money invested is returned to the investor at regular intervals. If you survive the insurance term you get the entire amount back; else the beneficiary receives the entire sum assured.
    • ULIPs – These are the life insurance plans that offer you future security plus wealth creation options.

    Many people do not opt for whole life policy and endowment policy because of the high amount of money you need to pay, while others may prefer to opt for these if they have a high life expectancy. Surely you will find the best one for you.

    So what are you waiting for? Plan for your future and live a happier and carefree life today.

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