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Top 75 Creative Halloween Costumes for Every Occasion That Will Surely Impress You

Top 75 Creative Halloween Costumes for Every Occasion That Will Surely Impress You

Since Halloween is around the corner, here are some creative costume ideas for the whole family.

Tiny Tots

Need costume ideas for your little ones? Here are some creations that are more cute than creepy!

1. Audry Hepburn, “Breakfast at Tiffany’s”

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    Because every girl likes diamonds, no matter what age!

    2. Burrito Baby

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      Chipotle’s menu just got a lot cuter!

      3. Smurfs

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        Blue never goes out of style!

        4. Biker Baby

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          You can never go wrong with drawing facial hair and tattoos on babies.

          5. Albert Einstein

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            Baby Einstein has got nothing on this!

            6. Little Old Lady

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              Does your little one still need help walking? Work in a walker into their costume.

              7. Edward Scissorhands

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                Someone’s ready to shape some shrubbery.

                8. Dwight Schrute from “The Office”

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                  Some beets would make this costume!

                  9. Headless Boy

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                    Adding a candy bag inside and telling people to put the candy in the neck opening would cause this costume to be even more unforgettable.

                    10. Harry Potter and Fluffy

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                      Does the leash law apply to all three heads?

                      11. Gandhi

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                        Baby wisdom is the best! If only he could talk!

                        12. Baby Carl Fredricksen

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                          Any costume that incorporates balloons automatically makes you the coolest guy at the party. Just don’t add too many!

                          13. Eggs and Bacon

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                            Who doesn’t want to start their morning sunny side up?

                            14. Raggedy Ann

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                              Red heads just have more fun!

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                              15. Wilson from Castaway

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                                If Wilson was originally this cute, no one would ever allow him to float away.

                                For The One-Man Show

                                Do you want to make a strong solo statement? Then consider these suggestions.

                                1. Corpse Bride

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                                  Beauty and horror have never looked better!

                                  2. The Joker

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                                    The joker is both timeless and terrifying. And what guy doesn’t want to wear smeared lipstick?

                                    3. Question Man

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                                      Do you have trouble deciding what to be for Halloween? Maybe it’s time to just embrace that!

                                      4. Dr. Who

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                                        Becoming a timeless time lord is as simple as putting on a brown pin-stripped suit and glasses. Don’t forget your sonic screwdriver!

                                        5. Loofah

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                                          This is most likely the cleanest costume you will encounter.

                                          6. Despicable Me Minion

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                                            Everyone loves a minion! And the best part is that no one expects you to be articulate!

                                            7. Napoleon Dynamite

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                                              Embrace your inner listless teen. Just don’t crack a smile!

                                              8. Sheldon

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                                                Do you already know everything? Then choose a costume that allows you to call other people idiots and still stay in character.

                                                9. Jellyfish

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                                                  With this costume, you can’t wait for the sun to set to show off your iridescent style.

                                                  10. 50 Shades of Grey

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                                                    A trip to the hardware store for paint samples is all that’s needed for a literal interpretation of this steamy novel.

                                                    11. Firefox

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                                                      This is a great dual-purpose costume. Everyone wants to know, “What does the fox say?” If you hold onto the globe, your the Mozilla Firefox. If you drop the ball, you’re still a fox.

                                                      12. Grumpy Cat

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                                                        Can your grumpy face rival Grumpy Cat? Add some makeup and practice your pout.

                                                        13. Zombie Stormtrooper

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                                                          Star Wars meets Walking Dead is so crazy, it just might work!

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                                                          14. Head in a Box

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                                                            Don’t lose your head! And always remember to take it home at the end of the night.

                                                            15. Low Resolution Girl

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                                                              You don’t need to refocus your eyes, or upgrade your processing speed, as this picture doesn’t need to be adjusted.

                                                              Parents and Progeny

                                                              Because you still want to bring out your inner kid!

                                                              1. Wrecking Ball

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                                                                Celebrate that bump! You may not want to let your child know years later that he was once a wrecking ball for Halloween. But, you will certainly have the most interesting look at any party.

                                                                2. Surfer Dad with Shark

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                                                                  If all the sharks were this cute, more people would surf!

                                                                  3. Beetlejuice Family

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                                                                    Family pictures never looked so horrifying.

                                                                    4. Chefs with Lobster

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                                                                      Cutest dish ever!

                                                                      5. Nesting Dolls

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                                                                        If you have lots of women of different ages and heights in your family, then this is a great group costume.

                                                                        6. Little Shop of Horrors

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                                                                          Grab the Round-Up!

                                                                          7. Labyrinth

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                                                                            Who doesn’t love a little Bowie?

                                                                            8. Alien Baby

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                                                                              This kid is in a huge hurry to go trick or treating!

                                                                              9. You’re the Treat

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                                                                                If you want kids to run away screaming, then this is your costume! And, it’s as simple as a t-shirt.

                                                                                10. The Incredibles

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                                                                                  Do you think your clan is the most incredible group of people on the planet? Then this super family fits!

                                                                                  11. Spider and Web

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                                                                                    Along came a spider, and it was adorable!

                                                                                    12. Addams Family

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                                                                                      Borrow a friendly Puli puppy to play Cousin Itt and complete the family.

                                                                                      13. Alice in Wonderland

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                                                                                        Even if the white rabbit is late, he’s so cute, no one will care!

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                                                                                        14. Lord of the Rings

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                                                                                          These hobbit “prisoners” don’t seem to be in too much trouble.

                                                                                          15. Farm Family

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                                                                                            Farming may make a comeback if the result is livestock as sweet as these two.

                                                                                            Dynamic Duos

                                                                                            Because two is always better than one.

                                                                                            1. Buttercup and the Dread Pirate Roberts

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                                                                                              Because every girl wants her man to say, “As you wish!” all the time.

                                                                                              2. Avatar Couple

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                                                                                                With that much blue, everyone else will “see you” too!

                                                                                                3. Lightening Love

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                                                                                                  Love struck takes on a whole new meaning with this costume idea.

                                                                                                  4. Google Maps

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                                                                                                    Going from point A to point B just got a lot more hip.

                                                                                                    5. French Chef and a Croquembouche

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                                                                                                      You always knew you were his tasty dish, but this look takes it to a whole new level.

                                                                                                      6. Wall E and Eve

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                                                                                                        It seems that if you’re a human or robot, opposites still attract.

                                                                                                        7. Dumb and Dumber

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                                                                                                          This is your chance to wear the ugliest tux you can find and crash a party. Just don’t forget to drive up on the scooter!

                                                                                                          8. YouTube Player Costume

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                                                                                                            Ever feel like your life is a movie? This costume lets you live that theme. You can also write your wish for how the evening will go, and see what happens!

                                                                                                            9. Autopsy Gone Wrong

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                                                                                                              You can have a costume and an anatomy lesson all in one.

                                                                                                              10. Khaleesi and Drogo

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                                                                                                                The Mother of Dragons always makes a powerful statement wherever she goes.

                                                                                                                11. Mr. and Mrs. Packman

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                                                                                                                  Relive this vintage game by going out as this classic couple.

                                                                                                                  12. Tooth and Fairy

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                                                                                                                    Every girl likes to dress up like a fairy; and what guy doesn’t like to wear a crown? This costume makes everyone happy!

                                                                                                                    13. Ken and Barbie

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                                                                                                                      You may have to step out of the box to bust a move; but as long as you stay in, your hair will always be in mint condition.

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                                                                                                                      14. Flower and Bee

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                                                                                                                        What better pairing is there than a flower and a bee?

                                                                                                                        15. Shrek and Fiona

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                                                                                                                          Fairy tales are made to be messed with, and Shrek and Fiona are the ultimate not-so-fairy-tale couple. They prove that you can still live happily ever after, even if you’re green and live in a swamp.

                                                                                                                          Partners in Crime

                                                                                                                          Do you have a fun group hitting the town on Halloween? Get together and find a costume connection.

                                                                                                                          1. Go Greyscale

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                                                                                                                            Your friends will do a double take when you show up in gray-scale mode.

                                                                                                                            2. Lego Men

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                                                                                                                              You can’t go wrong with a group of Lego guys!

                                                                                                                              3. Trophy

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                                                                                                                                Feeling athletic? You and your friends can become a walking trophy case by striking a pose with some gold paint.

                                                                                                                                4. Tetras

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                                                                                                                                  If your group friendship is a perfect fit, why not celebrate that?

                                                                                                                                  5. Toy Soldier Troop

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                                                                                                                                    Got a group of guys? Grab the green and the guns and go!

                                                                                                                                    6. Peanuts Gang

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                                                                                                                                      If you’re dressed as Snoopy and Woodstock, don’t forget to bring your dance moves and the Peanuts theme song to the party.

                                                                                                                                      7. Ninja Turtles

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                                                                                                                                        When four friends dress up as green ninja reptiles, you could be the heroes in a half shell for the evening.

                                                                                                                                        8. Blue Man Group

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                                                                                                                                          Blue and bald never looked so good!

                                                                                                                                          9. Roller Coaster

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                                                                                                                                            This costume idea is guaranteed to set your evening up for a wild ride.

                                                                                                                                            10. Hocus Pocus

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                                                                                                                                              With this group theme, you and two friends will be the hippest witches on the block.

                                                                                                                                              11. Flintstones

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                                                                                                                                                Dress up your dog as Dino, and you’re ready to hit the streets.

                                                                                                                                                12. Umpa Lumpas

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                                                                                                                                                  Green hair and orange face paint becomes cooler in numbers.

                                                                                                                                                  13. Angry Birds

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                                                                                                                                                    Want to have a group egg fight? At least with this look you can stay in character.

                                                                                                                                                    14. Taco Bell Sauces

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                                                                                                                                                      The only thing spicier than this costume concept is the saucy sayings.

                                                                                                                                                      15. M&Ms

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                                                                                                                                                        This group looks good enough to eat!

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                                                                                                                                                        How to Be Confident: 51 Proven Ways to Build Self-Confidence

                                                                                                                                                        How to Be Confident: 51 Proven Ways to Build Self-Confidence

                                                                                                                                                        When you learn how to be confident, you can use it in your everyday life to tackle all of your goals and challenges. However, not many people realize that learning how to gain self-confidence is like building a muscle—it grows in response to the level of performance required of it.

                                                                                                                                                        Here I will give you 51 proven ways to overcome a lack of self-confidence and achieve more.

                                                                                                                                                        1. Learn Something New

                                                                                                                                                        Sign up for that evening class and enjoy it. Alternatively, read a book (or take an online course) on a topic you’ve always wanted to learn more about.

                                                                                                                                                        Learning new things stretches your abilities, keeps your mind active, and most definitely improves your confidence in your ability to do new things.

                                                                                                                                                        2. Ask Your Partner or a Friend What You Can Do For Them

                                                                                                                                                        This can be something as easy as helping them with a chore they don’t like or have little time for. Through helping them, you’ll find that you feel better about yourself.

                                                                                                                                                        3. Hit the Gym

                                                                                                                                                        The physiological effects of going to the gym will leave you feeling great.

                                                                                                                                                        Countless studies have shown that regular workouts at the gym can boost not only your sense of well-being, but can increase your self-esteem, too[1].

                                                                                                                                                        4. Go to a Networking Event

                                                                                                                                                        Rather than being nervous about your own stuff, focus on how to help others. Instead of going along with the aim of trying to sell yourself to others, why not change your approach and simply go along to see how you can help the people you meet?

                                                                                                                                                        By doing this, you’ll come across as calm, confident, and someone that people will want to turn to again and again.

                                                                                                                                                        5. Get Clear on the Things That Matter to You

                                                                                                                                                        If these things are not in your life, you’ll need to bring them in.

                                                                                                                                                        For example, if your daily work routine is currently as dull as dishwater—but you’d like it to be fun—then do something about it. Turn data entry into personal speed contests, paper filing into “screen-free” time, and interactions with your colleagues into enjoyable conversations.

                                                                                                                                                        6. Remove Negativity From Your Life

                                                                                                                                                        Write a list of the things you’re tolerating and putting up with in your life, then write down how you can remove, minimize, or diminish each one.

                                                                                                                                                        I personally like to do this with pen and paper as it feels just a little more real and definite than on screen. It’s also a good idea to put the priority items at the top of your list, so you can begin resolving these first.

                                                                                                                                                        7. Celebrate Your Big and Small Wins

                                                                                                                                                        Look at the big or small goals you’ve completed, and give yourself credit for your part in it.

                                                                                                                                                        Recognizing your achievements is not egotistical, it’s healthy.

                                                                                                                                                        8. Converse With New People

                                                                                                                                                        Go and have a conversation with someone you don’t know. By doing this, you may be pleasantly surprised by what—or who—you’ll discover.

                                                                                                                                                        You can also extend this trait by breaking outside of your normal social situations at your workplace. This will do wonders when learning how to be confident.

                                                                                                                                                        9. Do Something You Would Normally Say No to

                                                                                                                                                        Next time you talk yourself out of doing something (a party invite, a challenging project, etc.), go and do it anyway. This is a great way to boost personal development.

                                                                                                                                                        10. Do One Thing Each Day That Makes You Smile

                                                                                                                                                        This could be something as simple as sending a thank you email to a colleague that has been helpful to you, or leaving a surprise present for your partner that they’ll discover when they wake up.

                                                                                                                                                        Life shouldn’t be drudgery, and we all need to make the effort to keep it light, loving, and fun.

                                                                                                                                                        11. Give Yourself Good Advice

                                                                                                                                                        Look for the patterns of thought that take you to a place where you start second-guessing or overthinking.

                                                                                                                                                        Now imagine that your best friend went through exactly the same thought process and ended up holding themselves back—what would you want to say to them?

                                                                                                                                                        This is known as Soloman’s Paradox—we’re often quite good at solving others’ problems but not our own. Challenge this and take your own good advice next time[2].

                                                                                                                                                        12. Ask Someone on a Date

                                                                                                                                                        If you’re single and have met someone that you’re definitely attracted to—go ahead and ask them out.

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                                                                                                                                                        Even if they turn you down, it will help you learn how to be confident through the fact that you were decisive and made an effort. What’s the best thing that could happen? They might just say yes!

                                                                                                                                                        13. Write Down 20 Things That Make You Feel Good

                                                                                                                                                        Think of this as a gratitude list. Typical things you might include are: your partner, your kids, your parents, your pets, etc.

                                                                                                                                                        I recommend writing this list at least once a month. And most importantly—make sure you’re giving the 20 things plenty of room in your life.

                                                                                                                                                        14. Stop Playing Different Roles

                                                                                                                                                        Stop playing different roles and squeezing yourself into boxes based on what you think people expect of you.

                                                                                                                                                        Be your authentic self, the one who knows what to do and loves what they do. It’s easy to find this part of yourself as it’s inherent in your hobbies and your close friendships.

                                                                                                                                                        If you can bring this authenticity into your work life, you’ll be surprised at how positively others will react to you.

                                                                                                                                                        15. Cultivate a Positive Mindset

                                                                                                                                                        Learn to catch yourself every time you tell yourself that you can’t have, won’t get, or aren’t good enough to get what you want[3].

                                                                                                                                                        Talk yourself up when learning how to be confident.

                                                                                                                                                          Instead, tell yourself that you can have, will get, and are good enough to get what you want. Mindset is everything. Make sure yours is positive and dynamic.

                                                                                                                                                          16. Take Yourself off Auto-Pilot

                                                                                                                                                          Make deliberate decisions on what really matters to you.

                                                                                                                                                          For instance, if you normally work 9 to 5 but find yourself spending hours getting to and from work, why not negotiate with your boss to mix your hours up a bit?

                                                                                                                                                          You might also suggest a day or two working from home. Sell this to your boss by reminding them that the time and stress lost to commuting can be neatly transferred to productive work hours.

                                                                                                                                                          17. Listen Carefully to What You Tell Yourself

                                                                                                                                                          Next time you come up against a risk or a challenge, listen to what you tell yourself, and look for a way to improve your inner dialogue.

                                                                                                                                                          If you normally find that your inner dialogue is negative, then break out of this by asking yourself questions such as:

                                                                                                                                                          • What would make this easier?
                                                                                                                                                          • Is there a different way of doing this?
                                                                                                                                                          • Could research help?

                                                                                                                                                          18. Laugh at Yourself

                                                                                                                                                          Scared of looking silly? It’s no biggie, so don’t let it stop you.

                                                                                                                                                          Whenever we try something new, there’s a fair chance that we’ll make fools of ourselves. But you’d be a bigger fool to let that stop you. Instead, laugh at your baby steps and watch your confidence soar as you begin to master your chosen activity.

                                                                                                                                                          19. Listen to Your Doubts

                                                                                                                                                          Sometimes your doubts are there to let you know what you need to prepare for, so you can use them to your benefit as you move forwards. Other times, they are just doubts.

                                                                                                                                                          The trick is to quickly determine if your doubts have validity. If they do, use them to shape your decisions.

                                                                                                                                                          To illustrate this, imagine that you’ve had an enticing job offer, but you doubt whether you’re capable of doing the job. Spend a little time analyzing your doubts to see whether they reflect reality, or whether they are just negative thoughts that are trying to hold you back.

                                                                                                                                                          20. Recall a Time When You Did a Great Job

                                                                                                                                                          Think of a time when it felt like a whole bank of switches in your head flicked to the on position, and you were firing on all cylinders. What were you doing, and what’s the reason it felt so great? Can you emulate that passion and drive that you had?

                                                                                                                                                          21. Tear up Your Rule Book

                                                                                                                                                          You may not know it, but you’ve almost certainly got a whole bunch of outdated rules that determine what you do and don’t do. These rules limit your thinking and your behavior.

                                                                                                                                                          It’s time to change them. Tear up this subconscious rule book and toss it in the fire. Once you’ve done this, you’ll immediately notice how free you feel to make challenging and exciting decisions.

                                                                                                                                                          22. Ask Yourself What You Have Gained When You Lose

                                                                                                                                                          Do you get annoyed with yourself because you didn’t make the most of something or stepped back from an opportunity?

                                                                                                                                                          Firstly, don’t beat yourself up because that’s just going to make you feel worse. Instead, be brutally honest and ask yourself what you gained from the situation and what you lost out on.

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                                                                                                                                                          Based on this win/lose balance, what’s a different choice you can make next time?

                                                                                                                                                          23. Don’t Let People Put You Down

                                                                                                                                                          If there’s someone in your life who puts you down or makes you feel small, you owe it to yourself to let them know that you expect something different from now on. 

                                                                                                                                                          Trust me, once you’ve told them, they’ll change, and you will, too. Inevitably, you’ll boost both your confidence and happiness by taking control of your life in this way.

                                                                                                                                                          Learn how to get out of toxic relationships in this article.

                                                                                                                                                          24. Reveal a Little Bit of the Real You

                                                                                                                                                          Relationships can be difficult. They can also lose their zest and become stale. If this happens in your relationship, then it’s time to add some magic to the mix.

                                                                                                                                                          Try revealing something interesting about yourself or your past that your partner doesn’t currently know when learning how to be confident. Perhaps you never mentioned to them that you used to play in a rock band—and you still have the recordings to prove it!

                                                                                                                                                          By adding new things to your relationship, you’ll deepen the bond and keep the spark alive.

                                                                                                                                                          25. Be Your Own Hero

                                                                                                                                                          Recognize that you’re more than a match for any situation you might find yourself in—no matter how tough the going gets.

                                                                                                                                                          We all love movies like Die Hard where ordinary people are driven to super-ordinary feats. But here’s the rub: you can be your own action hero.

                                                                                                                                                          Whatever the situation, meet it head on and overcome it. Keep in mind the classic phrase: “Where there’s a will, there’s a way.”

                                                                                                                                                          26. Don’t Give in to the Instant Pay-off

                                                                                                                                                          If I was to offer you $100 now for a day’s work tomorrow or $110 for the same work, but I won’t pay you for a week, which would you choose? Well, I can’t read your mind, but I do know that studies using a similar question to this have found that most people choose the instant, smaller payment over the latter, bigger payment. It seems that we’re hardwired for instant gratification.

                                                                                                                                                          However, if you want to be a success in life, always look at the bigger picture. In the example above, if you could have only waited seven more days, you would have been $10 richer!

                                                                                                                                                          27. Instead of Yelling “I Deserve Better,” Say “I Can Be Better”

                                                                                                                                                          Too often I hear people complaining about their personal circumstances but refusing to do anything about it. Don’t be like them.

                                                                                                                                                          If things aren’t going your way, find solutions and implement them. Your boldness and decisiveness will boost your confidence and help you rapidly climb the ladder of success.

                                                                                                                                                          28. Admit You’re Wrong

                                                                                                                                                          It may not be easy, but you should always be prepared to hold your hands up and change your mind if things are going south. Not every idea you have will be a winning one. The trick is to know when things are clearly not working out.

                                                                                                                                                          You can either attempt to get them back on track or kill them off completely (sometimes that’s the best way).

                                                                                                                                                          29. Trust Your Instincts

                                                                                                                                                          We all have our gut feelings and intuitions, but many people choose to ignore them and rely only on facts, facts, and more facts! While this may work for many scenarios, there will be other times when you’ll need to rely on your instincts.

                                                                                                                                                          30. Imagine Your Confident Future Self

                                                                                                                                                          Imagine you’re visited by a successful, confident, attractive, and vibrant version of you from the future, a version of you who’s everything you hope to be. What do they want to tell you?

                                                                                                                                                          They might praise your efforts, but they may also criticize your lack of planning and weak goals.

                                                                                                                                                          Luckily, if you listen closely to what they tell you, you’ll be able to rapidly shift gears in your life and become the you of the future!

                                                                                                                                                          31. Ask for Help

                                                                                                                                                          This is a common issue. We take on way too many responsibilities and end up either burning ourselves out or just doing a bad job!

                                                                                                                                                          The secret is to put the vast majority of your energy and efforts into what you do well. Give the stuff you don’t do well to others who have a gift for it. Sometimes the most confident and effective thing to do is ask for help.

                                                                                                                                                          32. Be Around People Who Make You Feel Like You

                                                                                                                                                          Do this by spending more time with the people who support and encourage you and less time with those who undermine you.

                                                                                                                                                          At work, don’t be ruined by negative, petty people. Instead, make sure you surround yourself with colleagues who make you laugh and feel good about yourself.

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                                                                                                                                                          33. Participate in the World Around You

                                                                                                                                                          Ask yourself this question: “What can I participate in that’s important to me?”

                                                                                                                                                          Typically, this could be your church, a sports club, or even just a weekly get together with your best friend.

                                                                                                                                                          34. Develop Skills to Work on Things That Matter to You

                                                                                                                                                          What can you practice that would radically improve your chances of winning?

                                                                                                                                                          If you want to climb the corporate ladder, for example, then develop the skills needed to do this. These might include: effective project management skills, powerful presentation abilities, and superb goal setting skills.

                                                                                                                                                          Of course, don’t forget that emulating those who have already achieved your goal is one of the quickest and most reliable ways for you to achieve your aims, too.

                                                                                                                                                          35. Act Until You Make It

                                                                                                                                                          The body is a mirror for the mind, so shifting your body language into a confident state can have surprising results.

                                                                                                                                                          This is all about acting. If you want to come across as tough, act tough. If you want to come across as successful, act successful. And if you want to come across as confident, act confident.

                                                                                                                                                          Try doing these things, and you’ll be amazed by the results.

                                                                                                                                                          36. Push Through When You Want to Give up

                                                                                                                                                          Don’t get disheartened or demotivated when you get to 90% with something you’re working on. Push through, and you’ll see that the last 10% is where the magic happens.

                                                                                                                                                          37. Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

                                                                                                                                                          Keep comparing yourself to others? Stop it. If you want to learn how to be confident, don’t try to validate yourself through comparison—you’re just peachy as you are.

                                                                                                                                                          Social media often makes this difficult. Try stepping away from your Facebook page for a few days and reconnect with the great things in your own life.

                                                                                                                                                          You can get started with this guide.

                                                                                                                                                          38. Speak up When You Can Make a Difference

                                                                                                                                                          Speak up if there’s something you think could be improved or if you have an idea you think has legs.

                                                                                                                                                          Have you noticed that quiet people at work rarely get the promotions? It’s not that they are incapable or lacking talent, but their abilities are usually overlooked as they don’t know how to engage with others or how to sell themselves.

                                                                                                                                                          Step out of your comfort zone and be sure that you’re an active player. Speak up in meetings by suggesting ideas and offering constructive criticism.

                                                                                                                                                          39. Stop Struggling and Start Accepting

                                                                                                                                                          If there’s something you’ve been struggling to understand for a while, stop trying to understand it. Accept it just as it is, fully and wholly.

                                                                                                                                                          Life offers endless mysteries. If you try to resolve them all you’ll drive yourself insane. Instead, let some mysteries remain, and keep your mind focused on your goals and dreams.

                                                                                                                                                          40. It’s Okay to Be Shy

                                                                                                                                                          There’s nothing wrong with being shy, and it doesn’t mean you’re not a confident person.

                                                                                                                                                          If you suffer from shyness, you might think it’s a major weakness of yours. However, introverted people have the edge in many ways, such as: they’re first-rate listeners, they have excellent observational skills, and they’re easier to trust[4].

                                                                                                                                                          41. Clean up Your Environment

                                                                                                                                                          Your environment directly impacts your self-perception. So, if you’re surrounded by clutter, paperwork, and rubbish, put a morning aside to clean up your stuff and get organized.

                                                                                                                                                          42. Write a List of Things You Would Love to Do

                                                                                                                                                          Write yourself a list of the amazing things you’d love to do in your life, and make a start by simply looking into the first one or two things that leap out at you. This will help you get started as you learn how to be confident

                                                                                                                                                          Even if you don’t currently have the means to live your dreams, you can, at the very least, make a start. The best way to do this is to write out the things you’d love to do. These may include cool stuff, such as travelling the world, learning a new language, or climbing a mountain.

                                                                                                                                                          Once you’ve added the items to your list, don’t stop there. Begin researching and preparing ways to turn your dreams into realities.

                                                                                                                                                          43. Make Your Self-Worth Independent From Others’ Validation

                                                                                                                                                          Don’t make your happiness or self-worth dependent on being in a relationship or being validated by someone else.

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                                                                                                                                                          While it’s difficult to admit it, we often find ourselves rating our self-esteem by the value other people put on us.

                                                                                                                                                          For instance, you may have a super-positive boss who is always encouraging and supportive. They make you feel upbeat and confident at all times.

                                                                                                                                                          However, imagine if they left and your new boss was the complete opposite. They constantly look for faults in your work and regularly criticize you. Would you still feel confident in those circumstances?

                                                                                                                                                          If you’ve answered no, then you need to reappraise your self-worth, as it shouldn’t be dependent on the validation of others.

                                                                                                                                                          44. Use Your Strengths

                                                                                                                                                          We all have our weaknesses, but they only undermine your confidence if you let them.

                                                                                                                                                          For instance, are you aware that Virgin’s founder Richard Branson suffers from dyslexia? He never let this hold him back or destroy his confidence. Today, he is one of the world’s most successful men, with a net worth of approximately $5 billion[5].

                                                                                                                                                          45. Complete a To-Do List

                                                                                                                                                          The longer you leave that big thing on your to-do list, the more it’ll drain you, and the bigger it’ll seem. Get it done and free yourself up.

                                                                                                                                                          If you have a big goal, break it down into smaller tasks. For instance, instead of trying to write a whole chapter of your book in one go, how about just writing the opening paragraph?

                                                                                                                                                          46. Treat Your Body Well

                                                                                                                                                          When learning how to be confident, our body image does matter, because if you have a bad relationship with your body, you won’t feel confident in yourself.

                                                                                                                                                          What’s one of the first things most of us do when we get up in the morning? We look in the mirror. If we don’t like what we see there, then our day starts off with negative self-talk. If, on the other hand, we look in the mirror and feel proud of our appearance, then we start the day off in an upbeat, positive way.

                                                                                                                                                          If you’re unhappy with your body and looks, do something to improve them. Exercise, diet, and styling are common ways of improving your body image—and your confidence.

                                                                                                                                                          47. Learn to Say No

                                                                                                                                                          Don’t say yes to taking on a task simply because you don’t want to rock the boat. You can politely decline requests you can’t meet without needing to create excuses.

                                                                                                                                                          While saying yes to everything that comes your way might feel like you’re being helpful and in demand, in the long run, you’ll burn yourself out.

                                                                                                                                                          48. Learn From Confident People

                                                                                                                                                          Look at the people you respect who seem confident. Don’t copy them, but identify what it is they do differently that conveys confidence and what you can learn from it.

                                                                                                                                                          People-watching is not only fun, but it can be informative, too. Look closely at successful people you know, or those being interviewed on TV, and over time you’ll begin to notice common traits, beliefs, and behaviors that they exhibit.

                                                                                                                                                          49. Follow Through on Your Plans

                                                                                                                                                          Most people find it easy to write plans. The hard part, of course, is seeing them through. To stand out from the crowd, make sure that you know exactly how to complete your plans.

                                                                                                                                                          If you need to, write down a step-by-step guide and begin following it. Not only will this drive you towards the completion of your plans—but experiencing the progress will also give you a continuous boost to your self-esteem.

                                                                                                                                                          50. Shift Your Focus When You Doubt Yourself

                                                                                                                                                          When you feel yourself focusing inwards and becoming paralyzed with doubt or fear, switch to focusing outwards at what you can engage and interact with.

                                                                                                                                                          I remember one of my writing tutors telling me that when the words stop flowing, it’s time to take a break— preferably a walk in the park. It’s sound advice as it’s very easy to get caught up with our thoughts and emotions and be unable to make progress.

                                                                                                                                                          51. Never Beat Yourself up for Failing

                                                                                                                                                          Life is guaranteed to not always be a barrel of laughs. Instead, it’s much more like a roller coaster. There will be ups and downs, so ride them out.

                                                                                                                                                          The art of living is to know how to handle whatever comes you way. The best way to achieve this is by developing an iron core that is unhindered by the topsy-turvy outside world.

                                                                                                                                                          Final Thoughts

                                                                                                                                                          Here I’ve given you 51 different ways to start building self-confidence Take action on the ways that you’re drawn to.

                                                                                                                                                          It’s not enough to read about them. For them to work, you must adopt them into your daily life. Do this, and you’ll start to feel your confidence soar.

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