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Overcoming Your Greatest Challenge Is One Thought Away

Overcoming Your Greatest Challenge Is One Thought Away

Are you struggling to overcome a big challenge in your life? Feeling stressed or anxious? Do you have a phobia of something or has life and the world got you down? Well all this could be a thing of the past if you choose to take the advice of internationally renowned success coach and best selling author Michael Neill.

Over the past 24 years Mr Neill has worked as a “coach, adviser, friend, mentor, and creative spark plug to celebrities, CEOs, royalty, and people who want to get more out of themselves and their lives.”

He has dedicated his life to helping people understand the vast, untapped resource that is inside all of us: our human potential. In his incredibly inspiring Tedx Bend Talk he tells us how we can utilize our potential and overcome any challenge by changing the way we think about it.

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“We are thinking beings and we actually live in the feeling of our thinking, not the feeling of the world. When you begin to understand that every experience that you have is created from the inside out, it fundamentally changes your relationship to experience.”  – Michael Neill interview on soulove.com

If we live in a world that is created by our thoughts, we can significantly change that world by altering our thoughts.  If our thinking towards a situation is negative, that situation continues to be a struggle and is possibly something we never overcome.  For example, “I’m too old to do that,” “I’m not smart enough,” or “I don’t have enough experience,” are all fear based thoughts and examples of ways we limit ourselves.

By changing our thoughts around a situation, we see it differently and experience it differently.  If we are encouraging and positive with ourselves we can remove our self-imposed limits or barriers.  We can make ourselves “awesomer.”

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In his latest book The Inside-Out Revolution, Mr. Neill shares a new understanding of how life works.  His approach is built on three principles that explain where our feelings come from and how our experience of life can transform for the better in a matter of moments.

“Because we’ve been conditioned from birth to believe in the myth of an outside-in world, we assume the path back to well-being and joy and peace of mind must be through getting a better job or a better partner or working on becoming a better person. The irony is that the harder we work on changing ourselves in order to change the way we feel, the more distant we become from our true self, and the more important it seems to work on all those things, and the more lost we become.

So, regardless of what ‘problem’ we think we have, our only real problem is feeling cut off from our innate wisdom and well-being. And the moment we reconnect to that source energy, our problems stop being so problematic and we move into a new reality” – Michael Neill on Supercoach.com

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Sounds like a man who knows what he’s talking about, right? Consider this passage from a recent article Neill wrote in the Huffington Post.

“If you go outside and it’s snowing, you don’t have to fix the weather. You simply put on some more appropriate clothes or go back inside and wait until the storm has passed. Because no matter how bad the weather seems, the sun is always shining in the background…”

You can read more of Michael Neill’s teachings in his other books You Can Have What You Want and Supercoach: 10 Secrets to Transform Anyone’s Life or by listening to his audio programs Effortless Success and Coaching from the Inside-Out.  For more information go to: http://www.supercoach.com/

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If you have a few spare minutes the Tedx Bend Talk above is worth a watch.  I would love to hear your thoughts on it in the comments below.

Featured photo credit: GORE-TEX® Athlete Ines Papert climbing/GORE-TEX® Products via flickr.com

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Last Updated on September 20, 2018

How to Stay Calm and Cool When You Are Extremely Stressful

How to Stay Calm and Cool When You Are Extremely Stressful

Being in a hurry all the time drains your energy. Your work and routine life make you feel overwhelmed. Getting caught up in things beyond your control stresses you out…

If you’d like to stay calm and cool in stressful situations, put the following 8 steps into practice:

1. Breathe

The next time you’re faced with a stressful situation that makes you want to hurry, stop what you’re doing for one minute and perform the following steps:

  • Take five deep breaths in and out (your belly should come forward with each inhale).
  • Imagine all that stress leaving your body with each exhale.
  • Smile. Fake it if you have to. It’s pretty hard to stay grumpy with a goofy grin on your face.

Feel free to repeat the above steps every few hours at work or home if you need to.

2. Loosen up

After your breathing session, perform a quick body scan to identify any areas that are tight or tense. Clenched jaw? Rounded shoulders? Anything else that isn’t at ease?

Gently touch or massage any of your body parts that are under tension to encourage total relaxation. It might help to imagine you’re in a place that calms you: a beach, hot tub, or nature trail, for example.

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3. Chew slowly

Slow down at the dinner table if you want to learn to be patient and lose weight. Shoveling your food down as fast as you can is a surefire way to eat more than you need to (and find yourself with a bellyache).

Be a mindful eater who pays attention to the taste, texture, and aroma of every dish. Chew slowly while you try to guess all of the ingredients that were used to prepare your dish.

Chewing slowly will also reduce those dreadful late-night cravings that sneak up on you after work.

4. Let go

Cliche as it sounds, it’s very effective.

The thing that seems like the end of the world right now?

It’s not. Promise.

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Stressing and worrying about the situation you’re in won’t do any good because you’re already in it, so just let it go.

Letting go isn’t easy, so here’s a guide to help you:

21 Things To Do When You Find It Hard To Let Go

5. Enjoy the journey

Focusing on the end result can quickly become exhausting. Chasing a bold, audacious goal that’s going to require a lot of time and patience? Split it into several mini-goals so you’ll have several causes for celebration.

Stop focusing on the negative thoughts. Giving yourself consistent positive feedback will help you grow patience, stay encouraged, and find more joy in the process of achieving your goals.

6. Look at the big picture

The next time you find your stress level skyrocketing, take a deep breath, and ask yourself:

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Will this matter to me…

  • Next week?
  • Next month?
  • Next year?
  • In 10 years?

Hint: No, it won’t.

I bet most of the stuff that stresses you wouldn’t matter the next week, maybe not even the next day.

Stop agonizing over things you can’t control because you’re only hurting yourself.

7. Stop demanding perfection of yourself

You’re not perfect and that’s okay. Show me a person who claims to be perfect and I’ll show you a dirty liar.

Demanding perfection of yourself (or anybody else) will only stress you out because it just isn’t possible.

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8. Practice patience every day

Below are a few easy ways you can practice patience every day, increasing your ability to remain calm and cool in times of stress:

  • The next time you go to the grocery store, get in the longest line.
  • Instead of going through the drive-thru at your bank, go inside.
  • Take a long walk through a secluded park or trail.

Final thoughts

Staying calm in stressful situations is possible, all you need is some daily practice.

Taking deep breaths and eat mindfully are some simple ways to train your brain to be more patient. But changing the way you think of a situation and staying positive are most important in keeping cool whenever you feel overwhelmed and stressful.

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