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Next Saturday (or maybe the one after that) is “Doing Nothing Day”

Next Saturday (or maybe the one after that) is “Doing Nothing Day”
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Today is Columbus Day in the USA and Thanksgiving in Canada. We have commemorative days for famous people, famous events and (in many parts of the world) religious festivals. I want to suggest that you establish a special day specially for yourself: for allowing yourself time and space to be who you are—and to look a little more deeply into what you’re doing and why you’re doing it.

You can call it Doing Nothing Day, and celebrate it as often as you need it.

What happens on Doing Nothing Day?
Absolutely nothing. That’s the whole purpose of it: a day free from striving and achieving and getting and coping with everyone else’s demands. A day for yourself, when you can walk or sit and think without celebrating, observing, or honoring anything or anyone besides yourself. No working, no worrying, no planning, no socializing, no sitting slumped in front of the TV.

On Doing Nothing Day, stay in the moment, holding onto nothing, striving after no thought or ambition or goal. Be who you are,
without judgment, fear or concern.

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Slow down. Stop worrying about anything; it will all be there tomorrow, ready for you to begin fretting and obsessing over again. For today—Doing Nothing Day—spend the time with yourself. Get to know this person, the person you are. In all the rush and bustle of the world, you’ve probably become strangers. Take time out to be together, find out about one another, to become friends again.

Above all, do nothing. Be like the House of Lords in Gilbert and Sullivan’s operetta, who “. . . did nothing in particular—and did it very well.” Try not to focus on getting anything done, even thinking. Take a walk. Look around. Just be.

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You’re alive, which is a marvel in itself, and one that won’t last for ever. Enjoy it.

Every little helps . . .
If you can’t manage a day, hold a Doing Nothing Morning, or even a Doing Nothing Hour. Anything will be useful. Allowing yourself to do nothing from time to time is wonderfully good for your mental health and well-being.

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You spend so much time thinking about what you’re going to do and trying to accomplish all the things you plan. Take a little time off. Spend it living your life, not living your ambitions, or someone else’s plans and needs, or some conventional idea you only half believe in. Rediscover the wonder of doing nothing in particular, like a child spending hours engrossed in nothing you could easily describe other than being a child and enjoying being alive.

When your Doing Nothing Day is over, I think you’ll return to your usual activities refreshed, renewed, and a tad more alive than before.

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I’ll also be surprised if you don’t return with some surprising insights.

Try it. You have nothing to lose.

Adrian Savage is a writer, an Englishman, and a retired business executive, in that order, who now lives in Tucson, Arizona. You can read his other articles at Slow Leadership, the site for everyone who wants to build a civilized place to work and bring back the taste, zest and satisfaction to leadership and life, and its companion site Slower Living. His recent articles on similar topics include lRight Attention and How to find all the time you need. His latest book, Slow Leadership: Civilizing The Organization

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    Last Updated on July 18, 2019

    10 Small Changes To Make Your House Feel Like A Home

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    Your house is more than just a building that you live in. It should be a home that makes you feel welcome as soon as you open the front door.

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    1. Make the Windows Your Own

    When you move into a home, they often come with boring Venetian blinds or less than attractive curtains.

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    If you have a lot of bare walls in your home, it will seem sterile no matter how beautiful your paint or wallpaper is.

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    Hanging art on the walls will instantly give it personality and make it feel like home.

    3. Improve the Aroma

    A house that is not filled with inviting smells will never feel like a home. There are loads of ways you can make your home smell nice. There are tons of air fresheners on the market you can use.

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    4. Put out Lots of Pillows and Throws

    A great way to make your home look warm and inviting is to place lots of pillows and throws out on the furniture. It is much better to have too many pillows than not enough.

    There is nothing like the feeling of sinking into a cushiony pillow that feels like a cloud to make you feel like you are at home.

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    5. Instantly Class up Your Closet

    If your closet is filled with wire or plastic hangers, it will never truly feel homey. To instantly make your closet feel classy, change out your old hangers for wooden ones.

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    6. Improve Your Air Quality

    One of the most overlooked ways to make your house feel more like a home is to improve its air quality.

    The easiest and best way to upgrade the air quality in your home is to change the old, dirty filters in your furnace regularly. Get some air filters delivered to your home so that you always have some on hand.

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    Another way to improve the air quality in your home is to fill it with plants. You should have plants in every room of your home.

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    They help to improve the air quality and they look beautiful. As well as making your home appear homier, plants also help to boost your mood and lower your stress levels.

    8. Change the Doorknobs

    Most people don’t really give their doorknobs a second thought unless they are broken. That is a shame because changing your doorknobs is an easy way to add personality to your home.

    Changing your old, boring doorknobs to new ones that are works of art will instantly brighten your home.

    9. Upgrade Your Tub or Shower

    There is nothing like luxuriating in a whirlpool bath or steam shower to make the cares of the day melt away. Your family deserves a bit of luxury when they are in their bathroom.

    Install a new shower or tub today to make your bathroom worthy of a place in your home.

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    10. Fresh Cut Flowers

    You can make any room in your house feel homier by placing a vase full of beautiful flowers in it. The gorgeous look and intoxicating aroma of fresh cut flowers will immediately brighten your day when you encounter them.

    You don’t have to make all these changes at once. Try one or two a day though, and your house will feel like a home before you know it. The trick is to constantly keep adding these homey touches to make your home a place worthy of its name.

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