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Improve Your Relationship with Food: 7 Ways to Stop Eating Mindlessly

Improve Your Relationship with Food: 7 Ways to Stop Eating Mindlessly

Are you really hungry or was that just a craving? Lose weight and improve your relationship with food by following these 7 methods to stop eating mindlessly.

Slow the (Bleep) Down

“One cannot think well, love well, sleep well, if one has not dined well.” – Virginia Woolf

Tell me if this sounds familiar: you empty your plate at the restaurant and feel just fine, but about 30 minutes later, you find yourself with a bellyache so excruciating that you want to curl up in a ball and cry. It takes approximately 15-20 minutes for your body to experience satiety (the feeling of fullness that occurs after a meal), so if you shovel your food down your throat without thought process, it’s awfully easy to overeat.

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1. Put your fork down between every bite.

Only take one bite at a time. Put your fork down and chew slowly while focusing on the aroma, taste, and texture of your food.

2. Drink a glass of water before your meals.

An estimated 75% of Americans are chronically dehydrated, so it’s quite likely you’re one of them. The sensations of hunger and thirst are almost indistinguishable, so drink a big glass of ice water before every meal to ensure you don’t eat past the point of fullness.

3. Give yourself an extra 5-10 minutes to eat.

The faster you eat, the more likely you’ll over-eat. If you take 5 minutes for breakfast now, give yourself 10 minutes tomorrow. Do that for a week and then increase it to 15 minutes. Practice patience by fully immersing yourself in the eating experience.

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4. No more distracted eating in front of the TV or at your desk.

Have you ever eaten something and felt like your stomach was satisfied but your mouth was still hungry? This mixed message was due to the cephalic phase digestive response (“cephalic” is just a fancy word for your head). To effectively use the nutrition contained in a meal, your brain must experience pleasure; and to experience pleasure, you must pay attention to the qualities of your food (taste, texture, aroma). If you eat while you’re distracted, you won’t notice any of that and your brain will interpret the missed experience as hunger.

Are those late night eating binges starting to make more sense now? I hope so.

Become a Mindful Eater

“I am not a glutton—I am an explorer of food” – Erma Bombeck

Now that you’ve managed to slow down at the dinner table, let’s do a little exploring to discover how food makes you feel and why you eat the way you do.

5. Start a food diary.

Write down every meal, snack, and beverage you consume for the next month. Include any relevant details like:

  • Your surroundings (a restaurant or home?)
  • How you felt after eating (fulfilled or lethargic?)
  • A rating describing how much you enjoyed your meal (on a scale of 1-10)

6. Pay attention to how different foods make you feel.

Using your food diary as a guide, pay attention to how different foods influence your mood and energy in different ways. You’ll probably discover that natural, healthy foods like fruits and veggies make you feel a whole lot better than processed stuff. This should come as no surprise, but keeping a diary detailing your relationship with food will make it more difficult to dodge this reality.

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7. Be aware of the external cues driving your eating decisions.

By “external cues,” I mean things like:

  • How stressful your day was
  • Who you’re hanging out with
  • The amount of food that is available

Before you eat any food, ask yourself: “Am I in full control of this eating decision, or am I being negatively influenced by an external cue outside of my control?”

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Daniel is a writer who focuses on blogging about happiness and motivation at Lifehack.

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Last Updated on May 15, 2019

How to Tap Into the Power of Positivity

How to Tap Into the Power of Positivity

As it appears, the human mind is not capable of not thinking, at least on the subconscious level. Our mind is always occupied by thoughts, whether we want to or not, and they influence our every action.

“Happiness cannot come from without, it comes from within.” – Helen Keller

When we are still children, our thoughts seem to be purely positive. Have you ever been around a 4-year old who doesn’t like a painting he or she drew? I haven’t. Instead, I see glee, exciting and pride in children’s eyes. But as the years go by, we clutter our mind with doubts, fears and self-deprecating thoughts.

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Just imagine then how much we limit ourselves in every aspect of our lives if we give negative thoughts too much power! We’ll never go after that job we’ve always wanted because our nay-saying thoughts make us doubt our abilities. We’ll never ask that person we like out on a date because we always think we’re not good enough.

We’ll never risk quitting our job in order to pursue the life and the work of our dreams because we can’t get over our mental barrier that insists we’re too weak, too unimportant and too dumb. We’ll never lose those pounds that risk our health because we believe we’re not capable of pushing our limits. We’ll never be able to fully see our inner potential because we simply don’t dare to question the voices in our head.

But enough is enough! It’s time to stop these limiting beliefs and come to a place of sanity, love and excitement about life, work and ourselves.

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So…how exactly are we to achieve that?

It’s not as hard as it may seem; you just have to practice, practice, practice. Here are a few ideas on how you can get started.

1. Learn to substitute every negative thought with a positive one.

Every time a negative thought crawls into your mind, replace it with a positive thought. It’s just like someone writes a phrase you don’t like on a blackboard and then you get up, erase it and write something much more to your liking.

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2. See the positive side of every situation, even when you are surrounded by pure negativity.

This one is a bit harder to put into practice, which does not mean it’s impossible.

You can find positivity in everything by mentally holding on to something positive, whether this be family, friends, your faith, nature, someone’s sparkling eyes or whatever other glimmer of beauty. If you seek it, you will find it.

3. At least once a day, take a moment and think of 5 things you are grateful for.

This will lighten your mood and give you some perspective of what is really important in life and how many blessings surround you already.

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4. Change the mental images you allow to enter your mind.

How you see yourself and your surroundings make a huge difference to your thinking. It is like watching a DVD that saddens and frustrates you, completely pulling you down. Eject that old DVD, throw it away and insert a new, better, more hopeful one instead.

So, instead of dwelling on dark, negative thoughts, consciously build and focus on positive, light and colorful images, thoughts and situations in your mind a few times a day.

If you are persistent and keep on working on yourself, your mind will automatically reject its negative thoughts and welcome the positive ones.

And remember: You are (or will become) what you think you are. This is reason enough to be proactive about whatever is going on in your head.

Featured photo credit: Kyaw Tun via unsplash.com

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