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How Young Families Should Prepare for Their First Home Purchase

How Young Families Should Prepare for Their First Home Purchase

Buying your first home is a milestone for any new, young family, whether you’re newlyweds still on your own or you’re bringing a few little ones in tow. You need space to let your family grow and flourish, and the best garden for new families exists in your own home, where you won’t have to worry about landlords or picking up stakes after your lease. That said, planning for a home is no easy task–although going about it the right way makes the endeavor run much more smoothly.

Think About Your Dream House

Family planning is a huge issue when you’re ready to buy a home. You have to think about the size of your family because you don’t want to have to upgrade in a few years, sell your current home, and start the process over again. Do you plan to stay child-free or do you dream of a house full of children? Maybe two or three is your perfect number. Whatever the case, budget for bedrooms, bathrooms, and the perfect amount of space.

You likely have some necessities as well. What’s most important to you? Are you flexible on location, or are you determined to stay in, say, Tampa or Naples? Do you want a home in the city or a house surrounded by greenery? Think about both the luxuries and the essentials, such as:

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  • The number of floors
  • The number of bathrooms and bedrooms
  • A large yard
  • A ranch vs. a colonial
  • And the overall age of the home

Examine the Employment Situation

If you don’t have steady employment, you may want to think twice about buying a house. You don’t want to get stuck with a mortgage that you can’t pay. If your job is on the fence or you’re constantly changing careers, you might need to wait. Likewise, you should decide if both of you need to work. A single-income family situation might not work for the house of your dreams, even if your desires are flexible.

Get a Handle on Your Debts

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    Your debts weigh heavily on your credit score. Are you in default on any of your school loans? Is there a credit card you’ve neglected to pay off that’s now coming back to haunt you? Before you even go see the bank or any lenders, check out your credit score. To determine your credit score, several aspects factor in:

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    • Your payment history
    • The amount you owe
    • The length of your credit history
    • Any new credit
    • The types of credit

    Don’t start opening credit accounts all over the place to boost your FICO score either. That will look even worse, and it will affect your mortgage rate. To get a good mortgage rate, you need a high credit score. At some lending offices, a credit score between 625 and 650 will get you a decent rate. If you want better options for financing and enviable interest rates, you need a score of 700, at least.

    If you fear your FICO score doesn’t pass muster, all hope isn’t lost. Start paying off your debts now. Use the snowball method if you have to, and pay off the card with the highest interest rate first, then work your way down the list.

    Work Out Your Mortgage Management

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      The housing marketing is always on the rise and fall. Buying a home is a great idea now, because the housing industry is hot. Houses are being sold at lower rates for numerous reasons. That can work very well with your chances for an affordable mortgage rate through www.foundationmortgage.net. You can talk to someone at your local bank or other financial institution to see about your options. If the rates you’re quoted scare you, just remember this: having a mortgage is the same thing as paying rent, except you’re paying yourself to own your home. Your mortgage and interest rates create equity, which you can borrow from in times of trouble and write-off as a tax deduction. Be careful when doing this, you don’t want to borrow more than you can afford.

      There are 10.2 percent more single-family homes for sale in Florida than there were last year. That increases your chances of finding your dream home, but it will also help you get a better mortgage rate. The law of supply and demand that made good rates so hard to come by during the housing crisis is finally starting to calm down. You simply have to work out what kind of mortgage works for you:

      • A fixed-interest mortgage, which keeps your interest the same for life
      • An adjustable-rate mortgage, where the rate changes every year
      • Or an interest-only loan, which helps if you need a low payment in the beginning

      Stay Within Your Budget

      That being said, you still need to stay within your budget. Moving is a big deal anyway; just the cost of moving from a rental to a home you own will cost a bundle, especially if you need new furniture. Plan to spend anywhere between $5,000-$10,000, depending on where you’re going, what you own, and what you can do yourself. You can’t forget about broker’s fees, closing fees, and deposits, either, especially since the average cost of a home in Florida is up to $194,000.

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      Research Your Loan Options

      Whether you’re going for a Tampa mortgage, a Naples mortgage, or a straight Florida refinance plan, there are lots of loan options available to you. For instance, FHA loans come from the Federal Housing Administration, which backs you on insurance as long as you meet the qualifications. VA loans are available to active members of the military as well as eligible veterans. There are also loans from the government and housing offices in your local area, especially for people buying a home for the first time.

      Think Outside the Traditional Box

      If you’re thinking about an FHA loan, then realize that various HUD homes through the Department of Housing and Urban Development might become available to you. You have to meet strict qualifications, but they’re worth looking into if you’re having trouble getting a loan. You can even think about looking at foreclosed homes in your area, which may cost much less than other homes.

      Buying a home for the first time is scary but it’s also exciting; it’s one of the best investments you’ll ever make. Are you ready to take the plunge?

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      Last Updated on January 3, 2020

      The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

      The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

      Are you waiting for life events to turn out the way you want so that you can feel more positive about your life? Do you find yourself having pre-conditions to your sense of well-being, thinking that certain things must happen for you to be happier? Do you think there is no way that your life stresses can make you anything other than “stressed out” and that other people just don’t understand?  If your answer is “yes” to any of these questions, you might find yourself lingering in the land of negativity for too long!

      The following are some tips to keep positive no matter what comes your way. This post will help you stop looking for what psychologists call “positivity” in all the wrong places!  Here are the ten essential habits of positive people.

      1. Positive people don’t confuse quitting with letting go.

      Instead of hanging on to ideas, beliefs, and even people that are no longer healthy for them, they trust their judgement to let go of negative forces in their lives.  Especially in terms of relationships, they subscribe to The Relationship Prayer which goes:

       I will grant myself the ability to trust the healthy people in my life … 

      To set limits with, or let go of, the negative ones … 

      And to have the wisdom to know the DIFFERENCE!

       2.  Positive people don’t just have a good day – they make a good day.

      Waiting, hoping and wishing seldom have a place in the vocabulary of positive individuals. Rather, they use strong words that are pro-active and not reactive. Passivity leads to a lack of involvement, while positive people get very involved in constructing their lives. They work to make changes to feel better in tough times rather than wish their feelings away.

      3. For the positive person, the past stays in the past.

      Good and bad memories alike stay where they belong – in the past where they happened. They don’t spend much time pining for the good ol’ days because they are too busy making new memories now. The negative pulls from the past are used not for self-flagellation or unproductive regret, but rather productive regret where they use lessons learned as stepping stones towards a better future.

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      4. Show me a positive person and I can show you a grateful person.

      The most positive people are the most grateful people.  They do not focus on the potholes of their lives.  They focus on the pot of gold that awaits them every day, with new smells, sights, feelings and experiences.  They see life as a treasure chest full of wonder.

      5. Rather than being stuck in their limitations, positive people are energized by their possibilities.

      Optimistic people focus on what they can do, not what they can’t do.  They are not fooled to think that there is a perfect solution to every problem, and are confident that there are many solutions and possibilities.  They are not afraid to attempt new solutions to old problems, rather than spin their wheels expecting things to be different this time.  They refuse to be like Charlie Brown expecting that this time Lucy will not pull the football from him!

      6. Positive people do not let their fears interfere with their lives!

      Positive people have observed that those who are defined and pulled back by their fears never really truly live a full life. While proceeding with appropriate caution, they do not let fear keep them from trying new things. They realize that even failures are necessary steps for a successful life. They have confidence that they can get back up when they are knocked down by life events or their own mistakes, due to a strong belief in their personal resilience.

      7. Positive people smile a lot!

      When you feel positive on the inside it is like you are smiling from within, and these smiles are contagious. Furthermore, the more others are with positive people, the more they tend to smile too! They see the lightness in life, and have a sense of humor even when it is about themselves. Positive people have a high degree of self-respect, but refuse to take themselves too seriously!

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      8. People who are positive are great communicators.

      They realize that assertive, confident communication is the only way to connect with others in everyday life.  They avoid judgmental, angry interchanges, and do not let someone else’s blow up give them a reason to react in kind. Rather, they express themselves with tact and finesse.  They also refuse to be non-assertive and let people push them around. They refuse to own problems that belong to someone else.

      9. Positive people realize that if you live long enough, there are times for great pain and sadness.

      One of the most common misperceptions about positive people is that to be positive, you must always be happy. This can not be further from the truth. Anyone who has any depth at all is certainly not happy all the time.  Being sad, angry, disappointed are all essential emotions in life. How else would you ever develop empathy for others if you lived a life of denial and shallow emotions? Positive people do not run from the gamut of emotions, and accept that part of the healing process is to allow themselves to experience all types of feelings, not only the happy ones. A positive person always holds the hope that there is light at the end of the darkness.  

      10. Positive person are empowered people – they refuse to blame others and are not victims in life.

      Positive people seek the help and support of others who are supportive and safe.They limit interactions with those who are toxic in any manner, even if it comes to legal action and physical estrangement such as in the case of abuse. They have identified their own basic human rights, and they respect themselves too much to play the part of a victim. There is no place for holding grudges with a positive mindset. Forgiveness helps positive people become better, not bitter.

      How about you?  How many habits of positive people do you personally find in yourself?  If you lack even a few of these 10 essential habits, you might find that the expected treasure at the end of the rainbow was not all that it was cracked up to be. How could it — if you keep on bringing a negative attitude around?

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      I wish you well in keeping positive, because as we all know, there is certainly nothing positive about being negative!

      Featured photo credit: Janaína Castelo Branco via flickr.com

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