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Daily Quote: Before You Wish to Change Anything in Your Child…

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Daily Quote: Before You Wish to Change Anything in Your Child…

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    If there is anything that we wish to change in the child, we should first examine it and see whether it is not something that could better be changed in ourselves.

    Current research shows that some of the most commonly used and seemingly positive phrases we use with kids are actually quite destructive. Despite our good intentions, these statements teach children to stop trusting their internal guidance system, to become deceptive, to do as little as possible, and to give up when things get hard. Here’s a list of the top five things to eliminate from your vocabulary NOW if you want your child to grow up to be kind, community-minded, and successful. I’ve also included alternatives so that you can replace these habitual statements with phrases that will actually encourage intrinsic motivation and emotional connection.

    5 Things To Stop Saying to Your Kids and What to Say Instead

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