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Best Places to Visit for Spring Cleaning your Mind

Best Places to Visit for Spring Cleaning your Mind

As soon as the winter months are over, most of us are looking for a way to reboot and climb out of our hibernating state. That’s about the same time that we get a look at our to-do lists and start to thing “maybe hibernation isn’t so bad.” Take a breather, relax, and start the spring cleaning with your mind. Here are a few places that will help you escape your responsibilities and air out the cobwebs upstairs before you start your new productive project.

The Bahamas

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    While this might seem like a destination that has been beaten to death, let’s give it another chance. The Bahamas are a beautiful sand, sun, and ocean-filled island paradise. You can get away from the troubles of the world by walking on the crystalline white beaches and swimming in the beautiful sparkling waters. Feeling cool ocean breeze whisk away your troubles and responsibilities is enough to get you in the mindset to revamp the rest of your year. If you find yourself wishing for another relaxing scene, you can explore the inner island landscape or find your way to another island within the cluster that is the Bahamas. Just sit back, relax, and let the island atmosphere wash away your troubles.

    Vermont

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    Vermont

      There are several places in Vermont that can calm the nerves and get you in the right serene mindset, which is exactly why the entire state has made this list. Vermont is the place to go if you’re feeling the need to be at peace with nature and find your inner tranquility. From the lush vastness that is the Green Mountains to the rustic avenues of the Church Street Marketplace of Burlington, you will be able to find your home away from home in these beautifully kept cities and landscapes. There are so many different sites and scenes to embrace in this quaint state, you may want to take a few weeks to just breathe deep and explore everything you’ve ever wanted to know. If you never wanted to know anything, then just feel the mountain trails under your feet and sit back in awe of the brightly colored purple and pink dusk skies. Take a breather and let nature sweep you off your feet.

      Portland, Oregon

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      Portland, Oregon

        Portland is one the seaports better known for something other than sea: rain, nature, and a laid-back nature. Portland, Oregon is one of the most laid back cities in America and happens to have the quaintness of a small cottage town. It’s is still a big city, so when you feel the need to go walking the streets, exploring the various shops and other native cultural artifacts throughout the town, you’ll still be able to pick up your everyday needs. Portland is nestled in between trees, forests, mountains and culture, lending itself to whatever fantasies your mind can fathom. You will never be stuck between the walls of a building or the hustle and bustle of other more eastern cities. Portland is the perfect place to put your feet up, enjoy the crisp air and have a nice cup of coffee while dismissing your troubles.

        Boston, Massachusetts

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        Boston, Massachusetts

          Maybe the hustle and bustle of the city is something you love. If that’s the case, may you find your solace within the walls of Boston. The town is littered with history, grand gestures of different cultures decorating the city streets, and a relaxed attitude that would make anyone envy its pubs and patrons. Boston is home to several museums, as well as parks where you can still get your fill of the outdoors but return to the busy city once you’ve had your fill. Enjoy the days checking out some of the greatest cultural inheritances the U.S has ever had.

          When it comes right down to it, you’re the one in charge of your internal spring cleaning. If you find your solace in a place filled with water, kayaks and birds, or you’d rather try your time at the local café, you know exactly where you need to be to make your mind rest its weary feet and kick back just a little bit. Never start a new project while you have the remnants of the old one still lingering in the confines of your mind. Life is far too short to plug away without enjoying the world; so breath easy and take a walk around the globe.

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          Last Updated on January 3, 2020

          The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

          The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

          Are you waiting for life events to turn out the way you want so that you can feel more positive about your life? Do you find yourself having pre-conditions to your sense of well-being, thinking that certain things must happen for you to be happier? Do you think there is no way that your life stresses can make you anything other than “stressed out” and that other people just don’t understand?  If your answer is “yes” to any of these questions, you might find yourself lingering in the land of negativity for too long!

          The following are some tips to keep positive no matter what comes your way. This post will help you stop looking for what psychologists call “positivity” in all the wrong places!  Here are the ten essential habits of positive people.

          1. Positive people don’t confuse quitting with letting go.

          Instead of hanging on to ideas, beliefs, and even people that are no longer healthy for them, they trust their judgement to let go of negative forces in their lives.  Especially in terms of relationships, they subscribe to The Relationship Prayer which goes:

           I will grant myself the ability to trust the healthy people in my life … 

          To set limits with, or let go of, the negative ones … 

          And to have the wisdom to know the DIFFERENCE!

           2.  Positive people don’t just have a good day – they make a good day.

          Waiting, hoping and wishing seldom have a place in the vocabulary of positive individuals. Rather, they use strong words that are pro-active and not reactive. Passivity leads to a lack of involvement, while positive people get very involved in constructing their lives. They work to make changes to feel better in tough times rather than wish their feelings away.

          3. For the positive person, the past stays in the past.

          Good and bad memories alike stay where they belong – in the past where they happened. They don’t spend much time pining for the good ol’ days because they are too busy making new memories now. The negative pulls from the past are used not for self-flagellation or unproductive regret, but rather productive regret where they use lessons learned as stepping stones towards a better future.

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          4. Show me a positive person and I can show you a grateful person.

          The most positive people are the most grateful people.  They do not focus on the potholes of their lives.  They focus on the pot of gold that awaits them every day, with new smells, sights, feelings and experiences.  They see life as a treasure chest full of wonder.

          5. Rather than being stuck in their limitations, positive people are energized by their possibilities.

          Optimistic people focus on what they can do, not what they can’t do.  They are not fooled to think that there is a perfect solution to every problem, and are confident that there are many solutions and possibilities.  They are not afraid to attempt new solutions to old problems, rather than spin their wheels expecting things to be different this time.  They refuse to be like Charlie Brown expecting that this time Lucy will not pull the football from him!

          6. Positive people do not let their fears interfere with their lives!

          Positive people have observed that those who are defined and pulled back by their fears never really truly live a full life. While proceeding with appropriate caution, they do not let fear keep them from trying new things. They realize that even failures are necessary steps for a successful life. They have confidence that they can get back up when they are knocked down by life events or their own mistakes, due to a strong belief in their personal resilience.

          7. Positive people smile a lot!

          When you feel positive on the inside it is like you are smiling from within, and these smiles are contagious. Furthermore, the more others are with positive people, the more they tend to smile too! They see the lightness in life, and have a sense of humor even when it is about themselves. Positive people have a high degree of self-respect, but refuse to take themselves too seriously!

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          8. People who are positive are great communicators.

          They realize that assertive, confident communication is the only way to connect with others in everyday life.  They avoid judgmental, angry interchanges, and do not let someone else’s blow up give them a reason to react in kind. Rather, they express themselves with tact and finesse.  They also refuse to be non-assertive and let people push them around. They refuse to own problems that belong to someone else.

          9. Positive people realize that if you live long enough, there are times for great pain and sadness.

          One of the most common misperceptions about positive people is that to be positive, you must always be happy. This can not be further from the truth. Anyone who has any depth at all is certainly not happy all the time.  Being sad, angry, disappointed are all essential emotions in life. How else would you ever develop empathy for others if you lived a life of denial and shallow emotions? Positive people do not run from the gamut of emotions, and accept that part of the healing process is to allow themselves to experience all types of feelings, not only the happy ones. A positive person always holds the hope that there is light at the end of the darkness.  

          10. Positive person are empowered people – they refuse to blame others and are not victims in life.

          Positive people seek the help and support of others who are supportive and safe.They limit interactions with those who are toxic in any manner, even if it comes to legal action and physical estrangement such as in the case of abuse. They have identified their own basic human rights, and they respect themselves too much to play the part of a victim. There is no place for holding grudges with a positive mindset. Forgiveness helps positive people become better, not bitter.

          How about you?  How many habits of positive people do you personally find in yourself?  If you lack even a few of these 10 essential habits, you might find that the expected treasure at the end of the rainbow was not all that it was cracked up to be. How could it — if you keep on bringing a negative attitude around?

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          I wish you well in keeping positive, because as we all know, there is certainly nothing positive about being negative!

          Featured photo credit: Janaína Castelo Branco via flickr.com

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