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9 Winter Essentials for the Mom-to-Be

9 Winter Essentials for the Mom-to-Be

Many women find maternity a challenging experience simply because they cannot find the right pregnancy wardrobe essentials that suit them and make them feel comfortable and easy. The entire process becomes all the more trying when you have to look for specific clothes that will be suitable in winter.

If you are an expectant mother who is trying to put together the best winter wardrobe, here is a list of nine essentials that you will make you feel stylish as well as comfortable.

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1. Leggings or Black Tapered Leg Jeans

If you love to flaunt your baby bump in long sweaters or tunic tops, then this is the perfect winter attire for you and your baby. Forget about sweats and pajamas and instead opt for black leggings that go nicely with long shirts. If you are wearing a blouse, try out tapered jeans in black as these will make you appear slender and chic.

2. Open Front Cardigan

When the temperature starts to drop, be sure to purchase an over-sized, open front cardigan made of cashmere fabric. This will keep you nice and toasty during the cold season. Mix and match this front cardigan with colorful tanks underneath and your favorite leggings and you will soon be the center of attention wherever you go.

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3. Printed Blouses with Long Sleeves

If you want to add extra spark and elegance to your winter wear, be sure to purchase a printed blouse with long sleeves that provide you with enough warmth and style. Team up these printed blouses with jeans, skirts and leggings, and viola! You have the perfect outfit to step out and enjoy the day. If you are wearing the outfit to work, throw in a cardigan or blazer and your maternity wear will instantly become workplace-friendly as well.

4. Long Sleeved T-Shirt

One thing that you surely cannot do without during winter is a long sleeved tee which you can wear with just about everything in your closet. Opt for dark colors as these will have the ability to be mixed and matched. And for cooler mornings, wear the t-shirt under a sweater to add layering and comfort.

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5. Cowl Neck Tunic Sweater

One of the greatest things about cowl necks is that they never seem to go out of style and have an evergreen charm and elegance about them. Moreover, with the right cowl neck tunic sweater, you won’t even need to wear a shirt inside as these will provide enough warmth all on their own. Style and warmth aside, one reason why mothers-to-be love wearing cowl necks is because they help balance your figure by evening out the effect of your bump. So pair up your cowl neck with leggings or jeans and add a pair of stylish boots to your outfit to create a stylish profile that will look modern and chic.

6. Sweater Dresses

Going out for a quiet night out with your significant other? Dress up in a sweater dress. Not only will it make you feel comfy and cozy, but it is ideal for days as well as for nights. To complete the look, pair your sweater dress with colorful or solid colored tights and bring out the diva in you.

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7. Maternity Jeans

Your pregnancy winter wardrobe will not be complete without a pair of good quality denim that you can wear for the next few months. Therefore, shop around and look for a pair that will flatter your figure and maybe even stretch along with you.

8. Printed Scarf

Winter calls for some fun printed scarves that are perfect for accessorizing your outfit. Nothing says chic like a printed scarf that is either wrapped around your shoulders to keep you warm or tied around your neck. The best thing about this particular accessory is that you’ll be able to use it even after your pride and joy has come into the world.

9. Jersey Knit Dresses

Finally, even though you can’t wear your favorite pair of sweatpants to the office, you can always opt to wearing a knit sweater that feels almost as good as your nightwear. Jersey knit dresses will hug your figure without being too tight and you’ll fall in love with yourself when you pair it up with tights and a pair of comfortable and stylish booties.

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Last Updated on September 16, 2019

How to Stop Procrastinating: 11 Practical Ways for Procrastinators

How to Stop Procrastinating: 11 Practical Ways for Procrastinators

You have a deadline looming. However, instead of doing your work, you are fiddling with miscellaneous things like checking email, social media, watching videos, surfing blogs and forums. You know you should be working, but you just don’t feel like doing anything.

We are all familiar with the procrastination phenomenon. When we procrastinate, we squander away our free time and put off important tasks we should be doing them till it’s too late. And when it is indeed too late, we panic and wish we got started earlier.

The chronic procrastinators I know have spent years of their life looped in this cycle. Delaying, putting off things, slacking, hiding from work, facing work only when it’s unavoidable, then repeating this loop all over again. It’s a bad habit that eats us away and prevents us from achieving greater results in life.

Don’t let procrastination take over your life. Here, I will share my personal steps on how to stop procrastinating. These 11 steps will definitely apply to you too:

1. Break Your Work into Little Steps

Part of the reason why we procrastinate is because subconsciously, we find the work too overwhelming for us. Break it down into little parts, then focus on one part at the time. If you still procrastinate on the task after breaking it down, then break it down even further. Soon, your task will be so simple that you will be thinking “gee, this is so simple that I might as well just do it now!”.

For example, I’m currently writing a new book (on How to achieve anything in life). Book writing at its full scale is an enormous project and can be overwhelming. However, when I break it down into phases such as –

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  • (1) Research
  • (2) Deciding the topic
  • (3) Creating the outline
  • (4) Drafting the content
  • (5) Writing Chapters #1 to #10,
  • (6) Revision
  • (7) etc.

Suddenly it seems very manageable. What I do then is to focus on the immediate phase and get it done to my best ability, without thinking about the other phases. When it’s done, I move on to the next.

2. Change Your Environment

Different environments have different impact on our productivity. Look at your work desk and your room. Do they make you want to work or do they make you want to snuggle and sleep? If it’s the latter, you should look into changing your workspace.

One thing to note is that an environment that makes us feel inspired before may lose its effect after a period of time. If that’s the case, then it’s time to change things around. Refer to Steps #2 and #3 of 13 Strategies To Jumpstart Your Productivity, which talks about revamping your environment and workspace.

3. Create a Detailed Timeline with Specific Deadlines

Having just 1 deadline for your work is like an invitation to procrastinate. That’s because we get the impression that we have time and keep pushing everything back, until it’s too late.

Break down your project (see tip #1), then create an overall timeline with specific deadlines for each small task. This way, you know you have to finish each task by a certain date. Your timelines must be robust, too – i.e. if you don’t finish this by today, it’s going to jeopardize everything else you have planned after that. This way it creates the urgency to act.

My goals are broken down into monthly, weekly, right down to the daily task lists, and the list is a call to action that I must accomplish this by the specified date, else my goals will be put off.

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Here’re more tips on setting deadlines: 22 Tips for Effective Deadlines

4. Eliminate Your Procrastination Pit-Stops

If you are procrastinating a little too much, maybe that’s because you make it easy to procrastinate.

Identify your browser bookmarks that take up a lot of your time and shift them into a separate folder that is less accessible. Disable the automatic notification option in your email client. Get rid of the distractions around you.

I know some people will out of the way and delete or deactivate their facebook accounts. I think it’s a little drastic and extreme as addressing procrastination is more about being conscious of our actions than counteracting via self-binding methods, but if you feel that’s what’s needed, go for it.

5. Hang out with People Who Inspire You to Take Action

I’m pretty sure if you spend just 10 minutes talking to Steve Jobs or Bill Gates, you’ll be more inspired to act than if you spent the 10 minutes doing nothing. The people we are with influence our behaviors. Of course spending time with Steve Jobs or Bill Gates every day is probably not a feasible method, but the principle applies — The Hidden Power of Every Single Person Around You

Identify the people, friends or colleagues who trigger you – most likely the go-getters and hard workers – and hang out with them more often. Soon you will inculcate their drive and spirit too.

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As a personal development blogger, I “hang out” with inspiring personal development experts by reading their blogs and corresponding with them regularly via email and social media. It’s communication via new media and it works all the same.

6. Get a Buddy

Having a companion makes the whole process much more fun. Ideally, your buddy should be someone who has his/her own set of goals. Both of you will hold each other accountable to your goals and plans. While it’s not necessary for both of you to have the same goals, it’ll be even better if that’s the case, so you can learn from each other.

I have a good friend whom I talk to regularly, and we always ask each other about our goals and progress in achieving those goals. Needless to say, it spurs us to keep taking action.

7. Tell Others About Your Goals

This serves the same function as #6, on a larger scale. Tell all your friends, colleagues, acquaintances and family about your projects. Now whenever you see them, they are bound to ask you about your status on those projects.

For example, sometimes I announce my projects on The Personal Excellence Blog, Twitter and Facebook, and my readers will ask me about them on an ongoing basis. It’s a great way to keep myself accountable to my plans.

8. Seek out Someone Who Has Already Achieved the Outcome

What is it you want to accomplish here, and who are the people who have accomplished this already? Go seek them out and connect with them. Seeing living proof that your goals are very well achievable if you take action is one of the best triggers for action.

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9. Re-Clarify Your Goals

If you have been procrastinating for an extended period of time, it might reflect a misalignment between what you want and what you are currently doing. Often times, we outgrow our goals as we discover more about ourselves, but we don’t change our goals to reflect that.

Get away from your work (a short vacation will be good, else just a weekend break or staycation will do too) and take some time to regroup yourself. What exactly do you want to achieve? What should you do to get there? What are the steps to take? Does your current work align with that? If not, what can you do about it?

10. Stop Over-Complicating Things

Are you waiting for a perfect time to do this? That maybe now is not the best time because of X, Y, Z reasons? Ditch that thought because there’s never a perfect time. If you keep waiting for one, you are never going to accomplish anything.

Perfectionism is one of the biggest reasons for procrastination. Read more about why perfectionist tendencies can be a bane than a boon: Why Being A Perfectionist May Not Be So Perfect.

11. Get a Grip and Just Do It

At the end, it boils down to taking action. You can do all the strategizing, planning and hypothesizing, but if you don’t take action, nothing’s going to happen. Occasionally, I get readers and clients who keep complaining about their situations but they still refuse to take action at the end of the day.

Reality check:

I have never heard anyone procrastinate their way to success before and I doubt it’s going to change in the near future.  Whatever it is you are procrastinating on, if you want to get it done, you need to get a grip on yourself and do it.

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