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8 Tips For Women To Lose Weight After Pregnancy

8 Tips For Women To Lose Weight After Pregnancy

I am a mum of two, and my kids are just 22 months apart. So I know the dilemma all new mothers go through couple of months after the delivery when they see that instead of losing weight, they are gaining more. That’s all right. You have time to lose weight. Around this time, (I would strongly advice) please do not take celebrity moms as your ideals, because they take EXTREME measures to lose down all those fats from their bodies, and more importantly, their photos are all photoshopped. So, as I was saying, you can take time, or, if you are in a hurry to get back to your good ol’ shape, then there are many exercises that will eventually slim you down.

Here is a first-hand experience of a mother who has successfully shed  her extra weight in 33 days. This is only to inspire you not to stay frustrated with those extra body mass, and do something about it. After my first pregnancy, it took me eight months before I started to shed some extra fat. Now, let me tell you one thing. You can not cut down on food, because for the first six months, your baby’s meals entirely depends on you. Yes, I am talking about breastfeeding. So, this brings me to my first two points:

1. Say no to “No Food”.

This means no dieting, please! If you are frustrated with your weight, then dieting is not your thing. It is mainly because your body needs proper nutrients to help you recover from the delivery stress, for feeding your baby, and also to fight against infections. So, all you need is a very well balanced diet plan. Go to your dietician, and ask them to make you a proper chart. You should eat every kind of nutritious food to ward off your hunger. Munch on healthy snacks. Frustration will lead to more weight. That’s the last thing you want to do now.

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2. Breastfeed to slim down.

Lots of women have successful stories on how breastfeeding has helped them to cut down on their weight. It is sort of true in the sense that when you breastfeed, 300-500 calories are burnt. It is a form of exercise both for the mother, and the baby. But do remember point number one from above. No dieting, no reduction of food intake. Because, you will get energy from whatever extra kilojoules you eat, and from your body’s existing fat stores. In this way, you are shedding extra fat from your body. For your convenient, here’s a diet for a breastfeeding mum.

Besides healthy eating, and breastfeeding, comes the physical part of the exercises. These exercises are simple, but effective. You would need to sweat your fats out. So here are some exercises that will shape you back to the old you.

3. Go walking.

This exercise is an old routine, which you can start right after your delivery. Begin slowly, but gain your pace once your body is pain-free, and relaxed. Start with small steps. Walk for fifteen to twenty minutes. Once you are comfortable, increase your time. Half an hour to one hour of rigorous walking is good enough for one day.

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4. Kegel up whenever, wherever.

Kegel is a classic exercise. The reason why this is important is because this will help you to tone your pelvic muscles. The best form of doing this is, sit on a bench. Make sure your feet are shoulder-width apart. Put your hands on the hips. Now, contract your pelvis muscles, as if you are halting from urinating. Stand up. Now return to bench, and release. Do this 10 times per session, everyday. This is the actual way of doing kegel. But if you can’t exercise the proper way, then just do it while you squeeze in some time to watch television, or even during traveling while you are waiting in the signal.

5. Draw deep belly breath.

This specific exercise is specially dedicated to your abdominal, and stomach areas. Another beginner’s exercise, you can also start doing this couple of hours after your childbirth. Just sit straight, and breathe deeply. You have to inhale deep from the diaphragm. While doing this, contract, and hold your abs tightly. When you breathe out, stay relaxed. When you hold your breath, you can count the seconds. Start from 10 seconds, and gradually increase the time as you go. This can also be done whenever or wherever you are, and no one would even notice that you are exercising!

6. Work the floor bridges.

Floor bridges will target your hamstrings, and butt. What you have to do is lie down on the floor with your knees bent, and feet flat on the floor, arms by your sides. Contract your core muscles, and squeeze your butt to raise from the ground. Press your heels on the floor. Now, do the kegel exercise. Hold for 3-4 seconds, and slowly return to floor. Release the kegel exercise. You can repeat this 10 times at first, and can increase it to 20 times if you feel good.

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7. Do the kneeling pelvic tilt.

This exercise is good for your stomach, abdominal muscles, and can relief you from back pain. Get on all fours, with your toes touching the floor. Your arms should be exactly straight down from your shoulder line, palms connecting with the floor as well. Stay relaxed, and straight. Now, breathe in, and pull your butt forward, lean you pelvis, and move around your pubic bone upward. Stay like this for 3 seconds, and let go.

8. Exercise the crunch beat.

Another easy exercise that targets your abdominal muscles, and legs. Lie flat on a mat, bend your knees 90 degrees, and lift your legs. Make sure your calves are parallel to the ground. Put your hands behind your head, elbows out, and crunch up. Lift up your shoulders. Next step, extend your legs straight forward, cross your ankles, and stretch your hands overhead. Stay like this while you shift your legs over, and under each other for 8-10 times. Relax, and repeat.

These are some basic, easy exercises that can boost your energy in getting into your original shape pre-pregnancy. For your benefits, here are some bonus tips for you. Drink plenty of water, especially right before you breastfeed. Drinking water will aid you in keeping yourself hydrated, will clear your urine, and speed up your metabolism. Another important thing is to get enough sleep. I know that the first few months will be super hectic, but I would recommend you to catch up on sleep whenever possible. Sleeping can release stress hormones, which is another reason for gaining weight.

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Follow these simple life hacks and you will enjoy your post pregnancy periods. Don’t distress yourself on unnecessary thoughts, just appreciate your new role. This is a life changing experience, and a healthy you is what is required to experience it. Here is a first-hand

Featured photo credit: Nick Koch Weiler via flickr.com

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Last Updated on September 16, 2019

How to Stop Procrastinating: 11 Practical Ways for Procrastinators

How to Stop Procrastinating: 11 Practical Ways for Procrastinators

You have a deadline looming. However, instead of doing your work, you are fiddling with miscellaneous things like checking email, social media, watching videos, surfing blogs and forums. You know you should be working, but you just don’t feel like doing anything.

We are all familiar with the procrastination phenomenon. When we procrastinate, we squander away our free time and put off important tasks we should be doing them till it’s too late. And when it is indeed too late, we panic and wish we got started earlier.

The chronic procrastinators I know have spent years of their life looped in this cycle. Delaying, putting off things, slacking, hiding from work, facing work only when it’s unavoidable, then repeating this loop all over again. It’s a bad habit that eats us away and prevents us from achieving greater results in life.

Don’t let procrastination take over your life. Here, I will share my personal steps on how to stop procrastinating. These 11 steps will definitely apply to you too:

1. Break Your Work into Little Steps

Part of the reason why we procrastinate is because subconsciously, we find the work too overwhelming for us. Break it down into little parts, then focus on one part at the time. If you still procrastinate on the task after breaking it down, then break it down even further. Soon, your task will be so simple that you will be thinking “gee, this is so simple that I might as well just do it now!”.

For example, I’m currently writing a new book (on How to achieve anything in life). Book writing at its full scale is an enormous project and can be overwhelming. However, when I break it down into phases such as –

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  • (1) Research
  • (2) Deciding the topic
  • (3) Creating the outline
  • (4) Drafting the content
  • (5) Writing Chapters #1 to #10,
  • (6) Revision
  • (7) etc.

Suddenly it seems very manageable. What I do then is to focus on the immediate phase and get it done to my best ability, without thinking about the other phases. When it’s done, I move on to the next.

2. Change Your Environment

Different environments have different impact on our productivity. Look at your work desk and your room. Do they make you want to work or do they make you want to snuggle and sleep? If it’s the latter, you should look into changing your workspace.

One thing to note is that an environment that makes us feel inspired before may lose its effect after a period of time. If that’s the case, then it’s time to change things around. Refer to Steps #2 and #3 of 13 Strategies To Jumpstart Your Productivity, which talks about revamping your environment and workspace.

3. Create a Detailed Timeline with Specific Deadlines

Having just 1 deadline for your work is like an invitation to procrastinate. That’s because we get the impression that we have time and keep pushing everything back, until it’s too late.

Break down your project (see tip #1), then create an overall timeline with specific deadlines for each small task. This way, you know you have to finish each task by a certain date. Your timelines must be robust, too – i.e. if you don’t finish this by today, it’s going to jeopardize everything else you have planned after that. This way it creates the urgency to act.

My goals are broken down into monthly, weekly, right down to the daily task lists, and the list is a call to action that I must accomplish this by the specified date, else my goals will be put off.

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Here’re more tips on setting deadlines: 22 Tips for Effective Deadlines

4. Eliminate Your Procrastination Pit-Stops

If you are procrastinating a little too much, maybe that’s because you make it easy to procrastinate.

Identify your browser bookmarks that take up a lot of your time and shift them into a separate folder that is less accessible. Disable the automatic notification option in your email client. Get rid of the distractions around you.

I know some people will out of the way and delete or deactivate their facebook accounts. I think it’s a little drastic and extreme as addressing procrastination is more about being conscious of our actions than counteracting via self-binding methods, but if you feel that’s what’s needed, go for it.

5. Hang out with People Who Inspire You to Take Action

I’m pretty sure if you spend just 10 minutes talking to Steve Jobs or Bill Gates, you’ll be more inspired to act than if you spent the 10 minutes doing nothing. The people we are with influence our behaviors. Of course spending time with Steve Jobs or Bill Gates every day is probably not a feasible method, but the principle applies — The Hidden Power of Every Single Person Around You

Identify the people, friends or colleagues who trigger you – most likely the go-getters and hard workers – and hang out with them more often. Soon you will inculcate their drive and spirit too.

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As a personal development blogger, I “hang out” with inspiring personal development experts by reading their blogs and corresponding with them regularly via email and social media. It’s communication via new media and it works all the same.

6. Get a Buddy

Having a companion makes the whole process much more fun. Ideally, your buddy should be someone who has his/her own set of goals. Both of you will hold each other accountable to your goals and plans. While it’s not necessary for both of you to have the same goals, it’ll be even better if that’s the case, so you can learn from each other.

I have a good friend whom I talk to regularly, and we always ask each other about our goals and progress in achieving those goals. Needless to say, it spurs us to keep taking action.

7. Tell Others About Your Goals

This serves the same function as #6, on a larger scale. Tell all your friends, colleagues, acquaintances and family about your projects. Now whenever you see them, they are bound to ask you about your status on those projects.

For example, sometimes I announce my projects on The Personal Excellence Blog, Twitter and Facebook, and my readers will ask me about them on an ongoing basis. It’s a great way to keep myself accountable to my plans.

8. Seek out Someone Who Has Already Achieved the Outcome

What is it you want to accomplish here, and who are the people who have accomplished this already? Go seek them out and connect with them. Seeing living proof that your goals are very well achievable if you take action is one of the best triggers for action.

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9. Re-Clarify Your Goals

If you have been procrastinating for an extended period of time, it might reflect a misalignment between what you want and what you are currently doing. Often times, we outgrow our goals as we discover more about ourselves, but we don’t change our goals to reflect that.

Get away from your work (a short vacation will be good, else just a weekend break or staycation will do too) and take some time to regroup yourself. What exactly do you want to achieve? What should you do to get there? What are the steps to take? Does your current work align with that? If not, what can you do about it?

10. Stop Over-Complicating Things

Are you waiting for a perfect time to do this? That maybe now is not the best time because of X, Y, Z reasons? Ditch that thought because there’s never a perfect time. If you keep waiting for one, you are never going to accomplish anything.

Perfectionism is one of the biggest reasons for procrastination. Read more about why perfectionist tendencies can be a bane than a boon: Why Being A Perfectionist May Not Be So Perfect.

11. Get a Grip and Just Do It

At the end, it boils down to taking action. You can do all the strategizing, planning and hypothesizing, but if you don’t take action, nothing’s going to happen. Occasionally, I get readers and clients who keep complaining about their situations but they still refuse to take action at the end of the day.

Reality check:

I have never heard anyone procrastinate their way to success before and I doubt it’s going to change in the near future.  Whatever it is you are procrastinating on, if you want to get it done, you need to get a grip on yourself and do it.

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