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7 Things You Need To Do To Avoid Mental Burnout

7 Things You Need To Do To Avoid Mental Burnout

It’s way too easy to get swept up in the daily grind of work. Bringing home that stress cuts into your family time, and you already have enough going on with your home life. Trying to balance a social life and more on top of all of that only adds to the weight on your shoulders. When all of this adds up, you might feel like you can’t tackle anything, even the simplest of daily tasks. These tips will help you avoid mental burnout and all the unhappiness it can bring into your life.

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    1. Watch for the signs.

    Be aware of the signs of mental burnout. Don’t think that it’s simply stress that will go away over time. Physically, you might get sick more often, or see changes in your sleeping or eating habits. Emotionally, you might feel detached and not care about anything you used to. You might withdraw from others and shy away from responsibilities you would previously be excited to take on. This might feel like an extended period of stress, or some sort of depression, but be aware that it could be burnout.

    2. Stay healthy.

    You might feel bad because of the stress, but make sure you stay healthy. Get enough sleep every night. Keep eating healthy. Exercising daily will not only keep you healthy, but by giving your body a workout and your mind something else to focus on, it can help you out of any depression you might be experiencing.

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    3. Take a break from the grind.

    If you have vacation time, use it. Call in for a sick day. If it’s not possible to actually take time off, try to disconnect from technology every day. Turn off your phone, push back from the computer, and don’t turn on the TV. Do what you like to do to relax. Read a book on the couch. Do yoga by yourself. Or completely disconnect from real life by meditating for an hour and clearing your entire mind.

    4. Keep your days manageable.

    Don’t put more on your plate than you can handle. Keep your To Do lists short, and make sure you can accomplish everything in the time you have available. Having an unsurmountable To Do list will only increase your feelings of helplessness. If you only have enough energy to make it through the work day, clear your schedule so that’s all you have to do. Keep big projects at bay until the weekend when you have more time, or for when you might feel better.

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    5. Take advantage of your support system.

    Your family and friends love you‒take advantage of this! Tell them what’s going on and what you’re having trouble with. They’ll be more than willing to help out in any way they can. Don’t be afraid to let them step in to pick up the slack. If someone offers to make you dinner, don’t turn them away and insist you can do it yourself. Accept help when you need it. It will help you avoid burnout, or bounce back quicker from any stress you may already be experiencing.

    6. Reassess your priorities.

    Is your job causing you more stress than it’s worth? Think about what could make it easier on you and talk to your boss. If you’re asking for reasonable things, like more time to finish projects, or an assistant to help with the workload, your concerns will more than likely be well received. If it’s not possible to redefine your job duties, try to have a list of priorities. Are presentations most important? Put those at the top of your list and try to forget about other tasks until you’ve met your major deadlines.

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    If your home life is troubling you, try to find a solution to the problems. Is your partner not doing as much with the children as they could? What about those kids‒could their chore list be added to so the house stays cleaner without taking more of your time? If the bulk of the workload is left to you, then prioritize what needs to be done. Make dinner in a crock pot, and let the dishwasher run while you’re at work. Clean every other weekend, instead of every few days.

    7. Have a creative outlet.

    Don’t let the hassle of real life get you down. Have a creative outlet to relieve the stress of the daily grind. Vent in a journal after work, or try writing fiction stories as an escape outlet. Draw pictures, or create abstract paintings on canvas even if you don’t have much artistic talent. Knit scarves for gifts, or try making up your own recipes in the kitchen. There’s something you enjoy doing that you always push to the back burner. Let it take priority every once in awhile to ensure you’re keeping the rest of your life in check.

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    Last Updated on January 3, 2020

    The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

    The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

    Are you waiting for life events to turn out the way you want so that you can feel more positive about your life? Do you find yourself having pre-conditions to your sense of well-being, thinking that certain things must happen for you to be happier? Do you think there is no way that your life stresses can make you anything other than “stressed out” and that other people just don’t understand?  If your answer is “yes” to any of these questions, you might find yourself lingering in the land of negativity for too long!

    The following are some tips to keep positive no matter what comes your way. This post will help you stop looking for what psychologists call “positivity” in all the wrong places!  Here are the ten essential habits of positive people.

    1. Positive people don’t confuse quitting with letting go.

    Instead of hanging on to ideas, beliefs, and even people that are no longer healthy for them, they trust their judgement to let go of negative forces in their lives.  Especially in terms of relationships, they subscribe to The Relationship Prayer which goes:

     I will grant myself the ability to trust the healthy people in my life … 

    To set limits with, or let go of, the negative ones … 

    And to have the wisdom to know the DIFFERENCE!

     2.  Positive people don’t just have a good day – they make a good day.

    Waiting, hoping and wishing seldom have a place in the vocabulary of positive individuals. Rather, they use strong words that are pro-active and not reactive. Passivity leads to a lack of involvement, while positive people get very involved in constructing their lives. They work to make changes to feel better in tough times rather than wish their feelings away.

    3. For the positive person, the past stays in the past.

    Good and bad memories alike stay where they belong – in the past where they happened. They don’t spend much time pining for the good ol’ days because they are too busy making new memories now. The negative pulls from the past are used not for self-flagellation or unproductive regret, but rather productive regret where they use lessons learned as stepping stones towards a better future.

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    4. Show me a positive person and I can show you a grateful person.

    The most positive people are the most grateful people.  They do not focus on the potholes of their lives.  They focus on the pot of gold that awaits them every day, with new smells, sights, feelings and experiences.  They see life as a treasure chest full of wonder.

    5. Rather than being stuck in their limitations, positive people are energized by their possibilities.

    Optimistic people focus on what they can do, not what they can’t do.  They are not fooled to think that there is a perfect solution to every problem, and are confident that there are many solutions and possibilities.  They are not afraid to attempt new solutions to old problems, rather than spin their wheels expecting things to be different this time.  They refuse to be like Charlie Brown expecting that this time Lucy will not pull the football from him!

    6. Positive people do not let their fears interfere with their lives!

    Positive people have observed that those who are defined and pulled back by their fears never really truly live a full life. While proceeding with appropriate caution, they do not let fear keep them from trying new things. They realize that even failures are necessary steps for a successful life. They have confidence that they can get back up when they are knocked down by life events or their own mistakes, due to a strong belief in their personal resilience.

    7. Positive people smile a lot!

    When you feel positive on the inside it is like you are smiling from within, and these smiles are contagious. Furthermore, the more others are with positive people, the more they tend to smile too! They see the lightness in life, and have a sense of humor even when it is about themselves. Positive people have a high degree of self-respect, but refuse to take themselves too seriously!

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    8. People who are positive are great communicators.

    They realize that assertive, confident communication is the only way to connect with others in everyday life.  They avoid judgmental, angry interchanges, and do not let someone else’s blow up give them a reason to react in kind. Rather, they express themselves with tact and finesse.  They also refuse to be non-assertive and let people push them around. They refuse to own problems that belong to someone else.

    9. Positive people realize that if you live long enough, there are times for great pain and sadness.

    One of the most common misperceptions about positive people is that to be positive, you must always be happy. This can not be further from the truth. Anyone who has any depth at all is certainly not happy all the time.  Being sad, angry, disappointed are all essential emotions in life. How else would you ever develop empathy for others if you lived a life of denial and shallow emotions? Positive people do not run from the gamut of emotions, and accept that part of the healing process is to allow themselves to experience all types of feelings, not only the happy ones. A positive person always holds the hope that there is light at the end of the darkness.  

    10. Positive person are empowered people – they refuse to blame others and are not victims in life.

    Positive people seek the help and support of others who are supportive and safe.They limit interactions with those who are toxic in any manner, even if it comes to legal action and physical estrangement such as in the case of abuse. They have identified their own basic human rights, and they respect themselves too much to play the part of a victim. There is no place for holding grudges with a positive mindset. Forgiveness helps positive people become better, not bitter.

    How about you?  How many habits of positive people do you personally find in yourself?  If you lack even a few of these 10 essential habits, you might find that the expected treasure at the end of the rainbow was not all that it was cracked up to be. How could it — if you keep on bringing a negative attitude around?

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    I wish you well in keeping positive, because as we all know, there is certainly nothing positive about being negative!

    Featured photo credit: Janaína Castelo Branco via flickr.com

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