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7 Sure-fire Ways To Deal With Anxiety

7 Sure-fire Ways To Deal With Anxiety

All of us experience anxiety from time to time. You don’t want to automatically turn to medication, especially if your worries are temporary. Fortunately, you can do something about it using these seven sure-fire ways to dealing with anxiety.

From making a list to deep breathing, you’re bound to find something that will help curb that nervous feeling.

1. Make a List

When you have a long list of things to do, that can make anyone feel anxious. Try writing down all the things that are making your mind feel nervous, especially at night. The act of getting it down on paper can help put your mind at ease. You’ll remember what you need to do and you can check them off your list as you go.

2. Meditation

Just doing a little bit of deep breathing can calm you down immediately. Practicing a routine of daily meditation – in the morning, at night, or both – can do wonders for your anxiety levels.

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If you’ve never done this before, sit in a quiet place where you won’t be disturbed. Begin by taking 10 deep breaths. Take your time with these. You can continue taking deep breaths, or begin to focus on a single word or phrase. The word you choose can be something positive, such as “peace,” or “love,” or a phrase such as, “I am calm.” When you feel your mind wandering, gently let those thoughts go and re-focus your mind on the word or phrase you have chosen.

At first, this exercise can be difficult. But remember, the idea is just to focus on breathing. Begin by doing this for a few minutes each day, and work up to ten or fifteen minutes.

Of course, if you experience discomfort, stop immediately and do something else to help deal with your anxiety.

3. Exercise

Exercise is a proven way to reduce stress and anxiousness. You can take your worries out on the activities at hand. If you like tennis, for example, the act of hitting the ball back and forth can really help direct your anxious energy in healthful ways.

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Walking is another good activity. You can walk around the block for a short ten-minute walk, head to a park, or walk along a trail. The act of getting outside can give you room to breathe, allow you to enjoy the the sounds of nature, and otherwise enjoy some peace and quiet.

Whatever exercise you prefer, make a point in doing it regularly – that can definitely help.

4. Aromatherapy

Just the scent of lavender can help reduce stress and blood pressure. Scientists have documented its calming benefits.

Start with some lavender essential oil or incense. Dab a drop of essential oil on each temple. Sit quietly or lie down and let the aroma help to relax you.

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Lavender incense works, as well, though it’s not as potent as the essential oil and some find the smoke from the incense overpowering – just watch out for that. Light an incense stick and let the aroma fill the room. Again, sit quietly for a few moments and breathe in the scent.

5. Tea

The act of making tea is a calming process. It makes you slow down and sip. You can’t gulp a steaming drink.

Some good varieties to choose for relaxing are lavender, chamomile, or ginger. Lavender and chamomile are both calming; ginger can help calm a nervous stomach.

Pour freshly drawn water into a tea kettle and let it just get to boiling. Pour over tea bag or loose leaf tea, and let it steep until cool enough to drink. Sit in a quiet spot and turn off all noise: cell phones, music, televisions, radios, etc. Sip your tea for 20 minutes while purposefully turning your attention away from the thoughts that make your stress levels rise.

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6. Soothing Music

Turn on some soothing music. Many different genres of music exist that can help calm the mind. Classical, Zen, meditation, Native American flute music, or other similar types of soothing sounds are good choices.

If you don’t have your own music, you can find an internet radio station for this purpose, an iPod, mp4 player, or even turn it to the meditation station if you have satellite television. While listening to music, you can sit quietly or do another calm activity to help put your mind at ease: read, create art, write, etc.

7. Yoga

Head to your nearest yoga center for complete guidance on how to do this activity. You can also find videos on the internet or if you have a game console, you can purchase a yoga video. Just keep in mind that you won’t have the precise guidance that you would with a yoga instructor.

Yoga involves breathing and precise body movements that are designed to help focus the mind. You must concentrate on the movements to perform the yoga exercises correctly. As such, you shift your attention away from daily issues and onto figuring out the correct yoga position.

Reduce Your Anxiety

Some of the suggestions on this list will take more time than others on how to manage anxiety. From soothing music to meditation, you can actively address your symptoms by trying these different activities and get on with your life.

This list is not intended to diagnose any condition. It is important to remember that if these methods don’t help, or if you experience extreme discomfort or prolonged anxiety, seek the advice of a doctor.

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Last Updated on September 20, 2018

How to Stay Calm and Cool When You Are Extremely Stressful

How to Stay Calm and Cool When You Are Extremely Stressful

Being in a hurry all the time drains your energy. Your work and routine life make you feel overwhelmed. Getting caught up in things beyond your control stresses you out…

If you’d like to stay calm and cool in stressful situations, put the following 8 steps into practice:

1. Breathe

The next time you’re faced with a stressful situation that makes you want to hurry, stop what you’re doing for one minute and perform the following steps:

  • Take five deep breaths in and out (your belly should come forward with each inhale).
  • Imagine all that stress leaving your body with each exhale.
  • Smile. Fake it if you have to. It’s pretty hard to stay grumpy with a goofy grin on your face.

Feel free to repeat the above steps every few hours at work or home if you need to.

2. Loosen up

After your breathing session, perform a quick body scan to identify any areas that are tight or tense. Clenched jaw? Rounded shoulders? Anything else that isn’t at ease?

Gently touch or massage any of your body parts that are under tension to encourage total relaxation. It might help to imagine you’re in a place that calms you: a beach, hot tub, or nature trail, for example.

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3. Chew slowly

Slow down at the dinner table if you want to learn to be patient and lose weight. Shoveling your food down as fast as you can is a surefire way to eat more than you need to (and find yourself with a bellyache).

Be a mindful eater who pays attention to the taste, texture, and aroma of every dish. Chew slowly while you try to guess all of the ingredients that were used to prepare your dish.

Chewing slowly will also reduce those dreadful late-night cravings that sneak up on you after work.

4. Let go

Cliche as it sounds, it’s very effective.

The thing that seems like the end of the world right now?

It’s not. Promise.

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Stressing and worrying about the situation you’re in won’t do any good because you’re already in it, so just let it go.

Letting go isn’t easy, so here’s a guide to help you:

21 Things To Do When You Find It Hard To Let Go

5. Enjoy the journey

Focusing on the end result can quickly become exhausting. Chasing a bold, audacious goal that’s going to require a lot of time and patience? Split it into several mini-goals so you’ll have several causes for celebration.

Stop focusing on the negative thoughts. Giving yourself consistent positive feedback will help you grow patience, stay encouraged, and find more joy in the process of achieving your goals.

6. Look at the big picture

The next time you find your stress level skyrocketing, take a deep breath, and ask yourself:

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Will this matter to me…

  • Next week?
  • Next month?
  • Next year?
  • In 10 years?

Hint: No, it won’t.

I bet most of the stuff that stresses you wouldn’t matter the next week, maybe not even the next day.

Stop agonizing over things you can’t control because you’re only hurting yourself.

7. Stop demanding perfection of yourself

You’re not perfect and that’s okay. Show me a person who claims to be perfect and I’ll show you a dirty liar.

Demanding perfection of yourself (or anybody else) will only stress you out because it just isn’t possible.

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8. Practice patience every day

Below are a few easy ways you can practice patience every day, increasing your ability to remain calm and cool in times of stress:

  • The next time you go to the grocery store, get in the longest line.
  • Instead of going through the drive-thru at your bank, go inside.
  • Take a long walk through a secluded park or trail.

Final thoughts

Staying calm in stressful situations is possible, all you need is some daily practice.

Taking deep breaths and eat mindfully are some simple ways to train your brain to be more patient. But changing the way you think of a situation and staying positive are most important in keeping cool whenever you feel overwhelmed and stressful.

Featured photo credit: Brooke Cagle via unsplash.com

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