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4 Totally Free Ways to Change Someone’s Life

4 Totally Free Ways to Change Someone’s Life


    Most of would like to do something positive to help other people. But unless we’re millionaires with wide open schedules, we’re not sure what we can do aside from donating a few dollars to Salvation Army Santa Clauses or spending a Saturday at Habitat for Humanity.

    But thanks to the wide reach and innovation made possible by the Internet, there are some really unique and inspiring ways you can touch people’s lives on a regular basis, for no cost and with only a small investment of your time.

    Check out the four sites below if you want to spread a little happiness (and feel pretty great about doing it):

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    1. Love Bomb

    Love Bomb’s mission is simple: drop tons of encouragement every week on someone who desperately needs it. It was created by Nate St. Pierre, the founder of the amazing (but now sadly discontinued) Love Drop and also ItStartsWith.Us (see below).

    Each week, Love Bomb’s subscribers are asked to nominate someone they know who is going through a tough time and could particularly use some positive words. That person must have a blog that allows people to comment without having to register for the site (although comment moderation is fine).

    Why? Because each Thursday, when that week’s recipient is announced, Love Bombers are directed to a specific post on the recipient’s website—and it’s bombs away! Within hours, the bomb-ee has hundreds of uplifting and encouraging and comments from strangers all over the world. If a kind word from someone on a bad day can lift our spirits, imagine how an avalanche of unexpected support can help someone who’s going through a difficult time.

    Nominees have included everyone from cancer patients to teens suffering depression to parents who have recently lost a child. To join the Love Bomb squad, click here and enter your information at the bottom of the page.

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    2. The World Needs More Love Letters

    Like Love Bomb, but a bit more tactile and “old school,” More Love Letters’ mission is to lift people’s spirits with handwritten notes of hope and love—sometimes addressed to specific recipients, sometimes totally random.

    Their team of writers has composed individual letters of encouragement to people in need, thank you notes to hardworking New York City baristas—even letters to strangers to be left at favorite childhood places or busy hubs like airports and subway stations. They’ve also sent over 20 Love Letter Bundles to groups like the Ronald McDonald House.

    Want to break out your rusty cursive (or printing) and send some love out into the world yourself? Sign up to get letter requests here.

    3. ItStartsWith.Us

    If you’ve got 15 minutes or less each week, you can turn someone’s day around with what may seem to them like a random act of kindness—but is actually a “mission” from ItStartsWith.Us. It’s a site that believes if we each do one positive thing, we can collectively change the world (or at least someone else’s “world” for a while).

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    Every week, subscribers receive a new assignment. It’s always something seemingly simple, like helping a coworker with something or telling someone how much you appreciate them—but who knows much your simple action might mean to someone? Maybe they’re secretly having an awful day and your gesture is the thing that turns it around. Maybe they’ll be so touched they’ll go out and perform an act of kindness for someone else. You never know how it can spread.

    To join the mailing list and start receiving your weekly do-good task, click here.

    4. 1000 Awesome Things

    Okay, this one isn’t so much a mission you can actively participate in, but it is guaranteed to bring a smile to your face and snap you out of a bad mood. Share this site or any of its daily posts with a friend or coworker and you can definitely earn a few points as a happiness-bringer.

    The goal of 1000 Awesome Things is to make you stop and consider the little (sometimes really little) and silly (sometimes really silly) aspects of life that are, when you truly consider it, pretty awesome.

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    Have you ever really thought about a broccoflower? Or thoroughly appreciated the glory that is that bite with all the toppings on it? From common everyday miracles (like when everything you own is fully charged) to the big stuff we all take for granted (like the moon), this site is the perfect way to see the world through a new lens of wonder and gratitude.

    You can sign up for their weekday posts by email or RSS.

    (Photo credit: New Life Start Button via Shutterstock)

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    Last Updated on February 17, 2020

    5 Reasons Why You Should Always Be Who You Are

    5 Reasons Why You Should Always Be Who You Are

    When it comes to being yourself, there can be a lot of pressure from the outside world as it tries to influence who you are. Living in a society that is constantly developing, it’s important for you to always be yourself from the inside out.

    When you deeply know yourself and the boundaries that you have set, you are more likely to experience a fulfilling and rewarding life. Without knowing yourself and establishing those boundaries, you can easily be pushed around and end up on a dirt path.

    So how to be who you are and always be yourself?

    “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it” – Matthew 7:13-14

    You have the option of taking the path that is broad or taking the path that is narrow. You can either conform to what life wants you to be, or have the courage to remain true to yourself throughout the years. It’s definitely a challenge to have a strong sense of self when we are constantly getting distracted and being influenced by the media and society’s way of life. But if you want to reach your fullest potential in life, it all starts with being yourself.

    Why should you always be yourself? Because you will:

    1. Live in Alignment With Your Values and Beliefs

    Being yourself is all about knowing what you believe in and the values that you live by. When you are not yourself, you will take on the values and beliefs of others. This is when you start conforming to other people’s expectations and way of thinking.

    When you know your values and why you do what you do, you will live according to your own values and beliefs.

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    2. Establish Your Own Identity

    When you are able to have a solid foundation of being you, you are establishing your own sense of identity. No matter what happens in your life, you will always know who you are.

    There will be times where you may feel lost or distracted, but if you have your own identity you’ll be able to get back on the right path. Without establishing your own identity, you may easily conform and lose yourself.

    3. Build Courage

    It takes a great amount of courage when you decide to take the path that goes against the crowd. The reason why the majority of people take the broad path is because it’s easy.

    It’s easy to just follow the crowd. It’s more of a challenge when you stay true to yourself and establish your own identity. This challenge of always being yourself takes courage and inner strength. No matter what comes your way, you’ll know how to handle it.

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    4. Establish Boundaries

    When you are always yourself, you know what your limits are and the boundaries that you have set for yourself. When people cross your boundaries, you will know.

    But if you don’t establish boundaries, people may very well walk all over you and take advantage of you. If you are always yourself and you establish boundaries, you are more likely to be aware when people start taking advantage of you.

    Create and establish your boundaries.

    5. Find Focus and Direction

    When you are always yourself, you are more likely to have focus and direction in your life. Imagine someone who is constantly conforming to other people’s expectations, do you think this person has focus and direction? I don’t think so.

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    When you stay true to who you are, you are more likely to know the goals you want to accomplish and how to go about accomplishing them. You are able to stay focused and know which direction to take in order for you to accomplish your goals.

    No matter what you experience in life, the only person that will always remain constant is you.

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