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See How An Ordinary Guy Got Into A Hot Restaurant And Easily Become A VIP

See How An Ordinary Guy Got Into A Hot Restaurant And Easily Become A VIP

So you want to be a hot shot at the latest hot spot?

While in school, I worked in some of the hottest restaurants and hotels in L.A.  One of my first jobs was an assistant position at a top-talent agency in Hollywood where we booked reservations for big agents and celebrities.  Now, I dine at some of the finest restaurants in town with clients and friends, so I know a thing or two about the scene.

Restaurants aren’t just a place to eat–they represent a lifestyle and are one of the best places to see and be seen. They are where business deals are done, connections are made and great moments are created. Choose your spots wisely.  From trendy popups to hotel dining rooms to the legendary establishments, all restaurants are not created equal.

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A word to the wise: pick places that match up with your lifestyle and start putting in effort.  Here’s how to stand out from the crowd and get in anywhere you want.

1.  Build familiarity fast.

Be strategic in your approach.  Here is how to create familiarity with the decision makers (or the people who influence the decision makers):

Nurture the relationship:

Pick one or two people and build the relationship like you would with a friend.  Treat them well because they will soon be one of your best allies.  Remember, you aren’t working with a job title.  You are working with a person with goals, hopes and dreams.  Treat them that way.  Make eye contact when you thank and tip them.  Call people by name and ask about their lives when appropriate.

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Baby steps:

People can smell desperation, and it will work against you when you try too hard to get the best table if they don’t know who you are.  Build familiarity first by sitting at the bar and connecting with the bartender and the staff. The key is to connect while you get to know the place.

Repeat business:

Keep going back.  They will notice.  A repeat customer is a VIP most of the time in the restaurant business.  Pick a few restaurants and go there often.

2.  Getting others to book for you.

The fastest way to get in on the action is to go through someone who is already in.  Use your resources.  There are people around you that have access.  Here is how to access them:

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People already on the list:

Ask a work associate, socialite friend or popular neighbor to book your reservation for you.  Even better, go with them.  The best way to get in is to be attached to the people who are already in.

Luxury hotel concierge:

Getting to know the luxury hotels around you and the staff there is necessary.  I live in NYC and don’t work out of an office, so I often use high-end hotels to hold meetings with people and have drinks.  In the process, I get to know the important waiters and concierge who know everyone.  Take care of them and they will take care of you.

The special event planner:

If you are thinking of planning a large party, call up the manager or event planner of the restaurant and tell them you thinking of organizing a very special party in the future and would love to experience the restaurant to see if it is right for the occasion.  If it is not right for you, tell them you are going in another direction because of the theme but you loved the place so much you want to bring your other friends there.  Win-win.

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3.  Give them a reason.

You need to find that hook that pulls someone on your side.  Most of the time, it’s something that can benefit them. You must give them a reason to treat you like a VIP because it doesn’t just happen on its own.  Here is how to make it happen:

Be associated with someone influential: 

Similar to what I mentioned above, be strategic in your first few encounters with the staff at a restaurant.  It can be another VIP or a member of the actual staff.  The key is to be associated with someone who is in-demand or someone on the inside.

Money talks:  

This one is kind of obvious but you need to know how (and who) to take care of.  Always take care of the person who takes care of you, even if they don’t make the decisions. If they are on the inside, they have some influence.  Go through them to get in next time.  Whomever you make your connection with is your ticket.  Don’t get too cocky—I can’t tell you how many times a bus boy has delivered what another couldn’t.

Make a special trip:

Most people don’t make the effort to personally introduce themselves.  If you want to be treated like a VIP, you must get noticed in some way.  It has proved to be highly effective when people go into restaurants and meet with the manager or gatekeeper to explain the situation ahead of time.  They will respect you for it because you respect them enough to take time out of your day to meet with them.

Final thought: these tips don’t just apply to restaurants. The more strategically you think and the more you nurture your relationships, the easier it will be for you to become a VIP in every area of life.

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Last Updated on November 19, 2019

20 Time Management Tips to Super Boost Your Productivity

20 Time Management Tips to Super Boost Your Productivity

Are you usually punctual or late? Do you finish things within the time you stipulate? Do you hand in your reports/work on time? Are you able to accomplish what you want to do before deadlines? Are you a good time manager?

If your answer is “no” to any of the questions above, that means you’re not managing your time as well as you want. Here are 20 time management tips to help you manage time better:

1. Create a Daily Plan

Plan your day before it unfolds. Do it in the morning or even better, the night before you sleep. The plan gives you a good overview of how the day will pan out. That way, you don’t get caught off guard. Your job for the day is to stick to the plan as best as possible.

2. Peg a Time Limit to Each Task

Be clear that you need to finish X task by 10am, Y task by 3pm, and Z item by 5:30pm. This prevents your work from dragging on and eating into time reserved for other activities.

3. Use a Calendar

Having a calendar is the most fundamental step to managing your daily activities. If you use outlook or lotus notes, calendar come as part of your mailing software.

I use it. It’s even better if you can sync your calendar to your mobile phone and other hardwares you use – that way, you can access your schedule no matter where you are. Here’re the 10 Best Calendar Apps to Stay on Track .

Find out more tips about how to use calendar for better time management here: How to Use a Calendar to Create Time and Space

4. Use an Organizer

An organizer helps you to be on top of everything in your life. It’s your central tool to organize information, to-do lists, projects, and other miscellaneous items.

These Top 15 Time Management Apps and Tools can help you organize better, pick one that fits your needs.

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5. Know Your Deadlines

When do you need to finish your tasks? Mark the deadlines out clearly in your calendar and organizer so you know when you need to finish them.

But make sure you don’t make these 10 Common Mistakes When Setting Deadlines.

6. Learn to Say “No”

Don’t take on more than you can handle. For the distractions that come in when you’re doing other things, give a firm no. Or defer it to a later period.

Leo Babauta, the founder of Zen Habits has some great insights on how to say no: The Gentle Art of Saying No

7. Target to Be Early

When you target to be on time, you’ll either be on time or late. Most of the times you’ll be late. However, if you target to be early, you’ll most likely be on time.

For appointments, strive to be early. For your deadlines, submit them earlier than required.

Learn from these tips about how to prepare yourself to be early, instead of just in time.

8. Time Box Your Activities

This means restricting your work to X amount of time. Why time boxing is good for you? Here’re 10 reasons why you should start time-boxing.

You can also read more about how to do time boxing here: #5 of 13 Strategies To Jumpstart Your Productivity.

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9. Have a Clock Visibly Placed Before You

Sometimes we are so engrossed in our work that we lose track of time. Having a huge clock in front of you will keep you aware of the time at the moment.

10. Set Reminders 15 Minutes Before

Most calendars have a reminder function. If you have an important meeting to attend, set that alarm 15 minutes before.

You can learn more about how reminders help you remember everything in this article: The Importance of Reminders (And How to Make a Reminder That Works)

11. Focus

Are you multi-tasking so much that you’re just not getting anything done? If so, focus on just one key task at one time. Multitasking is bad for you.

Close off all the applications you aren’t using. Close off the tabs in your browser that are taking away your attention. Focus solely on what you’re doing. You’ll be more efficient that way.

Lifehack’s CEO has written a definitive guide on how to focus, learn the tips: How to Focus and Maximize Your Productivity (the Definitive Guide)

12. Block out Distractions

What’s distracting you in your work? Instant messages? Phone ringing? Text messages popping in?

I hardly ever use chat nowadays. The only times when I log on is when I’m not intending to do any work. Otherwise it gets very distracting.

When I’m doing important work, I also switch off my phone. Calls during this time are recorded and I contact them afterward if it’s something important. This helps me concentrate better.

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Find more tips on how to minimize distractions to achieve more in How to Minimize Distraction to Get Things Done

13. Track Your Time Spent

When you start to track your time, you’re more aware of how you spend your time. For example, you can set a simple countdown timer to make sure that you finish a task within a period of time, say 30 minutes or 1 hour. The time pressure can push you to stay focused and work more efficiently.

You can find more time tracking apps here and pick one that works for you.

14. Don’t Fuss About Unimportant Details

You’re never get everything done in exactly the way you want. Trying to do so is being ineffective.

Trying to be perfect does you more harm than good, learn here about how perfectionism kills your productivity and how to ditch the perfectionism mindset.

15. Prioritize

Since you can’t do everything, learn to prioritize the important and let go of the rest.

Apply the 80/20 principle which is a key principle in prioritization. You can also take up this technique to prioritize everything on your plate: How to Prioritize Right in 10 Minutes and Work 10X Faster

16. Delegate

If there are things that can be better done by others or things that are not so important, consider delegating. This takes a load off and you can focus on the important tasks.

When you delegate some of your work, you free up your time and achieve more. Learn about how to effectively delegate works in this guide: How to Delegate Work (the Definitive Guide for Successful Leaders)

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17. Batch Similar Tasks Together

For related work, batch them together.

For example, my work can be categorized into these core groups:

  1. writing (articles, my upcoming book)
  2. coaching
  3. workshop development
  4. business development
  5. administrative

I batch all the related tasks together so there’s synergy. If I need to make calls, I allocate a time slot to make all my calls. It really streamlines the process.

18. Eliminate Your Time Wasters

What takes your time away your work? Facebook? Twitter? Email checking? Stop checking them so often.

One thing you can do is make it hard to check them – remove them from your browser quick links / bookmarks and stuff them in a hard to access bookmarks folder. Replace your browser bookmarks with important work-related sites.

While you’ll still checking FB/Twitter no doubt, you’ll find it’s a lower frequency than before.

19. Cut off When You Need To

The number one reason why things overrun is because you don’t cut off when you have to.

Don’t be afraid to intercept in meetings or draw a line to cut-off. Otherwise, there’s never going to be an end and you’ll just eat into the time for later.

20. Leave Buffer Time In-Between

Don’t pack everything closely together. Leave a 5-10 minute buffer time in between each tasks. This helps you wrap up the previous task and start off on the next one.

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