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20 Experiments for Enjoying a Happy Life

20 Experiments for Enjoying a Happy Life

The only way that one can grow as a person is to understand one’s self. The more one does to become a better person, the more they are going to understand what they are all about. Also, they are going to be happier. There are many things one can do to test themselves and break free of their comfort zones. These trials help people learn how to be more confident, stick up for themselves, have fun, and be more social with others. Here are some experiments to try that can help to improve your life:

1. Ask Someone Out on a Date.

Stop flirting and dropping hints. Come right out and let the other person know you are interested.

2. Get Rid of Clutter.

Throw away stuff you aren’t using. Clutter weighs people down.

3. Do a Good Deed.

Doing something nice for someone else makes people happy. It doesn’t have to be much. Even just buying someone a cup of coffee will make you feel good about yourself.

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4. Try Juicing.

Try eating nothing but vegetarian foods and drinks to improve your energy.

5. Be Spontaneous.

Buy a ticket to someplace you have never been. Then, travel alone and see how independent you can be.

6. Step Back from Bad Relationships.

If your relationship is going sour, take some time for yourself to think about what you really want from it. Either you will have a better relationship, or you will end it.

7. Talk to Strangers.

Even though Mom said never to do this, it can make you feel really good to just smile and say “hi” to people passing by.

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8. Go for a Walk.

Instead of driving or taking public transport, start walking whenever you can. You’ll be surprised at how much you notice about your surroundings when you’re walking around.

9. Tell Your Story.

Share something personal with the world by writing it as your Facebook status or in a personal blog. The more people like and share the post, the more you will be able to grow as a person.

10. Visit a Fortune Teller.

Have a reading done to help you choose future paths. Try unusual ways to see future like iChing, runes or precognitive dreaming.

11. Get Drunk and Get Creative.

Have a few drinks and try doing something creative, such as drawing or songwriting.

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12. Let Others Know how Much they Mean to You.

Don’t wait for someone to do something nice to let them know how much you appreciate them.

13. Live by Yourself.

Test yourself to see if you have the resources to take care of yourself and your home with no help.

14. Cut Coffee and Alcohol from Your Diet.

Giving these up can lead to better health.

15. Avoid the News.

The news can be depressing, so don’t watch it for a while. You don’t always have to be up on everything.

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16. Avoid Social Media.

Set a certain amount of time, such as a day or a week, to turn off all social media websites. You may be surprised to see how much fun you can have in life when you are not sitting in front of the computer all the time.

17. Turn Off the Internet.

If you are going to try giving up social media, why not give up the computer altogether for a few days? Find other things to fill your time, such as reading or other hobbies.

18. Stop Playing Video Games.

See how long you can go without playing your favorite games and try doing something else instead.

19. Spice Up Your Resume.

Create a resume that is unique and stands out from the crowd.

20. Be Offensive.

Don’t hold back just because you don’t want to offend anyone. Your opinions matter too.

Featured photo credit: https://www.flickr.com/photos/rorri1982/ via flickr.com

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Last Updated on September 20, 2018

How to Stay Calm and Cool When You Are Extremely Stressful

How to Stay Calm and Cool When You Are Extremely Stressful

Being in a hurry all the time drains your energy. Your work and routine life make you feel overwhelmed. Getting caught up in things beyond your control stresses you out…

If you’d like to stay calm and cool in stressful situations, put the following 8 steps into practice:

1. Breathe

The next time you’re faced with a stressful situation that makes you want to hurry, stop what you’re doing for one minute and perform the following steps:

  • Take five deep breaths in and out (your belly should come forward with each inhale).
  • Imagine all that stress leaving your body with each exhale.
  • Smile. Fake it if you have to. It’s pretty hard to stay grumpy with a goofy grin on your face.

Feel free to repeat the above steps every few hours at work or home if you need to.

2. Loosen up

After your breathing session, perform a quick body scan to identify any areas that are tight or tense. Clenched jaw? Rounded shoulders? Anything else that isn’t at ease?

Gently touch or massage any of your body parts that are under tension to encourage total relaxation. It might help to imagine you’re in a place that calms you: a beach, hot tub, or nature trail, for example.

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3. Chew slowly

Slow down at the dinner table if you want to learn to be patient and lose weight. Shoveling your food down as fast as you can is a surefire way to eat more than you need to (and find yourself with a bellyache).

Be a mindful eater who pays attention to the taste, texture, and aroma of every dish. Chew slowly while you try to guess all of the ingredients that were used to prepare your dish.

Chewing slowly will also reduce those dreadful late-night cravings that sneak up on you after work.

4. Let go

Cliche as it sounds, it’s very effective.

The thing that seems like the end of the world right now?

It’s not. Promise.

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Stressing and worrying about the situation you’re in won’t do any good because you’re already in it, so just let it go.

Letting go isn’t easy, so here’s a guide to help you:

21 Things To Do When You Find It Hard To Let Go

5. Enjoy the journey

Focusing on the end result can quickly become exhausting. Chasing a bold, audacious goal that’s going to require a lot of time and patience? Split it into several mini-goals so you’ll have several causes for celebration.

Stop focusing on the negative thoughts. Giving yourself consistent positive feedback will help you grow patience, stay encouraged, and find more joy in the process of achieving your goals.

6. Look at the big picture

The next time you find your stress level skyrocketing, take a deep breath, and ask yourself:

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Will this matter to me…

  • Next week?
  • Next month?
  • Next year?
  • In 10 years?

Hint: No, it won’t.

I bet most of the stuff that stresses you wouldn’t matter the next week, maybe not even the next day.

Stop agonizing over things you can’t control because you’re only hurting yourself.

7. Stop demanding perfection of yourself

You’re not perfect and that’s okay. Show me a person who claims to be perfect and I’ll show you a dirty liar.

Demanding perfection of yourself (or anybody else) will only stress you out because it just isn’t possible.

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8. Practice patience every day

Below are a few easy ways you can practice patience every day, increasing your ability to remain calm and cool in times of stress:

  • The next time you go to the grocery store, get in the longest line.
  • Instead of going through the drive-thru at your bank, go inside.
  • Take a long walk through a secluded park or trail.

Final thoughts

Staying calm in stressful situations is possible, all you need is some daily practice.

Taking deep breaths and eat mindfully are some simple ways to train your brain to be more patient. But changing the way you think of a situation and staying positive are most important in keeping cool whenever you feel overwhelmed and stressful.

Featured photo credit: Brooke Cagle via unsplash.com

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