There’s a great song out there by Jimmy Cliff, one of reggae’s top artists, that in six words summarizes just how you succeed in life: I want I do I get. These six words are a very powerful way of connecting what you want with what you will achieve.
First comes wanting something – a better life for yourself, your family, more money, a better job, whatever it is you dream about and long for. You desire it, you dream about it, you daydream about it, you yearn for it. But that’s not enough.
Next – and this the part too many people forget about – comes the doing. All of the wanting in the world is not going to move you one inch closer to what you want: you have to do. You have to find a better job, change jobs, take risks, write software, try new things, stop doing old things, go to college, work, act, do. The doing is the absolutely indispensable connection between what you want and what you get.
Finally, if you keep doing what needs to be done, if you keep adjusting what you do to move you closer to what you want, you get. Maybe not easily, maybe not as quickly as movies and television portray, but it will come.
If these six words connect with you, maybe it’s time to do your “I want I do I get” audit:
I want. Find a quiet place you can be alone and ask and answer this deceptively simple question: What do you want? Not what your boss, parents, relatives, friends or significant other want. What do you want? What matters to you that you’re prepared to spend your days, weeks maybe years getting? Be honest with yourself – the stakes are high. More than a few people have wasted their lives because they never really asked themselves what they really wanted.
I do. After you’ve gotten clear on what you want, what are you prepared to do about it? And you thought the step above was hard! When you start looking at what it’s going to cost to get what you want, you may decide that cost is too high. That’s fine. The more you understand the cost, the better you will appreciate the value. Don’t be surprised if you go back and forth between clarifying your wants and calculating the costs of what you want – and that’s a good thing.
I get. This is where you get your just desserts, right? Maybe. Way too many people find they get what they worked long and hard for only to find there’s a rather nasty catch. The man who climbs the corporate ladder, only to become estranged from his family. The women who forsakes a career to be a mother, but never gets over knowing what she could have achieved in the business world. It’s up to you to define what you want to get, so take the time to think through what you want to get really looks like.
One final philosophical note about these six words: notice that “I” is three of them? Not what others want, not what others say you are “supposed” or “should” do. What’s more, no one is going to do it for you. You are the key to making these six words work.
Bob Walsh writes, codes, podcasts and blogs about different aspects of the digital lifestyle at ToDoOrElse, MyMicroISV and Clear Blogging. His second book, Clear Blogging, is now available at Amazon and elsewhere.
Most people want a few more dollars in their wallets. But between an employer and family, the time most of us can devote to a second job is severely limited. Running a small side business can provide a few more options: you don’t have to show up at a set time and you can use skills you already have. Not all will be perfect for everyone, of course, and I’m sure that you’ll have a few ideas of your own after reading this list. If you’d like to share any other business ideas, please add them in the comments.
Selling collectibles — From antique books to teddy bears, there are plenty of opportunities to buy and sell collectibles. It’s important to familiarize yourself with the collectible of your choice but if you choose something that you’ve been collecting for a while, you’ve got a head start.
Locating apartments — It can take time to sort through apartment listings, but you can make some money by finding the perfect apartment for a renter.
Baby proofing — New parents often prefer to bring in an expert to make sure their home is safe for a new baby.
Calligraphic writing — If you’ve got elegant handwriting, you can pick up gigs writing or addressing wedding invitations, holiday cards and more.
Selling coupons — Search on eBay for coupons right now and you’ll see thousands of listings for coupons. It’s just a matter of clipping and listing what you find in your Sunday newspaper.
Pet training — A surprising number of people don’t know where to start in training a pet. Even teaching Rover simple commands like ‘Sit’ and ‘Stay’ can bring in a few dollars.
Running errands — A wide variety of people want to outsource their errands, from those folks who aren’t able to leave their homes easily to those who have a busy schedule.
Researching family trees — Amateur genealogists often call in experts, especially to handle research that has to be done in person in a far off place. If you’re willing to go to a local church and copy a few records, you can handle many family tree research requests.
Supplying firewood — The prerequisite for selling firewood is having a source of wood; if you’ve got some land where you can cut down a few trees, you’ve got a head start.
Hauling — As more people trade in their SUVs for compact cars, hauling is becoming more important: people have to rent a truck or hire a hauler for even small loads.
Image consulting — Image consultants provide a wide variety of services, ranging from offering advice on appearance to teaching etiquette.
Menu planning — For many people, the trip up in eating home-cooked or healthy meals is knowing what to prepare. Meal planners set a schedule to solve certain dietary problems.
Microfarming — Cultivating food and flowers on small plots of land allows you to sell produce easily.
Offering notary public services — Notary publics can witness and authenticate documents: a service needed for all sorts of official documents.
Teaching music — If you’re skilled with a musical instrument, you can earn money by offering lessons.
Mystery shopping — Mystery shoppers check the conditions and service at a store and report back to the store’s higher-ups.
Offering research services — Just by reading up on a topic and compiling a report on it can earn you money.
Personal shopping — Personal shoppers typically select gifts, apparel and other products for clients, helping them save time.
Pet breeding — Purebred pets can be quite value, especially if you can verify their pedigree.
Removing snow — During the winter months, shoveling walks can still be a reliable way to earn money. You might be asked to take care of the driveway too.
Utility auditing — As people become environmentally-concious, they want to know just how efficient their homes are. With some simple testing, you can tell them.
Offering web hosting services — Providing server space can be lucrative, particularly if you can provide tech support to your clients.
Cutting lawns — An old standby, cutting lawns and other landscaping services can provide a second income in the summer.
Auctioning items on eBay — Want to get rid of all your old stuff? Stick it up on eBay and auction it off.
Babysitting — Child care of all kinds, from babysitting to nannying, can offer constant opportunities.
Freelance writing — If you’ve got the skills to write clearly, you can sell your pen for everything from blogs to advertising copy.
Selling blog and website themes — Do a little designing on the side? Customers that don’t want to pay full price for a website will often pay for a template or theme.
Offering computer help — Particularly with people new to computers, you can earn money by providing in-home computer help.
Designing websites — It may require a little skilled effort, but designing websites remains a reliable source of income.
Selling stock photography — For shutterbugs, an easy way to put a photography collection to work is to post it to a stock photography site.
Freelance designing — Check with local businesses: you can provide brochures, business cards and other design work and get paid a good fee.
Tutoring — Math and languages reamin the easiest subjects to find tutoring gigs for, but there is demand for other fields as well.
Housesitting / petsitting — Stopping in to check on a house or pet can earn you some money, and maybe even a place to stay.
Building niche websites — If you can put together a site on a very specific topic, you can put targeted ads on it and make money quickly.
Translating — The variety of translating work available is huge: written word, on the spot and more is easy to find even on a part-time basis.
Creating custom crafts — No matter what kind of crafts you make, there’s likely a market for it. Etsy remains one of the easiest places to sell crafts.
Setting up a wi-fi hotspot — With a little bit of equipment, you can set up a wi-fi hotspot and charge your neighbors for the access they’ve been ‘borrowing.’
Selling an e-book — You can write an e-book about almost anything and put it up for sale online.
Affiliate marketing — If you’re willing to market other companies’ products, you can earn a cut of the sales.
Renting out your spare room — From looking for a long-term roommate to listing your guest room on couch surfing sites, that spare room can make you money.
Offering handy man services — Handling small household tasks can provide you with plenty of work, although you’ll probably be expected to have your own tools.
Teaching an online class — Share your expertise through a website, an online seminar or variety of other methods.
Building furniture — For those with the skill to create handmade furniture, selling their creations is often just a matter of advertising.
Providing personal chef services — Personal chefs prepare meals ahead of time for customers, leaving their customers with a full freezer and no mess.
Event planning — From planning corporate events to bar mitzvahs, an event planning business can require plenty of work and offer plenty of pay.
Installing home safety products — Particularly as Baby Boomers age, people able to install handrails and other home safety products are in demand.
Altering / tailoring — If your sewing skills are up to par, altering garments is coming back as people try to stretch more wear out of their clothing.
Offering in-home beauty services — Hair cuts, makeup and other beauty services that can be performed at home have a growing demand.
Business coaching — Helping others to establish and develop their businesses can provide many opportunities to earn money.
Writing resumes — Writing resumes can provide a reliable income, especially if you can put a polish on a client’s credentials.
There are plenty of offers that claim to provide you with the opportunity to make thousands of dollars a week. Unfortunately, none of these businesses will provide that sort of income, but they aren’t scams either. They were chosen because they all require a minimum investment to get started — some require nothing more than a flyer advertising your business. Even better, if you do enjoy any of these businesses, there is a potential with most of them to continue to expand — perhaps even to the point of going full time.