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How to Become a Regular

How to Become a Regular

Isn’t it great to be a regular of a restaurant and treat like a VIP there – having benefits that no one usually has – like discounts, warmly respected by staff, immediate seating arrargement etc? Well you can now with a guide by Grey Cerveny on how to become a regular. He has more than 20 tips on making you a regular on any restaurant you want. It seems mostly about good manners and don’t take their service as granted because you pay for it:

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    • Visit the same restaurant three times in the first month, then once a month ongoing. These are minimums, visit more if you like.
    • Use your name and theirs. Hi [server], my name is [me]…
    • Use the restaurant for a party, catering, or other service.
    • Bring new friends (customers) and introduce them. Use this as an opportunity to stay in touch friends.
    • Tip 20% on the total bill (tax, drinks, everything) and round up to the nearest dollar.
    • Tip the same percentage, don’t over tip unless you plan to do it every time. (Over tipping is not necessary. )
    • Tip on free benefits, or you won’t receive them anymore.
    • Treat servers as if they have more knowledge of the menu items than you , because they do.
    • Work with the same knowledge set as the restaurant. (Know what sushi is hip and what is pop, what dishes are authentic and which are americanized)
    • Inquire about and order house/chef specialties.
    • Don’t ask for the owner if you don’t know him.

    How to Become a Regular – [Urban Monarch via Lifehacker]

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    Last Updated on August 12, 2020

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    How to Plan Your Life Goals and Actually Achieve Them

    Where do you want to be 5 years from now, 10 years from now, or even this time next year? These places are your goal destinations and although you might know that you don’t want to be standing still in the same place as you are now, it’s not always easy to identify what your real goals are.

    Many people think that setting a goal destination is having a dream that is there in the far distant future but will never be attained. This proves to be a self-fulfilling prophesy because of two things:

    Firstly, that the goal isn’t specifically defined enough in the first place; and secondly, it remains a remote dream waiting for action which is never taken.

    Defining your goal destination is something that you need to take some time to think carefully about. The following steps on how to plan your life goals should get you started on a journey to your destination.

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    So what do you really want to do with your life? What are the main things that you would like to accomplish with your life? What is it that you would really regret not doing if you suddenly found you had a limited amount of time left on the earth?

    Each of these things is a goal. Define each goal destination in one sentence.

    If any of these goals is a stepping stone to another one of the goals, take it off this list as it isn’t a goal destination.

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    Write each goal destination at the top of a new piece of paper.

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    Under each item listed, write down the things that you will need to do in order to complete each of the steps required to complete the goal. 

    These items will become a check-list. They are a tangible way of checking how you are progressing towards reaching your goal destinations. A record of your success!

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    Using the time frames you created, on each goal destination sheet write down the year in which you will complete the goal by.

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    Now take an overview of all your goal destinations and make a schedule of what you need to do this week, this month, this year – in order to progress along the road towards your goal destinations.

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    Although it may take you several years to, for example, get the promotion you desire because you first need to get the MBA which means getting a job with more money to allow you to finance a part-time degree course, you will ultimately be successful in achieving your goal destination because you have planned out not only what you want, but how to get it, and have been pro-active towards achieving it.

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