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Stop Forgetting to Send Greeting Cards!

Stop Forgetting to Send Greeting Cards!

It’s Valentines Day this week… did you send cards to the people you care about? Hopefully you’re not trying to get comfortable in the doghouse.

Wouldn’t it be great to get permanently organized to send cards? If this is something you’d like to improve upon, I have several suggestions that include some great Outlook tips!

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Outlook Task Settings

    There are many options out there for getting reminders one-at-a-time, and you can certainly write birthdays into your calendar. However, for many people this still doesn’t seem to work for getting cards out in the mail on time. A system that works well for me is to use an Outlook task to pop up and remind me to write cards once a month. I usually do this the last week of the month on a day when I am going to be in the office doing administrative work. You can use an equivalent reminder in your own time management system if you don’t use Outlook.

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      I have developed a spreadsheet that I refer to each month when it’s time to write cards. In the notes area of the Outlook task, I have provided myself a hyperlink to this spreadsheet so I can get to it quickly. You might want to do this for a lot of different reasons–from the menu bar of your task, you choose “Insert–File” and then navigate to the document you want. Just before clicking “Insert,” note there is a drop-down arrow where you can choose to “Insert as a Hyperlink.” This trick is very useful for any task that involves a frequently-accessed document.

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      You can have a copy of my Greeting Card Calendar spreadsheet to use for yourself. Some people refer to this kind of list as a “perpetual calendar.” It’s just an easy way to list everyone’s birthdays and all of the holidays permanently in one place. You can sort it and filter it in various ways, and I have written instructions for using it right into the document. When it’s time to write cards, just open the spreadsheet and filter for the occasions for that month. Anytime you hear of someone’s birthday, make a solid habit of adding it to the list.

      If you need to mail the cards out later, write a small send date on each card where you would place the stamp, and place it with your outgoing mail to send at the right time. There are some great options for sending out cards online (not e-cards), such as American Greetings, CardStore, HallmarkGreetz, and SendOutCards (these are sold by individual distributors). All of these options will send out a personalized paper card from you with a stamp on it. It’s great to be able to create all the cards for the month at once and post-date them to be sent out automatically!

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      For organizing paper greeting cards themselves, I recommend purchasing a greeting card organizer box from your local discount store. They usually come with dividers for the common types of cards, and they also typically come with a few cards to get you started. You can also use an expandable accordion file that you label with your own categories, but boxes do work better for flipping through your collection easily.

      Sending greeting cards is a great way to make your friends and acquaintances feel remembered and special. Now you can be that person who always remembers!

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      Lorie Marrero is a Professional Organizer and creator of The Clutter Diet, an innovative, affordable online program for home organization. Lorie’s site helps members lose “Clutter-Pounds” from their home by providing online access to her team of organizers. Lorie writes something useful, funny, interesting, and/or insanely practical every few days or so in The Clutter Diet Blog. She lives in Austin, TX, where her company has provided hands-on organizing services to clients since 2000.

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      Why Do I Have Bad Luck? 2 Simple Things to Change Your Destiny

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      Are you one of those people who are always suffering setbacks? Does little ever seem to go right for you? Do you sometimes feel that the universe is out to get you? Do you wonder:

      Why do I have bad luck?

      Let me let you into a secret:

      Your luck is no worse—and no better—than anyone else’s. It just feels that way. Better still, there are two simple things you can do which will reverse your feelings of being unlucky.

      1. Stop believing that what happens in your life is down to the vagaries of luck, destiny, supernatural forces, malevolent other people, or anything else outside your self.

      Psychologists call this “external locus of control.” It’s a kind of fatalism, where people believe that they can do little or nothing personally to change their lives.

      Because of this, they either merely hope for the best, focus on trying to change their luck by various kinds of superstition, or submit passively to whatever comes—while complaining that it doesn’t match their hopes.

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      Most successful people take the opposite view. They have “internal locus of control.” They believe that what happens in their life is nearly all down to them; and that even when chance events occur, what is important is not the event itself, but how you respond to it.

      This makes them pro-active, engaged, ready to try new things, and keen to find the means to change whatever in their lives they don’t like.

      They aren’t fatalistic and they don’t blame bad luck for what isn’t right in their world. They look for a way to make things better.

      Are they luckier than the others? Of course not.

      Luck is random—that’s what chance means—so they are just as likely to suffer setbacks as anyone else.

      What’s different is their response. When things go wrong, they quickly look for ways to put them right. They don’t whine, pity themselves, or complain about “bad luck.” They try to learn from what happened to avoid or correct it next time and get on with living their life as best they can.

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      No one is habitually luckier or unluckier than anyone else. It may seem so, over the short term (Random events often come in groups, just as random numbers often lie close together for several instances—which is why gamblers tend to see patterns where none exist).

      When you take a longer perspective, random chance is just . . . random. Yet those who feel that they are less lucky, typically pay far more attention to short-term instances of bad luck, convincing themselves of the correctness of their belief.

      Your locus of control isn’t genetic. You learned it somehow. If it isn’t working for you, change it.

      2. Remember that whatever you pay attention to grows in your mind.

      If you focus on what’s going wrong in your life—especially if you see it as “bad luck” you can do nothing about—it will seem blacker and more malevolent.

      In a short time, you’ll become so convinced that everything is against you that you’ll notice more and more instances where this appears to be true. As a result, you will almost certainly stop trying, convinced that nothing you can do will improve your prospects.

      Fatalism feeds on itself until people become passive “victims” of life’s blows. The “losers” in life are those who are convinced they will fail before they start anything; sure that their “bad luck” will ruin any prospects of success.

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      They rarely notice that the true reasons for their failure are ignorance, laziness, lack of skill, lack of forethought, or just plain foolishness—all of which they could do something to correct, if only they would stop blaming other people or “bad luck” for their personal deficiencies.

      Your attention is under your control. Send it where you want it to go. Starve the negative thoughts until they die.

      To improve your fortune, first decide that what happens is nearly always down to you; then try focusing on what works and what turns out well, not the bad stuff.

      Your “fate” really does depend on the choices that you make. When random events happen, as they always will, do you choose to try to turn them to your advantage or just complain about them?

      Thomas Jefferson is said to have used these words:

      “I’m a great believer in luck and I find the harder I work, the more I have of it.”

      Ralph Waldo Emerson said:

      “Shallow men believe in luck. Strong men believe in cause and effect.”

      Your luck, in the end, is pretty much what you choose it to be.

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