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Winning Customers. . . and Keeping Them Too

Winning Customers. . . and Keeping Them Too

It’s widely accepted that customer service is probably the most important way for any business to differentiate itself in what is now a global, commoditized and hyper-competitive business world. When competitors can replicate your products or services, and undercut your pricing, about the only thing they cannot do as quickly is to reproduce the image you have already established in your customers’ minds and the loyalty it wins for you.

It’s also worth reminding yourself that in a world full of social networks, blogs, and web sites reviewing everything, providing poor customer service will be the fastest way for any business to do irreparable damage to its image, and convince people that they don’t want even to consider becoming its customers. Winning a new customer is important—but it’s also chancy, expensive and time consuming. Keeping the ones you have is essential to building any kind of stable business.

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So far so good, but saying this is a lot easier than doing it. What does it take to be able to prosper in a marketplace where a single misstep in handling a customer can be all around the Web in seconds?

It takes time. Time is essential to any type of satisfactory customer service.

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  • You must give people your time to deal with their issues properly, not palm off some quick fix that works (maybe) for you, but leaves them little better off.
  • You need to give your customers your time and attention to really listen to their concerns and thoughts. Just about every human being wants to be heard and have his or her existence validated by other people’s attention. Give customers this and they will love you (and forgive your mistakes too). Deny them a hearing and they’ll hate you for it, almost whatever else you do for them.
  • You must give people your time if you want to build a relationship with them that they will value. The difference between a relationship conducted on the run and a relationship that will create loyalty and long-term business is comparable to the difference between a long-term, loving relationship and a one-night stand.

How do you make the time for good customer service? The secret of making time for what matters is not in what you do, it’s in what you don’t do. Cut out all the time wasters: things like wading through pointless e-mails, jumping to respond to instant messages, attending meetings that have no real purpose, spreading gossip, and writing memos or sending messages purely to protect your butt. Pare down every purely administrative activity (record keeping, budgeting, filling in forms, discussing yet another policy on car parking allocations) to the minimum time needed.

Focus every second you can on whatever makes your business successful and nothing else. I can tell you right now that it won’t be compiling reports, or attending budget meetings, or playing office politics, or reading endless cc’d e-mails. If you want to tell someone something, pick up the phone or tell them face to face. If you want something done, don’t convene a committee; give someone the responsibility and trust them to do it. If you want time for better customer contact, stop wasting it on purely internal issues.

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Above all, concentrate on creating meaning for yourself, your customers, and your colleagues and associates. When people are doing something that has a meaning and purpose they can believe in, miracles happen every day.

What does it take to create such meaning? You guessed it: time. Time to spend with the people who work with you and the people you sell to or serve; time to explain your purpose and engage them in the process of making it a reality. If you fail in this, it won’t matter how else you spend your time. It will truly be wasted.

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Adrian Savage is a writer, an Englishman and a retired business executive (in that order). He lives in Tucson, Arizona. You can read his thoughts most days at Slow Leadership, the site for everyone who wants to bring back the taste, zest and satisfaction to leadership; and also at The Coyote Within.

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Last Updated on April 9, 2020

How to Think Positive Thoughts When Feeling Negative

How to Think Positive Thoughts When Feeling Negative

Positive thinking can lead to a lot of positive change in your life. Developing an optimistic outlook can be good for both your physical and mental health.

But sometimes, certain situations arise in life that makes it hard to keep a positive outlook. Take steps to make positive thinking become more like your second nature and you’ll reap the biggest benefits.

Here are 10 ways to make thinking positive thoughts easy:

1. Spend Time with Positive People

If you surround yourself with constant complainers, their negativity is likely to rub off on you.

Spend time with positive friends and family members to increase the likelihood that their positive thinking habits will become yours too. It’s hard to be negative when everyone around you is so positive.

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Learn How to Surround Yourself With Positive People.

2. Take Responsibility for Your Behavior

When you encounter problems and difficulties in life, don’t play the role of the victim. Acknowledge your role in the situation and take responsibility for your behavior.

Accepting responsibility can help you learn from mistakes and prevent you from blaming others unfairly.

3. Contribute to the Community

One of the best ways to feel good about what you have, is to focus on what you have to give.

Volunteer in some manner and give back to the community. Helping others can give you a new outlook on the world and can assist you with positive thinking.

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4. Read Positive and Inspirational Materials

Spend time each day reading something that encourages positive thinking. Read the Bible, spiritual material, or inspirational quotes to help you focus on what’s important to you in life. It can be a great way to start and end your day.

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5. Recognize and Replace Negative Thoughts

You won’t be successful at positive thinking if you’re still plagued by frequent negative thoughts. Learn to recognize and replace thoughts that are overly negative. Often, thoughts that include words like “always” and “never” signal that they aren’t true.

If you find yourself thinking something such as, “I always mess everything up,” replace it with something more realistic such as, “Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them.”

There’s no need to make your thoughts unrealistically positive, but instead, make them more realistic.

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6. Establish and Work Toward Goals

It’s easier to be positive about problems and setbacks when you have goals that you’re working toward. Goals will give you motivation to overcome those obstacles when you encounter problems along the way. Without clear goals, it’s harder to make decisions and gauge your progress.

Learn to set SMART goals to help you achieve more.

7. Consider the Consequences of Negativity

Spend some time thinking about the consequences of negative thinking. Often, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

For example, a person who thinks, “I probably won’t get this job interview,” may put less effort into the interview. As a result, he may decrease his chances of getting the job.

Create a list of all the ways negative thinking impacts your life. It likely influences your behavior, your relationships, and your feelings. Then, create a list of the ways in which positive thinking could be beneficial.

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8. Offer Compliments to Others

Look for reasons to compliment others. Be genuine in your praise and compliments, but offer it frequently. This will help you look for the good in other people.

9. Create a Daily Gratitude List

If you start keeping a daily gratitude list, you’ll start noticing exactly how much you have to be thankful for. This can help you focus on the positive in your life instead of thinking about all the bad things that have happened in the day.

Getting in the habit of showing an attitude of gratitude makes positive thinking more of a habit. Here’re 40 Simple Ways To Practice Gratitude.

10. Practice Self-Care

Take good care of yourself and you’ll be more equipped to think positively.

Get plenty of rest and exercise and practice managing your stress well. Taking care of your physical and mental health will provide you with more energy to focus on positive thinking.

Learn about these 30 Self-Care Habits for a Strong and Healthy Mind, Body and Spirit.

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