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This Writing Tool Lets You Write and mail a Letter To Your Future Self And Get It In Five Years

This Writing Tool Lets You Write and mail a Letter To Your Future Self And Get It In Five Years

Anyone who’s ever interviewed for a job has probably found themselves pondering or having to answer the question “Where do you see yourself in five years?” I don’t know about you, but this question generally sends me into a panic. How should I know? Do I look like the Amazing Kreskin? Right now I’m not even sure where my next paycheck is coming from, so can we deal with these next few weeks or, perhaps more manageably, apply Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt’s philosophy of taking life ten seconds at a time? That’s more my speed.

The truth is, however, that teachers, motivational speakers, employers, and career coaches ask this question for a legitimate reason: the “imagine yourself in five years” visualization helps us to remain mindful of the fact that we’re always moving forward, and we’re more likely to get where we want to go if we keep our eyes on the road ahead. If you, like me, sometimes find this a daunting task when you have trouble deciding which latte you’re going to get before your turn in the Starbucks queue comes, FiveYearLetter.com is for you!

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FiveYearLetter Logo, image credit Scott Hughes

    The concept is simple: write yourself a letter and receive it in five years. Developed by Scott Hughes, “FiveYearLetter is a personal development tool for people who want to achieve their ideal vision for themselves and who want to bring greater awareness and reflection into their lives.” Hughes developed the project from a class exercise that his high school English teacher required his class to perform. Reflecting on the experience, Hughes says, “I didn’t appreciate it at the time, but I will never forget reading my letter when it came back five years later…It was incredible to read it and to see how much I’d grown, but also how much I was still struggling with many of the same issues.”

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    Here’s how it works: visit FiveYearLetter.com and sign up by providing your address information. You’ll receive a blank sheet of paper in the mail and a pre-addressed envelope. You can place anything in the envelope along with your letter—photos, recorded videos on DVDs, anything that will fit in the envelope. When you send it back, your unopened letter will be placed in a secured storage facility and you can go on with your life. In five years, you’ll get a blast from your past self when you open the mailbox!

    Whether you’re looking for creative inspiration or just want to have a bit of fun with yourself, FiveYearLetter is the perfect way to take a look at your life, envision where you want to be, and see for yourself where you wind up!

    Featured photo credit: Founder Headshot Scott Hughes via fiveyearletter.com

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    Last Updated on September 20, 2018

    7 Powerful Questions To Find Out What You Want To Do With Your Life

    7 Powerful Questions To Find Out What You Want To Do With Your Life

    What do I want to do with my life? It’s a question all of us think about at one point or another.

    For some, the answer comes easily. For others, it takes a lifetime to figure out.

    It’s easy to just go through the motions and continue to do what’s comfortable and familiar. But for those of you who seek fulfillment, who want to do more, these questions will help you paint a clearer picture of what you want to do with your life.

    1. What are the things I’m most passionate about?

    The first step to living a more fulfilling life is to think about the things that you’re passionate about.

    What do you love? What fulfills you? What “work” do you do that doesn’t feel like work? Maybe you enjoy writing, maybe you love working with animals or maybe you have a knack for photography.

    The point is, figure out what you love doing, then do more of it.

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    2. What are my greatest accomplishments in life so far?

    Think about your past experiences and the things in your life you’re most proud of.

    How did those accomplishments make you feel? Pretty darn good, right? So why not try and emulate those experiences and feelings?

    If you ran a marathon once and loved the feeling you had afterwards, start training for another one. If your child grew up to be a star athlete or musician because of your teachings, then be a coach or mentor for other kids.

    Continue to do the things that have been most fulfilling for you.

    3. If my life had absolutely no limits, what would I choose to have and what would I choose to do?

    Here’s a cool exercise: Think about what you would do if you had no limits.

    If you had all the money and time in the world, where would you go? What would you do? Who would you spend time with?

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    These answers can help you figure out what you want to do with your life. It doesn’t mean you need millions of dollars to be happy though.

    What it does mean is answering these questions will help you set goals to reach certain milestones and create a path toward happiness and fulfillment. Which leads to our next question …

    4. What are my goals in life?

    Goals are a necessary component to set you up for a happy future. So answer these questions:

    Once you figure out the answers to each of these, you’ll have a much better idea of what you should do with your life.

    5. Whom do I admire most in the world?

    Following the path of successful people can set you up for success.

    Think about the people you respect and admire most. What are their best qualities? Why do you respect them? What can you learn from them?

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    You’re the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.[1] So don’t waste your time with people who hold you back from achieving your dreams.

    Spend more time with happy, successful, optimistic people and you’ll become one of them.

    6. What do I not like to do?

    An important part of figuring out what you want to do with your life is honestly assessing what you don’t want to do.

    What are the things you despise? What bugs you the most about your current job?

    Maybe you hate meetings even though you sit through 6 hours of them every day. If that’s the case, find a job where you can work more independently.

    The point is, if you want something to change in your life, you need to take action. Which leads to our final question …

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    7. How hard am I willing to work to get what I want?

    Great accomplishments never come easy. If you want to do great things with your life, you’re going to have to make a great effort. That will probably mean putting in more hours the average person, getting outside your comfort zone and learning as much as you can to achieve as much as you can.

    But here’s the cool part: it’s often the journey that is the most fulfilling part. It’s during these seemingly small, insignificant moments that you’ll often find that “aha” moments that helps you answer the question,

    “What do I want to do with my life?”

    So take the first step toward improving your life. You won’t regret it.

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