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This Writing Tool Lets You Write and mail a Letter To Your Future Self And Get It In Five Years

This Writing Tool Lets You Write and mail a Letter To Your Future Self And Get It In Five Years

Anyone who’s ever interviewed for a job has probably found themselves pondering or having to answer the question “Where do you see yourself in five years?” I don’t know about you, but this question generally sends me into a panic. How should I know? Do I look like the Amazing Kreskin? Right now I’m not even sure where my next paycheck is coming from, so can we deal with these next few weeks or, perhaps more manageably, apply Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt’s philosophy of taking life ten seconds at a time? That’s more my speed.

The truth is, however, that teachers, motivational speakers, employers, and career coaches ask this question for a legitimate reason: the “imagine yourself in five years” visualization helps us to remain mindful of the fact that we’re always moving forward, and we’re more likely to get where we want to go if we keep our eyes on the road ahead. If you, like me, sometimes find this a daunting task when you have trouble deciding which latte you’re going to get before your turn in the Starbucks queue comes, FiveYearLetter.com is for you!

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FiveYearLetter Logo, image credit Scott Hughes

    The concept is simple: write yourself a letter and receive it in five years. Developed by Scott Hughes, “FiveYearLetter is a personal development tool for people who want to achieve their ideal vision for themselves and who want to bring greater awareness and reflection into their lives.” Hughes developed the project from a class exercise that his high school English teacher required his class to perform. Reflecting on the experience, Hughes says, “I didn’t appreciate it at the time, but I will never forget reading my letter when it came back five years later…It was incredible to read it and to see how much I’d grown, but also how much I was still struggling with many of the same issues.”

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    Here’s how it works: visit FiveYearLetter.com and sign up by providing your address information. You’ll receive a blank sheet of paper in the mail and a pre-addressed envelope. You can place anything in the envelope along with your letter—photos, recorded videos on DVDs, anything that will fit in the envelope. When you send it back, your unopened letter will be placed in a secured storage facility and you can go on with your life. In five years, you’ll get a blast from your past self when you open the mailbox!

    Whether you’re looking for creative inspiration or just want to have a bit of fun with yourself, FiveYearLetter is the perfect way to take a look at your life, envision where you want to be, and see for yourself where you wind up!

    Featured photo credit: Founder Headshot Scott Hughes via fiveyearletter.com

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    Last Updated on September 17, 2019

    10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

    10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

    Positive thinking can lead to a lot of positive change in your life. Developing an optimistic outlook can be good for both your physical and mental health.

    But sometimes, certain situations arise in life that makes it hard to keep a positive outlook. Take steps to make positive thinking become more like your second nature and you’ll reap the biggest benefits.

    Here are 10 ways to make thinking positive thoughts easy:

    1. Spend Time with Positive People

    If you surround yourself with constant complainers, their negativity is likely to rub off on you.

    Spend time with positive friends and family members to increase the likelihood that their positive thinking habits will become yours too. It’s hard to be negative when everyone around you is so positive.

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    2. Take Responsibility for Your Behavior

    When you encounter problems and difficulties in life, don’t play the role of the victim. Acknowledge your role in the situation and take responsibility for your behavior.

    Accepting responsibility can help you learn from mistakes and prevent you from blaming others unfairly.

    3. Contribute to the Community

    One of the best ways to feel good about what you have, is to focus on what you have to give.

    Volunteer in some manner and give back to the community. Helping others can give you a new outlook on the world and can assist you with positive thinking.

    4. Read Positive and Inspirational Materials

    Spend time each day reading something that encourages positive thinking. Read the Bible, spiritual material, or inspirational quotes to help you focus on what’s important to you in life. It can be a great way to start and end your day.

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    5. Recognize and Replace Negative Thoughts

    You won’t be successful at positive thinking if you’re still plagued by frequent negative thoughts. Learn to recognize and replace thoughts that are overly negative. Often, thoughts that include words like “always” and “never” signal that they aren’t true.

    If you find yourself thinking something such as, “I always mess everything up,” replace it with something more realistic such as, “Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them.”

    There’s no need to make your thoughts unrealistically positive, but instead, make them more realistic.

    6. Establish and Work Toward Goals

    It’s easier to be positive about problems and setbacks when you have goals that you’re working toward. Goals will give you motivation to overcome those obstacles when you encounter problems along the way. Without clear goals, it’s harder to make decisions and gauge your progress.

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    Learn to set SMART goals to help you achieve more.

    7. Consider the Consequences of Negativity

    Spend some time thinking about the consequences of negative thinking. Often, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

    For example, a person who thinks, “I probably won’t get this job interview,” may put less effort into the interview. As a result, he may decrease his chances of getting the job.

    Create a list of all the ways negative thinking impacts your life. It likely influences your behavior, your relationships, and your feelings. Then, create a list of the ways in which positive thinking could be beneficial.

    8. Offer Compliments to Others

    Look for reasons to compliment others. Be genuine in your praise and compliments, but offer it frequently. This will help you look for the good in other people.

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    9. Create a Daily Gratitude List

    If you start keeping a daily gratitude list, you’ll start noticing exactly how much you have to be thankful for. This can help you focus on the positive in your life instead of thinking about all the bad things that have happened in the day.

    Getting in the habit of showing an attitude of gratitude makes positive thinking more of a habit. Here’re 40 Simple Ways To Practice Gratitude.

    10. Practice Self-Care

    Take good care of yourself and you’ll be more equipped to think positively.

    Get plenty of rest and exercise and practice managing your stress well. Taking care of your physical and mental health will provide you with more energy to focus on positive thinking.

    Learn about these 30 Self-Care Habits for a Strong and Healthy Mind, Body and Spirit.

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