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This Video Will Inspire You And Show You How Models Think Of Themselves

This Video Will Inspire You And Show You How Models Think Of Themselves

Have you ever felt a wave of empathy during that scene in “Bridget Jones’s Diary,” where Bridget attempts unsuccessfully to give herself a home leg-waxing before her date with Daniel cleaver? How about the moment in “The Edge of Reason” when she declares to Mark Darcy, “I will always be just a little bit fat”?

Many of us can probably relate to this microscopic scrutiny of our own bodies: standing in front of the mirror, willing our reflections to show us smaller waists, bigger breasts, or shinier hair; and the short film “Models are perfect. Or are they?” by D.EFECT takes an honest look at the reality of the unattainable ideal of physical perfection – even for the models who supposedly embody that ideal.

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The video features a series of female models in various stages of dress, from the opening shot of the first model in a loose-fitting summer nightgown with tousled hair and a make-up free face to the heavily-made up girl in cocktail dress and high-heels. Everything from the intentionally oversized dresses to the hideously ugly slippers works to detract from, rather than to enhance the models’ figures. Each shot is captioned with bold, self-scrutinizing statements like “This obsession with perfect looks will make you feel hopelessly insecure and miserable.”

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Each girl then confesses to the camera what she most dislikes about her body: one girl hates her shoulders, another her big feet, and one wishes her waist were smaller. As the models talk about their insecurity with their bodies, the camera zooms in on the feature mentioned, drawing the eye to one’s crooked teeth and the wrinkle’s in another’s smile.

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On the one hand, the video tells a troubling (though hardly surprising) truth about the impossibility of the perfect body; on the other, it challenges us to embrace our imperfections. Zooming in on each model’s “hated” feature shows us the danger of obsessing over one part to the exclusion of the whole, objectifying and fragmenting our self-image until we lose sight of who we are. The fact that each girl shares a different imperfection reminds us that there’s no such thing as the perfect body and that there’s a certain natural beauty in the uniqueness of the molds in which each of us is cast.

I’ve always hated the fact that my shoulders poke out of a strapless dress like a pair of bony boulders, but the truth is, my shoulders aren’t the sum total of who I am, and nobody is ultimately going to judge me based on whether or not I can rock a tube top. If you’re in need of a reminder to love yourself just as you are, watching this video will teach you to view yourself in a much more flattering light.

Featured photo credit: Models are Perfect by D.EFECT via youtube.com

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Last Updated on September 17, 2019

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

Positive thinking can lead to a lot of positive change in your life. Developing an optimistic outlook can be good for both your physical and mental health.

But sometimes, certain situations arise in life that makes it hard to keep a positive outlook. Take steps to make positive thinking become more like your second nature and you’ll reap the biggest benefits.

Here are 10 ways to make thinking positive thoughts easy:

1. Spend Time with Positive People

If you surround yourself with constant complainers, their negativity is likely to rub off on you.

Spend time with positive friends and family members to increase the likelihood that their positive thinking habits will become yours too. It’s hard to be negative when everyone around you is so positive.

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2. Take Responsibility for Your Behavior

When you encounter problems and difficulties in life, don’t play the role of the victim. Acknowledge your role in the situation and take responsibility for your behavior.

Accepting responsibility can help you learn from mistakes and prevent you from blaming others unfairly.

3. Contribute to the Community

One of the best ways to feel good about what you have, is to focus on what you have to give.

Volunteer in some manner and give back to the community. Helping others can give you a new outlook on the world and can assist you with positive thinking.

4. Read Positive and Inspirational Materials

Spend time each day reading something that encourages positive thinking. Read the Bible, spiritual material, or inspirational quotes to help you focus on what’s important to you in life. It can be a great way to start and end your day.

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5. Recognize and Replace Negative Thoughts

You won’t be successful at positive thinking if you’re still plagued by frequent negative thoughts. Learn to recognize and replace thoughts that are overly negative. Often, thoughts that include words like “always” and “never” signal that they aren’t true.

If you find yourself thinking something such as, “I always mess everything up,” replace it with something more realistic such as, “Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them.”

There’s no need to make your thoughts unrealistically positive, but instead, make them more realistic.

6. Establish and Work Toward Goals

It’s easier to be positive about problems and setbacks when you have goals that you’re working toward. Goals will give you motivation to overcome those obstacles when you encounter problems along the way. Without clear goals, it’s harder to make decisions and gauge your progress.

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Learn to set SMART goals to help you achieve more.

7. Consider the Consequences of Negativity

Spend some time thinking about the consequences of negative thinking. Often, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

For example, a person who thinks, “I probably won’t get this job interview,” may put less effort into the interview. As a result, he may decrease his chances of getting the job.

Create a list of all the ways negative thinking impacts your life. It likely influences your behavior, your relationships, and your feelings. Then, create a list of the ways in which positive thinking could be beneficial.

8. Offer Compliments to Others

Look for reasons to compliment others. Be genuine in your praise and compliments, but offer it frequently. This will help you look for the good in other people.

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9. Create a Daily Gratitude List

If you start keeping a daily gratitude list, you’ll start noticing exactly how much you have to be thankful for. This can help you focus on the positive in your life instead of thinking about all the bad things that have happened in the day.

Getting in the habit of showing an attitude of gratitude makes positive thinking more of a habit. Here’re 40 Simple Ways To Practice Gratitude.

10. Practice Self-Care

Take good care of yourself and you’ll be more equipped to think positively.

Get plenty of rest and exercise and practice managing your stress well. Taking care of your physical and mental health will provide you with more energy to focus on positive thinking.

Learn about these 30 Self-Care Habits for a Strong and Healthy Mind, Body and Spirit.

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