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This Is How the Young Couple React When They Preview Their Aging Faces With Make-Up Before Marriage

This Is How the Young Couple React When They Preview Their Aging Faces With Make-Up Before Marriage

What does it feels like to grow old with someone you love?

As part of a creative experiment, a team of make-up artists helped Tavis and Kristie, a young couple, transcends time one month before their marriage. The above video shows how they look like in their 50s, 70s and 90s.

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What’s amazing about this video is it helps us imagine how it feels like to grow old with someone we love. Most dating couples are aware of how great their relationship is currently. But seldom do they see past the present and appreciate what it truly means to grow old with someone you love.

Romantic relationship is unlike any other relationships. It’s rare and precious. Your parents are there to see you grow up, but they don’t get to see you grow old. Your kids enter your life at a later stage and when they become adults, they have their own life to live. Your friends come and leave at different parts of your life. But only your partner spends the most time with you and accompany you till old. He or she is someone who knows you and see you at your best and worst.

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See how emotional this sweet couple gets when they see each other with their aging faces. It’s heart-warming to hear them share their genuine thoughts on each other. Do watch the video till the end to hear their last words for each other. The couple looks really cute together in their 90s too. So don’t miss that.

Growing old with someone you love is a blessing. Who are you going to share that special moment with?

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Share this video with someone you want to grow old with and tell them how much you love them.

Featured photo credit: 100 Years of Beauty: Aging | Cut Has A Field Day via youtu.be

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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