Advertising
Advertising

This Is How The Children React When A Stranger Attempts To Bring Them Away

This Is How The Children React When A Stranger Attempts To Bring Them Away

Scary isn’t it? The number of children abducted each year. In fact, a child goes missing or is abducted every 40 seconds in the United States. What would your child do if a stranger approached them, and asked them to go with them? Watch this video to see how children react to a stranger, and see how easy it is to gain a child’s trust. This man gets children to go with him by being friendly and enthusiastic, and having a cute pet. It doesn’t take him very long either. Any parent distracted by a phone call, or a text message, could easily look away. And when they looked back their child would be gone.

Fortunately, this is a social experiment, that this man hopes will save lives.

Advertising

So, what can you do to prevent your child being taken? There are a number of tips for preventing child abduction, but it does depend on the age of the child. Older children can learn to look after themselves, and have a better understanding. You can explain that a stranger is anyone who has not been to your home regularly, or whatever other definition you and your family decide on.

Advertising

For children who are younger than school age, the best thing you can do is to know exactly where your kids are. At all times. Really young kids just don’t understand what a stranger is. They think they’ll stand out the way they often do on the TV. They don’t realize that the friendly looking person they just spoke to in the playground was a stranger. Even if you point it out to them. It’s up to you to keep a close eye on your children. To know where they are, and to be alert without being alarmed.

Advertising

Give them enough room to play and explore, but keep them in sight. It really is as simple as that.

Featured photo credit: jeniffertn via pixabay.com

Advertising

More by this author

Cate Scolnik

Social media manager and content marketing specialist

Social Media Hacks: Tricks to Gain Strong Presence 8 Books From World-Class Leaders Telling You How To Achieve Phenomenal Success 21 Illustrations Showing Two Kinds Of People In The World That You Can Instantly Relate To 9 Science-Backed Strategies To Boost Your Personal Charisma night owls Research Reveals Night Owls Are More Intelligent Than People Who Get Up Early

Trending in Communication

110 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks 2When You Start to Enjoy Being Single, These 12 Things Will Happen 321 Best Tips On Making A Long Distance Relationship Work 4The Skill That Most People Don’t Have: Active Listening 518 Signs You’ve Found Your Soulmate

Read Next

Advertising
Advertising

Last Updated on August 16, 2018

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

The ability to take risks by stepping outside your comfort zone is the primary way by which we grow. But we are often afraid to take that first step.

In truth, comfort zones are not really about comfort, they are about fear. Break the chains of fear to get outside. Once you do, you will learn to enjoy the process of taking risks and growing in the process.

Here are 10 ways to help you step out of your comfort zone and get closer to success:

1. Become aware of what’s outside of your comfort zone

What are the things that you believe are worth doing but are afraid of doing yourself because of the potential for disappointment or failure?

Draw a circle and write those things down outside the circle. This process will not only allow you to clearly identify your discomforts, but your comforts. Write identified comforts inside the circle.

2. Become clear about what you are aiming to overcome

Take the list of discomforts and go deeper. Remember, the primary emotion you are trying to overcome is fear.

Advertising

How does this fear apply uniquely to each situation? Be very specific.

Are you afraid of walking up to people and introducing yourself in social situations? Why? Is it because you are insecure about the sound of your voice? Are you insecure about your looks?

Or, are you afraid of being ignored?

3. Get comfortable with discomfort

One way to get outside of your comfort zone is to literally expand it. Make it a goal to avoid running away from discomfort.

Let’s stay with the theme of meeting people in social settings. If you start feeling a little panicked when talking to someone you’ve just met, try to stay with it a little longer than you normally would before retreating to comfort. If you stay long enough and practice often enough, it will start to become less uncomfortable.

4. See failure as a teacher

Many of us are so afraid of failure that we would rather do nothing than take a shot at our dreams.

Advertising

Begin to treat failure as a teacher. What did you learn from the experience? How can you take that lesson to your next adventure to increase your chance of success?

Many highly successful people failed plenty of times before they succeeded. Here’re some examples:

10 Famous Failures to Success Stories That Will Inspire You to Carry On

5. Take baby steps

Don’t try to jump outside your comfort zone, you will likely become overwhelmed and jump right back in.

Take small steps toward the fear you are trying to overcome. If you want to do public speaking, start by taking every opportunity to speak to small groups of people. You can even practice with family and friends.

Take a look at this article on how you can start taking baby steps:

Advertising

The Number One Secret to Life Success: Baby Steps

6. Hang out with risk takers

There is no substitute for this step. If you want to become better at something, you must start hanging out with the people who are doing what you want to do and start emulating them. (Here’re 8 Reasons Why Risk Takers Are More Likely To Be Successful).

Almost inevitably, their influence will start have an effect on your behavior.

7. Be honest with yourself when you are trying to make excuses

Don’t say “Oh, I just don’t have the time for this right now.” Instead, be honest and say “I am afraid to do this.”

Don’t make excuses, just be honest. You will be in a better place to confront what is truly bothering you and increase your chance of moving forward.

8. Identify how stepping out will benefit you

What will the ability to engage in public speaking do for your personal and professional growth? Keep these potential benefits in mind as motivations to push through fear.

Advertising

9. Don’t take yourself too seriously

Learn to laugh at yourself when you make mistakes. Risk taking will inevitably involve failure and setbacks that will sometimes make you look foolish to others. Be happy to roll with the punches when others poke fun.

If you aren’t convinced yet, check out these 6 Reasons Not to Take Life So Seriously.

10. Focus on the fun

Enjoy the process of stepping outside your safe boundaries. Enjoy the fun of discovering things about yourself that you may not have been aware of previously.

Featured photo credit: Unsplash via unsplash.com

Read Next