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How to Turn Your Ideas Into Reality

How to Turn Your Ideas Into Reality

When we think of Facebook, we think Mark Zuckerberg. Yet for a number of years after the launch of Facebook, Zuckerberg was being sued by 2 brothers from Harvard University. The Winklevoss twins claimed Zuckerberg stole their idea when they asked him for help coding their site ConnectU. As you delve into the history of big successes, you find that accusations of idea stealing occur quite a lot! Even this week, two writers from the first GI Joe movie are suing Paramount and MGM, claiming the studio stole their ideas for the sequel.

The truth is that ideas are worth nothing unless acted upon. It is merely a thought that has been given enough kudos to be written down. Yet having an overfilled notepad or an app full of ideas serves no purpose unless you are going to act on your best ideas in some way or another.

There has never been a better time to turn ideas into reality and make an impact in the world. The internet has created massive opportunities to connect with like-minded individuals for potential collaborations, cheaper technologies have made access to necessary resources even easier and websites like Kickstarter has presented opportunities to get funding for ideas that were once out of our grasp.

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So what would stop you even attempting to turn your ideas into reality? When I coach clients there are a number of common barriers my clients face early on:

Fear of failure

As humans, we have a natural aversion to risk which can make us resistant to trying if we think there is a chance we might fail. However those who pursue their ideas in spite of a potential for failure find that their ideas can transform into something even better because of the setbacks they experience along the way.

Overwhelm of ideas

A common problem can be simply too many ideas, finding it hard to pin down one idea they want to pursue. This comes down to having a criteria about what excites you enough to go for, combined with the purpose for the idea; is it a hobby or to make profit?

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Delayed Gratification vs. Instant Gratification

Worthwhile ideas require creation. They do not appear instantly by magic and this requires a focus to go through the process of turning the ideas in your head into something real. Yet life can get in the way with tempting offers that provide more immediate gratification. It is important you believe in the process enough to not always succumb to the delights that instant gratification can bring.

Despite these common barriers, ideas are being created everyday and you can turn your ideas into reality with a simple process that gets your idea out of the notebook and making an impact on the world.

1. Make the idea concrete

It is important before you start to make sure the idea that starts as an abstract concept is turned into something more concrete. There is a distinct difference between “I’m going to set up an online business” and “I am going to set up an online business selling vintage clothes to students.” A good marker is, “If my idea was in front of a video camera what specifically would people be seeing?

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2. Find out what resources you have and what you need

To bake a cake, you need ingredients. To bring an idea to life, you need resources. Some you will already have, whilst others you will need to obtain. It is important you do not trap yourself by using a lack of resources as a reason for not starting. Even if you need money, you can still get started. A good marker is finding an example of something similar that has been created and seeing what needed to be present in order for that to be made real.

3. Decide on the purpose of the idea

This is the fuel that drives you towards making your idea a reality. If there is no purpose, you may last a week but as soon as the first setback appears, the temptation to give up may be too much. Is it a personal hobby you want to get good at or is it an idea to earn money? Your commitment will be determined by the answer.

4. Decide what needs to happen in order to move towards an outcome

What needs to happen regularly? This is your strategy to making your idea a reality. By creating systems you make the process easier and allows a consistency for ensuring things get done.

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5. What is the first thing that needs to happen?

People can get overwhelmed by creating too many steps they feel they must follow, when in reality you can just start with the first step and then ask, “What next?”

Ideas are nothing on their own, that is not where the magic is. Everyone can have ideas. The magic is in creating it and showing it to the world. Go and create.

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Last Updated on July 16, 2019

7 Ways to Get Rid of Negative Energy and Become Positive

7 Ways to Get Rid of Negative Energy and Become Positive

Negativity affects ourselves and everyone around us. It limits our potential to become something great and live a fulfilling, purposeful life. Negativity has a tangible effect on our health, too. Research has shown that people who cultivate negative energy experience more stress, more sickness, and less opportunity over the course of their lives than those who choose to live positively.

When we make a decision to become positive, and follow that decision up with action, we will begin to encounter situations and people that are also positive. The negative energy gets edged out by all positive experiences. It’s a snowball effect.

Although negative and positive thoughts will always exist, the key to becoming positive is to limit the amount of negativity that we experience by filling ourselves up with more positivity.

Here are some ways to get rid of negativity and become more positive.

1. Become Grateful for Everything

When life is all about us, it’s easy to believe that we deserve what we have. An attitude of entitlement puts us at the center of the universe and sets up the unrealistic expectation that others should cater to us, our needs, and our wants. This vain state of existence is a surefire way to set yourself up for an unfulfilled life of negativity.

People living in this sort of entitlement are “energy suckers”–they are always searching for what they can get out of a situation. People that don’t appreciate the nuances of their lives live in a constant state of lacking. And it’s really difficult to live a positive life this way.

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When we begin to be grateful and appreciate everything in our lives–from the small struggles that make us better, to the car that gets us from A to B every day–we shift our attitude from one of selfishness, to one of appreciation. This appreciation gets noticed by others, and a positive harmony begins to form in our relationships.

We begin to receive more of that which we are grateful for, because we’ve opened ourselves up to the idea of receiving, instead of taking. This will make your life more fulfilling, and more positive.

2. Laugh More, Especially at Yourself

Life gets busy, our schedules fill up, we get into relationships, and work can feel task oriented and routine-driven at times. Being human can feel more like being a robot. But having this work-driven, serious attitude often results in negative and performance oriented thinking.

Becoming positive means taking life less seriously and letting yourself off the hook. This is the only life that you get to live, why not lighten up your mood?

Laughter helps us become positive by lightening our mood and reminding us not to take life so seriously. Are you sensitive to light sarcasm? Do you have trouble laughing at jokes? Usually, people who are stressed out and overly serious get most offended by sarcasm because their life is all work and no play.

If we can learn to laugh at ourselves and our mistakes, life will become more of an experiment in finding out what makes us happy. And finding happiness means finding positivity.

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3. Help Others

Negativity goes hand in hand with selfishness. People that live only for themselves have no higher purpose in their lives. If the whole point of this world is only to take care of yourself and no one else, the road to a long-term fulfillment and purpose is going to be a long one.

Positivity accompanies purpose. The most basic way to create purpose and positivity in your life is to begin doing things for others. Start small; open the door for the person in front of you at Starbucks or ask someone how their day was before telling them about yours.

Helping others will give you an intangible sense of value that will translate into positivity. And people might just appreciate you in the process.

4. Change Your Thinking

We can either be our best coach or our best enemy. Change starts from within. If you want to become more positive, change the wording of your thoughts. We are the hardest on ourselves, and a stream of negative self talk is corrosive to a positive life.

The next time you have a negative thought, write it down and rephrase it with a positive spin. For example, change a thought like, “I can’t believe I did so horribly on the test–I suck.” to “I didn’t do as well as I hoped to on this test. But I know I’m capable and I’ll do better next time.”

Changing our self-talk is powerful.

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5. Surround Yourself with Positive People

We become most like the people that we surround ourselves with. If our friend group is full of negative energy-suckers and drama queens, we will emulate that behavior and become like them. It is very difficult to become more positive when the people around us don’t support or demonstrate positive behavior.

As you become more positive, you’ll find that your existing friends will either appreciate the new you or they will become resistant to your positive changes. This is a natural response.

Change is scary; but cutting out the negative people in your life is a huge step to becoming more positive. Positive people reflect and bounce their perspectives onto one another. Positivity is a step-by-step process when you do it solo, but a positive group of friends can be an escalator.

6. Get into Action

Negative thoughts can be overwhelming and challenging to navigate. Negativity is usually accompanied by a “freak-out” response, especially when tied to relationships, people and to worrying about the future. This is debilitating to becoming positive and usually snowballs into more worry, more stress and more freak-outs.

Turn the negative stress into positive action. The next time you’re in one of these situations, walk away and take a break. With your eyes closed, take a few deep breaths. Once you’re calm, approach the situation or problem with a pen and pad of paper. Write out four or five actions or solutions to begin solving the problem.

Taking yourself out of the emotionally charged negative by moving into the action-oriented positive will help you solve more problems rationally and live in positivity

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7. Take Full Responsibility, Stop Being the Victim

You are responsible for your thoughts.

People that consistently believe that things happen to them handicap themselves to a victim mentality. This is a subtle and deceptive negative thought pattern. Phrases like “I have to work” or “I can’t believe he did that to me” are indicators of a victim mentality. Blaming circumstances and blaming others only handicaps our decision to change something negative into something positive.

Taking full responsibility for your life, your thoughts and your actions is one of the biggest steps in creating a more positive life. We have unlimited potential within to create our own reality, change our life, and change our thoughts. When we begin to really internalize this, we discover that no one can make us feel or do anything. We choose our emotional and behavioral response to people and circumstances.

Make positive choices in favor of yourself.

“Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habit. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny” ― Lao Tzu

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