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How To Prevent Running Out Of Blogging Steam

How To Prevent Running Out Of Blogging Steam
How To Start Blogging and Not Run Out Of Steam

Something that almost inevitably happens to bloggers starting out their own niche site, is they run out of stuff to say. Generally, as a new blogger, you can shoot for around 3-4 months of solid content until the ideas begin escaping you.

This could possibly be caused by the lack of one or more of these:

  • 1. Inspiration
  • 2. Motivation
  • 3. Confidence
  • Inspiration

    At some stage you will become uninspired. Thankfully, this really is the easiest obstacle to overcome.

    The first source of inspiration comes from your competitors. Or as you should get to know them as, your peers. Within your niche, find other people writing about the same stuff you are, or similar.

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    Subscribe to all of their feeds and organize them into a folder in your feedreader [this is particularly useful if you write multiple blogs on different subjects]. Each time you want to write and don’t have an idea of a post in mind, peruse your feeds. You won’t need to copy, you’ll get ideas yourself.

    The second method of gaining inspiration comes from participation. If you write a blog about golfing, go play a round of golf. Play Tiger Woods 2007 even! Take a pen and pad with you and jot down ideas you have. If you’re having trouble with something, write it down and go research it when you get home. Find the solution and write about it.

    Motivation

    Creatively speaking, motivation is a big deal. It’s very hard to come up with great ideas if you don’t have that drive. If you don’t want to write well, you probably won’t.

    This drive usually comes from regularly participating in what you write about. More importantly being paid to write and, even more importantly, providing something of use to somebody else.

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    For now, we’ll skip the monetary aspect of blogging and focus on keeping motivation active the other two ways.

    The easiest way to stay motivated, as mentioned before, is to actively participate in your niche. Very similar to getting inspiration for writing about golf, getting out and playing some golf will also motivate you to write.

    You will also be motivated to write if you keep your audience in mind.

    Writing for your audience will not only improve the actual quality of writing, but also motivate you to get it started. If you think that someone else out there should know what you know, you will want to share it.

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    Confidence

    Lack of confidence can really stifle your writing. Most of us blogging out here aren’t really experts, we’re learning as we go. Knowing that out there somewhere is another writer who probably knows more than you can make you feel like your posts are not worth writing.

    When you’re reading other sites’ feeds for inspiration you might begin feeling like it’s all been written – and well! Why am I even trying, it’s been done and I can’t think of anything new.

    This happens, but shouldn’t discourage your writing.

    If you don’t get any new ideas, build on an existing one. If you read an article about practicing the perfect putt, write about your experience putting with that post in mind. If you disagree, write a rebuttal.

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    When you have something to say about someone else’s writing, and write your response, your confidence will increase. Not agreeing with someone’s writing means you have an opinion that hasn’t been discussed; and other people will have that opinion too.

    The bottom line with confidence, is you started this blog because you have something to say. After a few months you may have said everything you had envisioned saying when you began. Having the confidence to search for new ways of getting new ideas is important.

    In Short:

    If you’re running out of breath in your blog, get out there and get active. Read other posts and engage in the conversation. Talking with other readers of other sites will help develop your ideas.

    Participate in what you’re writing about. If you just write about it, you’ll become reliant on responding to other people’s posts. Play that round of golf and you’ll encounter new ideas for posts.

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    Last Updated on January 18, 2019

    7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

    7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

    Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

    But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

    If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

    1. Limit the time you spend with them.

    First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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    In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

    Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

    2. Speak up for yourself.

    Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

    3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

    This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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    But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

    4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

    Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

    This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

    Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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    5. Change the subject.

    When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

    Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

    6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

    Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

    I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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    You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

    Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

    7. Leave them behind.

    Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

    If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

    That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

    You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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