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How to Heal Yourself and Others

How to Heal Yourself and Others

The latest trends in medical science suggests that there will be more focus on energy medicine and use of integrated medicine in order to deliver a holistic healing to all the patients. Alternative healing techniques such as EFT, Reiki and other techniques are now being widely used to relieve patients of pain and suffering. Not only these techniques are used for pain management, but they are also found effective in bringing in greater wellness and positivity. The focus on correcting the energy system of the body has profound impact on the way our bodies start to heal themselves. Balancing our emotions and replacing them with more positive emotions leads to healing and accelerated recovery.

Ho’oponopono is one of the ancient Hawaiian techniques of alternative healing which is becoming more famous because of the results it can provide. Based on the notion of letting go and re-establishing our relationship with God, we can actually let the God run our lives and be free. When we reach the stage of Zero, we become like a clean slate, and healing can take place without any significant effort.

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The healing process actually takes place when one takes responsibility for each and everything which is going on in his life. This not only includes taking responsibility for whatever is happening in the personal lives of the individuals but also in the lives of many others. This means taking responsibility even for the actions of terrorists who carried out 9/11. Things may not happen directly due to our fault, but one part of us seem to attract these events in our lives. We therefore need to take the responsibility for whatever is happening in our life.  Don’t feel the guilt and shame that something is happening because of you, but cleanse it through repeating following words:

  1. I am sorry
  2. Please forgive me
  3. I love you
  4. I thank you

By repeating these words and taking full responsibility of everything in our lives, we actually reach a state where everything matters. We become more conscious of our environment and our role to bring positive and loving changes in it. Repeating these words over and over again slowly and gradually cleanse destructive cellular memories from our cells and replace them with the love and peace of creator. By replacing these negative memories with Love and Grace, healing starts to occur.

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If you are facing any disease, try to supplement your existing treatment with this treatment—you don’t have to buy anything or consult with anyone; you just have to repeat these words silently in your heart with the intent that you are being healed. By repeating these words, you will actually start to let go of your deepest emotional issues stored as negative cellular memories in your body and start on the path of healing and recovery.

Ho’oponopono healers also recommend using blue bottle water to drink and use in our homes. This is really simple as all you have to do is to buy a glass bottle of blue water, put tap or filtered water into it and keep it in the sun for 15 to 20 minutes. Let the sun’s energy transfuse itself in your water and energize it. You can drink that water as normal water and can really take benefits from the water full of energy and life.

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This technique has been used effectively to heal emotional and physical issues, as well as to improve overall well-being.

This post is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as medical advice.

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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