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How to Heal Yourself and Others

How to Heal Yourself and Others

The latest trends in medical science suggests that there will be more focus on energy medicine and use of integrated medicine in order to deliver a holistic healing to all the patients. Alternative healing techniques such as EFT, Reiki and other techniques are now being widely used to relieve patients of pain and suffering. Not only these techniques are used for pain management, but they are also found effective in bringing in greater wellness and positivity. The focus on correcting the energy system of the body has profound impact on the way our bodies start to heal themselves. Balancing our emotions and replacing them with more positive emotions leads to healing and accelerated recovery.

Ho’oponopono is one of the ancient Hawaiian techniques of alternative healing which is becoming more famous because of the results it can provide. Based on the notion of letting go and re-establishing our relationship with God, we can actually let the God run our lives and be free. When we reach the stage of Zero, we become like a clean slate, and healing can take place without any significant effort.

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The healing process actually takes place when one takes responsibility for each and everything which is going on in his life. This not only includes taking responsibility for whatever is happening in the personal lives of the individuals but also in the lives of many others. This means taking responsibility even for the actions of terrorists who carried out 9/11. Things may not happen directly due to our fault, but one part of us seem to attract these events in our lives. We therefore need to take the responsibility for whatever is happening in our life.  Don’t feel the guilt and shame that something is happening because of you, but cleanse it through repeating following words:

  1. I am sorry
  2. Please forgive me
  3. I love you
  4. I thank you

By repeating these words and taking full responsibility of everything in our lives, we actually reach a state where everything matters. We become more conscious of our environment and our role to bring positive and loving changes in it. Repeating these words over and over again slowly and gradually cleanse destructive cellular memories from our cells and replace them with the love and peace of creator. By replacing these negative memories with Love and Grace, healing starts to occur.

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If you are facing any disease, try to supplement your existing treatment with this treatment—you don’t have to buy anything or consult with anyone; you just have to repeat these words silently in your heart with the intent that you are being healed. By repeating these words, you will actually start to let go of your deepest emotional issues stored as negative cellular memories in your body and start on the path of healing and recovery.

Ho’oponopono healers also recommend using blue bottle water to drink and use in our homes. This is really simple as all you have to do is to buy a glass bottle of blue water, put tap or filtered water into it and keep it in the sun for 15 to 20 minutes. Let the sun’s energy transfuse itself in your water and energize it. You can drink that water as normal water and can really take benefits from the water full of energy and life.

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This technique has been used effectively to heal emotional and physical issues, as well as to improve overall well-being.

This post is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as medical advice.

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Last Updated on September 12, 2019

12 Things You Should Remember When Feeling Lost in Life

12 Things You Should Remember When Feeling Lost in Life

Even the most charismatic people you know, whether in person or celebrities of some sort, experience days where they feel lost in life and isolated from everyone else.

While it’s good to know we aren’t alone in this feeling, the question still remains:

What should we do when we feel lost and lonely?

Here are 12 things to remember:

1. Recognize That It’s Okay!

The truth is, there are times you need to be alone. If you’ve always been accustomed to being in contact with people, this may prove difficult.

However, learning how to be alone and comfortable in your own skin will give you confidence and a sense of self reliance.

We cheat ourselves out of the opportunity to become self reliant when we look for constant companionship.

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2. Use Your Lost and Loneliness as a Self-Directing Guide

You’ve most likely heard the expression: “You have to know where you’ve been to know where you’re going.”

Loneliness also serves as a life signal to indicate you’re in search of something. It’s when we’re in the midst of solitude that answers come from true soul searching.

Remember, there is more to life than what you’re feeling.

3. Realize Loneliness Helps You Face the Truth

Being in the constant company of others, although comforting sometimes, can often serve as a distraction when we need to face the reality of a situation.

Solitude cuts straight to the chase and forces you to deal with the problem at hand. See it as a blessing that can serve as a catalyst to set things right!

4. Be Aware That You Have More Control Than You Think

Typically, when we see ourselves as being lost or lonely, it gives us an excuse to view everything we come in contact with in a negative light. It lends itself to putting ourselves in the victim mode, when the truth of the matter is that you choose your attitude in every situation.

No one can force a feeling upon you! It is YOU who has the ultimate say as to how you choose to react.

5. Embrace the Freedom That the Feeling of Being Alone Can Offer

Instead of wallowing in self pity, which many are prone to do because of loneliness, try looking at your circumstance as a new-found freedom.

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Most people are in constant need of approval of their viewpoints. Try enjoying the fact that  you don’t need everyone you care about to support your decisions.

6. Acknowledge the Person You Are Now

Perhaps you feel a sense of loneliness and confusion because your life circumstances have taken you away from the persona that others know to be you.

Perhaps the new you differs radically from the old. Realize that life is about change and how we react to that change. It’s okay that you’re not who you used to be.

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7. Keep Striving to Do Your Best

Often those who are feeling isolated and unto themselves will develop a defeatist attitude. They’ll do substandard work because their self esteem is low and they don’t care.

Never let this feeling take away your sense of worth! Do your best always and when you come through this dark time, others will admire how you stayed determined in spite of the obstacles you had to overcome.

And to live your best life, you must do this ONE thing: step out of your comfort zone.

8. Don’t Forget That Time Is Precious

When we’re lost in a sea of loneliness and depression, it’s all too easy to reflect on regrets of past life events. This does nothing but feed negativity and perpetuate the situation.

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Instead of falling prey to this common pitfall, put one foot in front of the other and acknowledge every positive step you take. By doing this, you can celebrate the struggles you overcome at the end of the day.

9. Remember, Things Happen for a Reason

Every circumstance we encounter in our life is designed to teach us and that lesson is in turn passed on to others.

Sometimes we’re fortunate enough to figure out the lesson to be learned, while other times, we simply need to have faith that if the lesson wasn’t meant directly for us to learn from, how we handled it was observed by someone who needed to learn.

Your solitude and feeling of lost, in this instance, although painful possibly, may be teaching someone else.

10. Journal During This Time

Record your thoughts when you’re at the height of loneliness and feeling lost. You’ll be amazed when you reflect back at how you viewed things at the time and how far you’ve come later.

This time (if recorded) can give you a keen insight into who you are and what makes you feel the way you feel.

11. Remember You Aren’t the First to Feel This Way

It’s quite common to feel as if we’re alone and no one else has ever felt this way before. We think this because at the time of our distress, we’re silently observing others around us who are seemingly fine in every way.

The truth is, we can’t possibly know the struggles of those around us unless they elect to share them. We ALL have known this pain!

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Try confiding in someone you trust and ask them how they deal with these feelings when they experienced it. You may be surprised at what you learn.

12. Ask for Help If the Problem Persists

The feeling of being lost and lonely is common to everyone, but typically it will last for a relatively short period of time.

Most people will confess to, at one time or another, being in a “funk.” But if the problem persists longer than you feel it should, don’t ignore it.

When your ability to reason and consider things rationally becomes impaired, do not poo poo the problem away and think it isn’t worthy of attention. Seek medical help.

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Final Thoughts

Loneliness and a sense of feeling lost can in many ways be extremely painful and difficult to deal with at best. However, these feelings can also serve as a catalyst for change in our lives if we acknowledge them and act.

Above anything, cherish your mental well being and don’t underestimate its worth. Seek professional guidance if you’re unable to distinguish between a sense of freedom for yourself and a sense of despair.

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