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Thought for the Day: How Do You Know You are Truly in Love?

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Thought for the Day: How Do You Know You are Truly in Love?

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    You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams. By Dr. Seuss

    You can’t walk down the street at this time of year without seeing a schmaltzy couple draped over each other or a window full of love hearts. Whether you like it or not, the trappings of St Valentines Day can be seen everywhere.

    Now, I’ll put my hands up right now and tell you that I’ve screwed up my fair share of relationships. I still get tongue-tied when I see a beautiful woman, I’ve pushed people away to protect myself and I’ve run round and round in circles wondering how things ’should’ be done.

    Despite that, there’s a heap of things I do know about relationships. I know that it’s important to know what you really need from one; I know that you need to be in a place where you feel ready to be in a partnership with someone; I know you need to open up your baggage so that it doesn’t weigh you down or steer things in the wrong direction; I know that relationships aren’t about blaming someone else for what’s wrong or needing to be right and I know that the things you like and love about your partner are what matter, not what you don’t like.

    But what I’ve also learned is that all of that stuff is useless without one, simple thing:

    The One Thing That Makes Love Work

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