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What You Could Do To Get Over Disappointments If You Were Leonardo DiCaprio

What You Could Do To Get Over Disappointments If You Were Leonardo DiCaprio

Poor, poor Leo.

The 86th Academy Awards marked the 20th anniversary of Leonardo DiCaprio’s first Oscar nomination. Unfortunately, it was also the fourth time he went home empty-handed. Despite being one of the most bankable actors in Hollywood, that little golden statue continues to allude him over two decades into his wildly successful career. Here is the history behind Leo’s Oscar losses:

1994

Nominated for What’s Eating Gilbert Grape as “best supporting actor,” but lost to Tommy Lee Jones for The Fugitive.

2005

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Nominated for The Aviator as “best actor” but lost to Jamie Foxx in Ray.

2007

Nominated for Blood Diamond as “best actor” but lost to Forest Whitaker for The Last King of Scotland.

2014

Nominated for The Wolf of Wall Street as “best actor” but lost to Matthew McConaughey for Dallas Buyers Club.

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After so many years of Academy Awards shaped disappointment, Leo may need some tips on how to get past it and cheer up. But these aren’t exclusively life hacks for the rich and famous. If they were, my list would consist of:

  • Roll around naked in your piles of money
  • Go yachting with models (again).
  • Stand perfectly still whilst millions of fans scream accolades at you
  • Think about how you get paid millions of dollars to indulge in your passion for a living
  • Bask in your own talent and brilliance

No. These tips are ones that even us ordinary plebs can apply to our everyday lives.

1. Let It All Out

    It’s okay to be disappointed. Allow yourself to feel it, and do so without the hidden agenda of trying to speed up the grieving process. Wallowing in your pain is the best way to both move on and to reflect properly in the future. Whether you need to scream, cry or head on down to the shooting range, do what you gotta do.

    2. Ignore Your Critics

      Whether they be professional critics, co-workers, friends or even yourself; ignore them. Disappointments don’t mean failure and you should always persevere if you really want something. Remember, success is one percent talent, 99 perspiration.

      3. Get Some Perspective

        Okay, so I know you may want to smack the crap out of the people who say “it’s not the end of the world.” I get it, they’re annoying. They do, however, have a point. You need to get some perspective on the situation and ask if it will really matter that much in the long run. It’s a mere setback, not a permanent road block.

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        4. Really Get Some Perspective

          If the last tip didn’t work, think about this: is your problem or disappointment really that bad? There are people out there without a roof over their heads. Others don’t have access to clean water sources or regular food. Some people live without basic human rights simply because of who they are or where they were born. Now tell me again about how much your life supposedly sucks.

          5. Be Grateful

            Now that you have some perspective, it’s time to be grateful for what you have. Think about how lucky you are to have what you do, and start thinking about hat resources you have to improve your own situation. I’m willing to be you have access to a lot more future opportunities than you realized.

            6. Stop Wallowing

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              I know I said that you need to take time to mourn—just don’t take too much time. There’s a distinct difference between taking the time to feel your hurt or disappointment and just plain wasting time. Don’t let yourself get stuck in a rut you can’t haul yourself out of. Feel it, sure; but know when it’s time to buckle up and move on.

              7. Persevere

                Life will throw many a setback at you; don’t let it get you down. I’m sure this isn’t your first disappointment and it certainly wont be your last. Now that you’ve taken the time to wallow and reflect, you need to plan your next move and get back out there. Never give up on your goals and dreams.

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                50+ Best Motivational Quotes To Prepare You For Any Challenges In Life

                50+ Best Motivational Quotes To Prepare You For Any Challenges In Life

                Life is filled with highs and lows —happiness and struggles that will test your resilience and integrity, push you to overcome challenges and leave you with lessons that will make you even stronger on your way up.

                It’s the way you feel and think about yourself, including your expectations and beliefs about what is possible to you, greatly determines everything that happens to you.

                It all starts with your thoughts. When you change your thoughts, you transform the quality of your life. (Right, Nancy’s story is a typical example!)

                Below is a list of the best motivational quotes to inspire you to start your day with a blast:

                Quotes for self-assurance

                1. Don’t downgrade your dream just to fit your reality, upgrade your conviction to match your destiny.

                  2. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.

                    3. You are confined only by the walls you build yourself.

                      4. The man who has confidence in himself gains the confidence of others

                        5. You attract what you are, not what you want. If you want great, then be great.

                          6. It’s not who you are that holds you behind, it’s who you think your are not.

                            Quotes about positivity

                            7. Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and think of what could go right.

                              8. You should never regret anything in life. If it’s good, it’s wonderful. If it’s bad, it is experience.

                                9. Falling down is an accident, staying down is a choice.

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                                  10. If you have the power to make someone happy, do it. The world needs more of that.

                                    11. Always believe that something wonderful is about to happen.

                                      12. Don’t be afraid to give up the good and go for great.

                                        13. Remember that life’s greatest lessons are usually learned from worst times and from the worst mistakes.

                                          Quotes for work and success

                                          14. Don’t talk, just act. Don’t say, just show. Don’t promise, just prove.

                                            15. Never stop doing great just because someone doesn’t give you credit.

                                              16. Discipline is doing what needs to be done, even if you don’t want to.

                                                17. Work while they sleep. Learn while they party. Save while they spend. Live like they dream.

                                                  18. The key to success is to focus our conscious mind on things we desire, not things we fear.

                                                    19. Never apologize for having high standards, people who really want to be in your life will rise to meet them.

                                                      20. If it doesn’t challenge you, it won’t change you.

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                                                        21. Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it, time will pass anyway.

                                                          22. Don’t fear failure. Fear being in the exact same place next year as you are today.

                                                            23. A hill is just another opportunity to leave your competition behind.

                                                              24. Don’t quit. You’re already in pain. You’re already hurt. Get a reward from it.

                                                                25. Hustle until you no longer need to introduce yourself.

                                                                  26. You didn’t come this far only to come this far.

                                                                    27. Be selective in your battles for sometimes peace is better than being right.

                                                                      28 If we keep doing what we are doing, we’re going to keep getting what we’re getting.

                                                                        29. You will never know your limits until you push yourself to them.

                                                                          30. Do what you have to do until you can do what you want to do.

                                                                            31. The man on top of the mountain didn’t fall there.

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                                                                              32. If your dreams don’t scare you, they are not big enough.

                                                                                33. If you can’t handle stress, you won’t manage success.

                                                                                  34. Don’t be pushed by your problems, be led by your dreams.

                                                                                    35. Don’t mistake silence for weakness. Smart people don’t plan big moves out loud.

                                                                                      36. Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.

                                                                                        37. Obsessed is the word the lazy use to describe dedicated.

                                                                                          38. You become who you spend your time with.

                                                                                            39. Be stubborn about your goals and flexible about your methods.

                                                                                              40. Hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard.

                                                                                                41. If you don’t build your dreams, someone else will hire you to build theirs.

                                                                                                  42. Between stimulus and response is our greatest power –the freedom to choose.

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                                                                                                    43. What comes easy won’t last, what lasts won’t come easy.

                                                                                                      44. Don’t limit your challenges, challenge your limits.

                                                                                                        45. Work until your idols become your rivals.

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                                                                                                          46. Formal education will make you a living. Self-education will make you a fortune.

                                                                                                            47. I create new enemies every day, it’s called business.

                                                                                                              48. When you have a Million Dollar vision, don’t surround yourself with 1 cent minds.

                                                                                                                49. You can’t get rich thinking poor.

                                                                                                                  50. Doing what is comfortable is rarely profitable.

                                                                                                                    51. If you can count your money, work harder.

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