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Five Ways YOU Could Use Video

Five Ways YOU Could Use Video

In the US at least, this appears to be the year of the Internet Presidency, and this trend got me thinking about ways that that you might use Internet video to improve you universe.

  • Post A Video Resume– There’s something powerful of matching a face to a name, but it’s even stronger if you can come off decent on camera. Get your video camera or your digital camera out, consider your surroundings (background matters), and make sure people can see (good lighting) and hear (either the camera is close enough of use an off-camera microphone) you. Don’t tell people everything you’ve ever done. Focus instead on the most important thing you want people to come away thinking about you when they see the video.
  • Make Your Own Instructional Videos– Do you have a team of people working on something tricky? Would moving pictures help the situation? Try making a film that conveys the desired outcome. Have fun with it. But remember: the Internet has a long memory, and searching YouTube for instructional videos usually nets some really awful (read: funny) results. (Remember that some services like Blip.TV allow you to mark videos as private or friends-only.
  • Make Family Video “Cards”– Letters and cards are nice, but shooting a few minutes of smiles and waves and well wishes with a video camera goes a long way. The Holidays are an easy mark for this kind of idea, but you can do it for birthdays or just random “thinking of you” moments, where a visit isn’t possible. Sure, Grandma might not know how to watch Internet TV (unless she’s Millie Garfield), but theres usually some wonderful relative who will share the movie with her. And you can always mail a DVD if that’s easier.
  • Post Blog News or Company News– There are often announcements to be made in life and in business. Why not use video to make it even more memorable. Sometimes, it’s the “behind the scenes” things we see that endear us to a person or a company more than the public face of it all. I think that video makes for a stronger “relationship,” should that be a desired outcome. Adding a face to an otherwise text-heavy site gives people more to feast upon with regards to the information you provide them. Do people talk about bookstore grosses on the opening weekend of a book? No. They talk about movies. Because they are VISUAL and people crave that input, even when they love the book more than the movie.
  • Improve Your Online Sales– Selling something through eBay or Craigslist? Point to a video of the product as well as snaps. Sometimes, seeing a video clip of something you’re selling is that little bit more compelling. It might even establish more of a relationship between you and the prospective buyer, if that’s of value.

Using Internet video for everything is as silly as using a blog for everything, and there are certainly times when audio is better than video, and times when text is better than both. I read TONS more blogs in a day than I watch videoblogs or Internet TV, and it’s my JOB to watch Internet TV (at least a part of it). So, I’m not saying video fixes everything. But if you’re not even considering its uses and implications, why not? What might creating and posting videos do for your business, organization, or personal situation?

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— Chris Brogan is Community Developer for Video on the Net, a conference about the impact of broadband Internet on the future of TV, Film, and Broadcasting. He keeps a blog at [chrisbrogan.com].

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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