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A Dad Turns His Two-Year-Old Girl’s Sayings Into Pictures Which Make People Smile

A Dad Turns His Two-Year-Old Girl’s Sayings Into Pictures Which Make People Smile

Being a parent to a young child, or to young children, you probably hear them say some of the most craziest things you’ve ever heard. You probably also find yourself saying things you never imagined yourself saying. This is also the case for a man named Martin Bruckner who finds inspiration for his art in the things he hears from his young daughter and the things he and his wife say to her. You need to check out these pictures that Martin has posted on his Tumblr, Spaghetti Toes, which he dedicated to posting these hilariously cute pictures, like the ones below.

This picture just further proves my point that moms have accessories for literally every occasion. Including emotion.

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angry eyebrows

    I can only imagine the events leading up to Bruckner having to say this to his daughter. Some might ask why cake was put in the toilet.  Others might ask what kind of cake it was. These, my friends, are some deep questions that may go unanswered.

    cake in the toilet

      If you ask me, cheese balls make my tummy feel worse. Things must be a lot simpler for a 2 year old.

      Cheeseballs

        And to think I thought I was the only one. This is definitely one epic battle that I would pay good money to see. I just don’t understand how a little girl with such an imagination could be afraid of “make believe”.

        Darth Vader & Penguins

          Did I miss this part of the movie? And why would she charge so much? Martin mentions on his blog that his daughter went through a phase where everything cost $60 dollars, so the price may be fairly consistent.

          Elsa Sells Chicken & Waffles

            This is another one that holds unanswered questions. Does she like them both together, or was she just listing all of her likes in no particular order?

            I like makeup & bad guys

              I just absolutely love this picture. I sure hope this little girl keeps the same attitude for when she is growing up. I hope my kids have the same attitude as well.

              Im going to be somebody

                Uh oh. She finally found out what makes moms superhuman. I’m sure Martin may be feeling a little uneasy, as I would be.

                mommy juice

                  Unfortunately all of the creative things a toddler might say aren’t always so lighthearted. This is a very good representation for how a young kid expresses sadness.

                  My heart doesnt feel well

                    But then you hear something that is so heartwarming, and puzzling all in the same sentence. This must have been inspired after an afternoon of playing dress up, or maybe Martin just has princess-like qualities. Either way you can’t help but to adore this picture.

                    Princess Daddy

                      The diagram really helped me understand how one’s elbow might have a sprained ankle. I think…

                      sprained elbowankle

                        I don’t know if I am more scared for: Bruckner and his wife, or for the apple juice. I can imagine the look in his daughter’s eyes as these words came out of her mouth.

                        this apple juice is doomed

                          If she doesn’t end up being somebody one day like she said before, she at least has a back up plan.

                          training to be a werewolf

                            How could you say no to her after that? She even said “Please”! This certainly goes to show that little girls know exactly what to say to get their dads to do whatever they want.

                            wipe the bum

                              I’m sure there was a very good reason for the hot dogs to be yelled at. There are always two sides to every story, after all.

                              yelling at the hotdogs

                                Martin Bruckner has many more pictures like these ones on his blog. He shows us just how much more fun the world can be through a toddler’s eyes. If you want to see more of Martin’s work, follow Spaghetti Toes on Tumblr.

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                                Photo Credit: Martin Bruckner & spaghetti-toes.tumblr.com

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                                Featured photo credit: Martin Bruckner via spaghetti-toes.tumblr.com

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                                Last Updated on April 6, 2020

                                10 Powerful Ways to Influence People Positively

                                10 Powerful Ways to Influence People Positively

                                Most discussions on positively influencing others eventually touch on Dale Carnegie’s seminal work, How to Win Friends and Influence People. Written more than 83 years ago, the book touches on a core component of human interaction, building strong relationships. It is no wonder why.

                                Everything that we do hinges on our ability to connect with others and formulate deep relationships. You cannot sell a house, buy a house, advance in most careers, sell a product, pitch a story, teach a course, etc. without building healthy relationships. Managers get the best results from their teams, not through brute force, but to careful appeals to their sensibilities, occasional withdrawals from the reservoir of respect they’ve built. Using these tactics, they can influence others to excellence, to productivity, and to success.

                                Carnegie’s book is great. Of course, there are other resources too. Most of us have someone in our lives who positively influences us. The truth is positively influencing people is about centering the humanity of others. Chances are, you know someone who is really good at making others feel like stars. They can get you to do things that the average person cannot. Where the requests of others sound like fingernails on a chalkboard, the request from this special person sounds like music to your ears. You’re delighted to not only listen but also to oblige.

                                So how to influence people in a positive way? Read on for tips.

                                1. Be Authentic

                                To influence people in a positive way, be authentic. Rather than being a carbon copy of someone else’s version of authenticity, uncover what it is that makes you unique.

                                Discover your unique take on an issue and then live up to and honor that. Once of the reasons social media influencers are so powerful is that they have carved out a niche for themselves or taken a common issue and approached it from a novel or uncommon way. People instinctually appreciate people whose public persona matches their private values.

                                Contradictions bother us because we crave stability. When someone professes to be one way, but lives contrary to that profession, it signals that they are confused or untrustworthy and thereby, inauthentic. Neither of these combinations bode well for positively influencing others.

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                                2. Listen

                                Growing up, my father would tell me to listen to what others said. He told me if I listened carefully, I would know all I needed to know about a person’s character, desires and needs.

                                To positively influence others, you must listen to what is spoken and what is left unsaid. Therein lies the explanation for what people need in order to feel validated, supported and seen. If a person feels they are invisible, and unseen by their superiors, they are less likely to be positively influenced by that person.

                                Listening meets a person’s primary need of validation and acceptance.

                                Take a look at this guide on how to be a better listener: How to Practice Active Listening (A Step-By-Step Guide)

                                3. Become an Expert

                                Most people are predisposed to listen to, if not respect, authority. If you want to positively influence others, become an authority in the area in which you seek to lead others. Research and read everything you can about the given topic, and then look for opportunities to put your education into practice.

                                You can argue over opinions. You cannot argue, or it is unwise to argue, over facts and experts come with facts.

                                4. Lead with Story

                                From years of working in the public relations space, I know that personal narratives, testimonials and impact stories are incredibly powerful. But I never cease to be amazed with how effective a well-timed and told story can be.

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                                If you want to influence people, learn to tell stories. Your stories should be related to the issue or concept you are discussing. They should be an analogy or metaphor that explains your topic in ordinary terms and in vivid detail. To learn more about how to tell powerful stories, and the ethics of storytelling, take a look at this article: How To Tell An Interesting Story In 4 Simple Steps

                                5. Lead by Example

                                It is incredibly inspiring to watch passionate, talented people at work or play. One of the reasons a person who is not an athlete can be in awe of athletic prowess is because human nature appreciates the extraordinary. When we watch the Olympics, Olympic trials, gymnastic competitions, ice skating, and other competitive sports, we can recognize the effort of people who day in and day out give their all. C

                                ase in point: Simone Biles. The gymnast extraordinaire won her 6TH all-around title at the U.S. Gymnastics Championships after doing a triple double. She was the first woman to do so. Watching her gave me chills. Even non-gymnasts and non-competitive athletes can appreciate the talent required to pull off such a remarkable feat.

                                We celebrate remarkable accomplishments and believe that their example is proof that we too can accomplish something great, even if it isn’t qualifying for the Olympics. To influence people in a positive way, we must lead by example, lead with intention and execute with excellence.

                                6. Catch People Doing Good

                                A powerful way to influence people in a positive way is to catch people doing good. Instead of looking for problems, look for successes. Look for often overlooked, but critically important things that your peers, subordinates and managers do that make the work more effective and more enjoyable.

                                Once you catch people doing good, name and notice their contributions.

                                7. Be Effusive with Praise

                                It did not take me long to notice a remarkable trait of a former boss. He not only began and ended meetings with praise, but he peppered praise throughout the entire meeting. He found a way to celebrate the unique attributes and skills of his team members. He was able to quickly and accurately assess what people were doing well and then let them and their colleagues know.

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                                Meetings were not just an occasion to go through a “To Do” list, they were opportunities to celebrate accomplishments, no matter how small they are.

                                8. Be Kind Rather Than Right

                                I am going to level with you; this one is tough. It is easy to get caught up in a cycle of proving oneself. For people who lack confidence, or people who prioritize the opinions of others, being right is important. The validation that comes with being perceived as “right” feeds one’s ego. But in the quest to be “right,” we can hurt other people. Once we’ve hurt someone by being unkind, it is much harder to get them to listen to what we’re trying to influence them to do.

                                The antidote to influencing others via bullying is to prioritize kindness above rightness. You can be kind and still stand firm in your position. For instance, many people think that they need others to validate their experience. If a person does not see the situation you experienced in the way you see it, you get upset. But your experience is your experience.

                                If you and your friends go out to eat and you get food poisoning, you do not need your friends to agree that the food served at the restaurant was problematic for you. Your own experience of getting food poisoning is all the validation you need. Therefore, taking time to be right is essentially wasted and, if you were unkind in seeking validation for your food-poison experience, now you’ve really lost points.

                                9. Understand a Person’s Logical, Emotional and Cooperative Needs

                                The Center for Creative Leadership has argued that the best way to influence others is to appeal to their logical, emotional and cooperative needs. Their logical need is their rational and educational need. Their emotional need is the information that touches them in a deeply personal manner. The cooperative need is understanding the level of cooperation various individuals need and then appropriately offering it.

                                The trick with this system is to understand that different people need different things. For some people, a strong emotional appeal will outweigh logical explanations. For others, having an opportunity to collaborate will override emotional connection.

                                If you know your audience, you will know what they need in order to be positively influenced. If you have limited information about the people whom you are attempting to influence, you will be ineffective.

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                                10. Understand Your Lane

                                If you want to positively influence others, operate from your sphere of influence. Operate from your place of expertise. Leave everything else to others. Gone are the days when being a jack of all trades is celebrated.

                                Most people appreciate brands that understand their target audience and then deliver on what that audience wants. When you focus on what you are uniquely gifted and qualified to do, and then offer that gift to the people who need it, you are likely more effective. This effectiveness is attractive.

                                You cannot positively influence others if you are more preoccupied by what others do well versus what you do well.

                                Final Thoughts

                                Influencing people is about centering your humanity. If you want to influence others positively, focus on the way you communicate and improve the relationship with yourself first.

                                It’s hard to influence others if you’re still trying to figure out how to communicate with yourself.

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