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Book Review: What No One Ever Tells You About Blogging and Podcasting

Book Review: What No One Ever Tells You About Blogging and Podcasting
What No One Ever Tells You About Blogging and Podcasting

    A Ted Demopoulos book published by Kaplan Publishing, 2007, 211 pages. Nonfiction, General Business, Blogging and Podcasting.

    Ted Demopoulos has had a long and distinguished career in the business community. He has advised such companies as IBM, Hewlett-Packard and Motorola. He has an extensive speaking background in and is a sought after guest at business and technology focused events.

    Well, enough with the flattery and on with the review.

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    If you are in the market for a “how to” manual for blogging basics full of technical data, html and design code, this isn’t the book for you.

    However, if you are interested in a broader perspective collected form the folks who are “in the trenches” and doing it, you have just found you rally point.

    Demopoulos goes to great pains to look at the broad spectrum of “bloggers” out there. There are insights from folks like Seth Godin who have an established track record of success as well as folks like me who are fairly new to the world of blogging.

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    Demopoulos breaks the book down into eight major groupings and then seeks out input from people who are currently at every stage of success in these groupings.

    Part 1 covers the basics of what a blog is. What you discover is that what a blog is depends on who you are. If you are a business representative, a blog is a way to get you warm fuzzy side out to the public. If you are self reflective and relationship oriented, a blog is a way to share and communicate in a whole new way. If you are a writer, a blog is a way to stay in touch with your audience on a day to day basis.

    In part 4 Demopoulos examines some of the techniques for monetizing a blog. This is my favorite part of the book. I particularly the brilliant start up piece on page 90 on how to get the best from your AdSense advertisements (this is a completely self serving plug for the section I contributed to the book. No, I have no shame).

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    It is also worth mentioning that this particular section, number 50 of 101 pieces, is exactly in the middle of the sections. A mere coincidence? Ha, I think not (in fact, I think coincidence is exactly what it was).

    At this point, I am taking particular interest in the section entitled “Promoting Your Blog And Tracking Statistics.” Like may of you, I am at the stage where I have done a fair job of establishing the identity of my blog but have a chink in my armor when it comes to promotion. There is even a section by the self proclaimed “Blog Traffic King” Yaro Starak who took his blog from 0 to 1000 visitors a day in 6 months.

    Other portions of the book have content from folks like Seth Godin on various and sundry aspects of blogging.

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    If you only budget 20 buckskins for books on blogging this year, you won’t go wrong investing in this one.

    The downside? The mans name is really hard to spell!

    What No One Ever Tells You About Blogging and Podcasting: Real-Life Advice from 101 People Who Successfully Leverage the Power of the Blogosphere

    Reg Adkins writes on behavior and the human experience at (elementaltruths.blogspot.com).

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    Last Updated on January 18, 2019

    7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

    7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

    Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

    But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

    If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

    1. Limit the time you spend with them.

    First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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    In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

    Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

    2. Speak up for yourself.

    Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

    3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

    This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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    But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

    4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

    Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

    This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

    Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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    5. Change the subject.

    When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

    Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

    6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

    Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

    I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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    You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

    Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

    7. Leave them behind.

    Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

    If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

    That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

    You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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