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Becoming a Great Leader

Becoming a Great Leader
Leader

    A series on becoming a more successful leader.

    There’s no doubt about it. Being in a leadership position is a very difficult job. We are required to do so much and to be all things to so many people. The advice we get is often great in theory, but falls short of the mark in practice. We need practical strategies that will help us, and those around us become, or continue being successful.

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    There seems to be a myth that having been a successful leader once, we know all there is to know about leadership. All we need to do to dispel this myth is spend one day when things don’t go as planned. Just as coworkers, customers, and clients come in all shapes and sizes so do they come with all sorts of attitudes, temperaments, personalities and experiences.

    One thing is certain. Unless parameters for successful operations are in place, no progress is made. You can have a dynamic business plan, an awe inspiring mission statement, an a precise instrument for measuring success, but without proper parameters and a procedural system in place, you are spinning your wheels.

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    Here are a few givens.

    • Most behavior is learned.
    • The cause and effect relationship of behavior usually determine if the behavior will continue.
    • That which is learned can be relearned correctly.

    There are some things we can do as leaders to help prevent problems from arising.

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    • Maintain a full agenda of activities. This will limit down time and inefficiency in your operation.
    • Be consistent in your delivery and expectations.
    • Have a contingency plan in place before the next day of business.
    • Communicate with language that is positive, yet firm.
    • Create a pleasant, safe working environment.
    • Communicate with customers, coworkers and clients on a regular basis.
    • Intervene early when difficulties arise.
    • Teach your coworkers problem solving techniques.
    • Communicate and coordinate with peers, even those in other organizations.
    • Determine staff ability levels.
    • Identify appropriate motivational tools.
    • Constantly reevaluate your procedures for appropriateness and possible improvement.
    • Maintain high supervisory mobility within the workplace.
    • Use shaping and fading strategies to gradually change non-productive staff behaviors.
    • Involve your staff as much as possible, in day to day decisions and long term planning.

    This guide is not intended as a panacea for all staff and work related problems. It is intended to be a place to start so that as leaders we can continue to facilitate positive change within our organizations, thus allows us and those around us to continue to succeed.

    Keep in mind that your customers and clients should be foremost in your mind and not every strategy will work with every individual every time. It is important to pick and choose techniques that might work with that individual at that given place and time. By applying these principals you will help to create a productive, creative, and positive environment for all involved.

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    Reg Adkins writes on behavior and the human experience at (elementaltruths.blogspot.com).

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    Last Updated on August 12, 2019

    13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do

    13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do

    Mentally strong people have healthy habits. They manage their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in ways that set them up for success in life.

    Take a look at these 13 things that mentally strong people don’t do so that you too can become mentally stronger.

    1. They Don’t Waste Time Feeling Sorry for Themselves

    Mentally strong people don’t sit around feeling sorry about their circumstances or how others have treated them. Instead, they take responsibility for their role in life and understand that life isn’t always easy or fair.

    2. They Don’t Give Away Their Power

    They don’t allow others to control them, and they don’t give someone else power over them. They don’t say things like, “My boss makes me feel bad,” because they understand that they are in control over their own emotions and they have a choice in how they respond.

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    3. They Don’t Shy Away from Change

    Mentally strong people don’t try to avoid change. Instead, they welcome positive change and are willing to be flexible. They understand that change is inevitable and believe in their abilities to adapt.

    4. They Don’t Waste Energy on Things They Can’t Control

    You won’t hear a mentally strong person complaining over lost luggage or traffic jams. Instead, they focus on what they can control in their lives. They recognize that sometimes, the only thing they can control is their attitude.

    5. They Don’t Worry About Pleasing Everyone

    Mentally strong people recognize that they don’t need to please everyone all the time. They’re not afraid to say no or speak up when necessary. They strive to be kind and fair, but can handle other people being upset if they didn’t make them happy.

    6. They Don’t Fear Taking Calculated Risks

    They don’t take reckless or foolish risks, but don’t mind taking calculated risks. Mentally strong people spend time weighing the risks and benefits before making a big decision, and they’re fully informed of the potential downsides before they take action.

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    7. They Don’t Dwell on the Past

    Mentally strong people don’t waste time dwelling on the past and wishing things could be different. They acknowledge their past and can say what they’ve learned from it.

    However, they don’t constantly relive bad experiences or fantasize about the glory days. Instead, they live for the present and plan for the future.

    8. They Don’t Make the Same Mistakes Over and Over

    Mentally strong people accept responsibility for their behavior and learn from their past mistakes. As a result, they don’t keep repeating those mistakes over and over. Instead, they move on and make better decisions in the future.

    9. They Don’t Resent Other People’s Success

    Mentally strong people can appreciate and celebrate other people’s success in life. They don’t grow jealous or feel cheated when others surpass them. Instead, they recognize that success comes with hard work, and they are willing to work hard for their own chance at success.

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    10. They Don’t Give Up After the First Failure

    Mentally strong people don’t view failure as a reason to give up. Instead, they use failure as an opportunity to grow and improve. They are willing to keep trying until they get it right.

    11. They Don’t Fear Alone Time

    Mentally strong people can tolerate being alone and they don’t fear silence. They aren’t afraid to be alone with their thoughts and they can use downtime to be productive.

    They enjoy their own company and aren’t dependent on others for companionship and entertainment all the time but instead can be happy alone.

    12. They Don’t Feel the World Owes Them Anything

    Mentally strong people don’t feel entitled to things in life. They weren’t born with a mentality that others would take care of them or that the world must give them something. Instead, they look for opportunities based on their own merits.

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    13. They Don’t Expect Immediate Results

    Whether they are working on improving their health or getting a new business off the ground, mentally strong people don’t expect immediate results. Instead, they apply their skills and time to the best of their ability and understand that real change takes time.

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