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7 Warning Signs You Are Losing Track of Your Life

7 Warning Signs You Are Losing Track of Your Life

Each one of us is sailing uncharted seas every day. Few of us have any idea where we want to sail and most are stuck in a lull in the middle of the sea hoping for a miracle. If you want to avoid losing track of where you are right now in the sea of life, then read the following seven warning signs so you can prepare yourself to face them when they arise.

1. You start each day feeling horrible

If you find yourself waking up with little energy and no excitement, then the chances are high that you are losing track of your life. Those who know what they want in life embrace every new day with exciting plans and the desire to execute them. Be aware that the horrible feelings might also be a sign of depression, so additional help from those around you, especially mental health professionals, might be needed.

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2. You drastically lose or gain appetite

This is something I usually experience when I’m in a ‘down’ state. I am a big eater, so I know that if I lose my appetite then that means that I’m not in tune with myself. Another thing that is also prone to happen to me is I have cravings to eat something even though I just had a huge meal a few minutes ago. These sudden changes in appetite are one of the obvious warning signs you are losing track of your life, so be prepared with a plan to bring yourself back into line if it happens at any point in your life.

3. You start to question the reason you are doing the things you do in life

When you start to question the reason you are doing the things you do in life, then 99.99% of the time you are probably not on the right path. This means that you are unsatisfied with how you lead your life and if you continue leading it that way, you will end up becoming someone who harbors hatred towards life. The solution: change yourself. Finding the right path is not easy because it differs from person to person. By changing the way you lead your life, you increase your chances of stumbling onto the right path that you sought to walk along.

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4. You seek entertainment but find things are not as entertaining as they used to be

I love to play video games. But there are times when even the most novel of games can’t bring me joy. You might experience the same thing even though you don’t like video games. Your interaction with friends felt dull, last night’s World Cup finals match wasn’t that exciting, and the program on the TV seems to be lacking entertainment value. When entertainment loses its ability to entertain you, then nothing will work unless you get your life back on track.

5. You feel as if you are disconnected from the people around you

Friends are source of joy. Other than that, they are also a way we feel connected to the world around us. Have you ever felt that you are alone in this world? If yes, then that’s a sign that you’re losing a grip on life. No matter how many people you meet, that feeling of connection won’t reemerge because there isn’t a ‘thread’ going out from your soul in the first place.

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6.You are constantly thinking destructive, pessimistic thoughts

This is usually the sign of escalating depression. Those who are depressed definitely lose track of their own life. If you are constantly thinking destructive, pessimistic thoughts and finding it hard to turn those thoughts into more positive ones, then you need to check where you are heading right now! Most of the time you may find yourself walking a fine line and even a slight push could make you tumble into the deep, bottomless abyss.

7.You think that there’s no light at the end of the tunnel

If you lose track to the point where you feel you are currently inside a dark cave, then how do you expect to be able to see the light at the end of the tunnel? Someone who doesn’t have a clue where they are is the same as someone who can’t see the solutions to their problems. The solutions are out there but they’ll only reveal themselves to those who have some clarity.

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How to get a compass

When you recognize the above warning signs in your life, bring out your compass. You don’t have one? You don’t know how to use them? The following are some things you can do to help find your life compass:

  1. Ask yourself. Sometimes the answers to all your woes are already buried deep inside you. It’s just that you don’t ask.
  2. Ask others for help and advice. There are many people out there who have experienced the same problem as you and they will gladly help you to find your way back to the right path.
  3. Silence. Sometimes, the problem with those who are walking a path is that they walk a noisy path. It’s inevitable that there are various noises all around you but you do have the capability to silence them. How? Do nothing and just be mindful of the things happening around you. It works wonders!

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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