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5 Things Singles Should Do When Their Friends Get Into Relationships

5 Things Singles Should Do When Their Friends Get Into Relationships

We all know how it is: you are best friends with someone, and then they suddenly get into what they call a serious relationship and go AWOL. It may be annoying, it may be depressing; but just like with pretty much anything else, this situation can be turned to your own advantage – if you stay positive and look for new opportunities.

1. Do Things You’ve Been Always Putting off

When your close friends start getting into relationships, it usually means that you are going to spend less time with them. But instead of moping and feeling left out, why not use this time to change your life for the better? There are dozens of things we put off because we just can’t get around to doing them – and now, when you have more free time on your hands is a perfect opportunity to check them off your list.

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Get your car maintenance done. Visit a doctor. Sign up for a gym. Learn something new. Write a will. OK, not a happy thought, but you should at least know how to make a fully legal will online if you are going to leave everything to that cat of yours.

2. Embrace Your Single Status

There may be a ton of reasons why you are single. You’ve probably just never met the right person or your life is full enough without it. It could also be that you simply are not wired for this relationship thing.

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However, we live in the culture of coupling, and when all your friends start getting into relationships, they often perceive it as a good enough reason to look patronizingly at their single friends, suggesting that you should find someone and, worse still, set up dates for you.

But if you are happy staying single, stay single – don’t get into a relationship just to be like all your friends. Best relationships are not the ones you are actively looking for, but the ones that just happen.

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3. Make New Friends

When friends start dating someone new and spend more and more time with them, it is an excellent chance to change and expand your circle of acquaintances. Of course, people are unique and a new friend will never substitute an old one; but there are hundreds of fascinating people around that may enrich your life in ways you have no idea so far. As we go forward with our lives, our interests, habits and we themselves change. Perhaps it is time to find some new friends, too, that will better reflect your own nature?

4. Do Something Big

Getting into a long-term relationship is a serious thing; perhaps you should make some drastic changes in your life as well? The best thing to do it is to do something really big, something you have never done before, something that will send your life in a completely new and hitherto unexplored direction. A business of your own, perhaps?

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Fortunately, we live in the Internet age, which means that you don’t need a great deal of capital to start a business. A standalone blog, a commercial website are the most obvious examples – the more affordable web hosts like Siteground can cost as little as $4 per month – you will need nothing but your own time and enthusiasm to keep you going. And, by the way, it is an excellent way to find new friends, acquaintances and interests.

5. Explore Yourself

Friends getting into relationships and spending less time with you may serve as an excellent motivation to try and find what you really want in this life. Perhaps it is time to try out a new hobby? Or learn a foreign language? Take a trip somewhere far away? Take up jogging? Possibilities are endless.

Don’t get depressed about being the last single in your old circle of friends – being single can be empowering, stimulating and liberating – if you so choose.

Featured photo credit: relationships are complicated/hojusaram via flickr.com

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Last Updated on October 18, 2018

50+ Best Motivational Quotes To Prepare You For Any Challenges In Life

50+ Best Motivational Quotes To Prepare You For Any Challenges In Life

Life is filled with highs and lows —happiness and struggles that will test your resilience and integrity, push you to overcome challenges and leave you with lessons that will make you even stronger on your way up.

It’s the way you feel and think about yourself, including your expectations and beliefs about what is possible to you, greatly determines everything that happens to you.

It all starts with your thoughts. When you change your thoughts, you transform the quality of your life. (Right, Nancy’s story is a typical example!)

Below is a list of the best motivational quotes to inspire you to start your day with a blast:

Quotes for self-assurance

1. Don’t downgrade your dream just to fit your reality, upgrade your conviction to match your destiny.

    2. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.

      3. You are confined only by the walls you build yourself.

        4. The man who has confidence in himself gains the confidence of others

          5. You attract what you are, not what you want. If you want great, then be great.

            6. It’s not who you are that holds you behind, it’s who you think your are not.

              Quotes about positivity

              7. Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and think of what could go right.

                8. You should never regret anything in life. If it’s good, it’s wonderful. If it’s bad, it is experience.

                  9. Falling down is an accident, staying down is a choice.

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                    10. If you have the power to make someone happy, do it. The world needs more of that.

                      11. Always believe that something wonderful is about to happen.

                        12. Don’t be afraid to give up the good and go for great.

                          13. Remember that life’s greatest lessons are usually learned from worst times and from the worst mistakes.

                            Quotes for work and success

                            14. Don’t talk, just act. Don’t say, just show. Don’t promise, just prove.

                              15. Never stop doing great just because someone doesn’t give you credit.

                                16. Discipline is doing what needs to be done, even if you don’t want to.

                                  17. Work while they sleep. Learn while they party. Save while they spend. Live like they dream.

                                    18. The key to success is to focus our conscious mind on things we desire, not things we fear.

                                      19. Never apologize for having high standards, people who really want to be in your life will rise to meet them.

                                        20. If it doesn’t challenge you, it won’t change you.

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                                          21. Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it, time will pass anyway.

                                            22. Don’t fear failure. Fear being in the exact same place next year as you are today.

                                              23. A hill is just another opportunity to leave your competition behind.

                                                24. Don’t quit. You’re already in pain. You’re already hurt. Get a reward from it.

                                                  25. Hustle until you no longer need to introduce yourself.

                                                    26. You didn’t come this far only to come this far.

                                                      27. Be selective in your battles for sometimes peace is better than being right.

                                                        28 If we keep doing what we are doing, we’re going to keep getting what we’re getting.

                                                          29. You will never know your limits until you push yourself to them.

                                                            30. Do what you have to do until you can do what you want to do.

                                                              31. The man on top of the mountain didn’t fall there.

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                                                                32. If your dreams don’t scare you, they are not big enough.

                                                                  33. If you can’t handle stress, you won’t manage success.

                                                                    34. Don’t be pushed by your problems, be led by your dreams.

                                                                      35. Don’t mistake silence for weakness. Smart people don’t plan big moves out loud.

                                                                        36. Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.

                                                                          37. Obsessed is the word the lazy use to describe dedicated.

                                                                            38. You become who you spend your time with.

                                                                              39. Be stubborn about your goals and flexible about your methods.

                                                                                40. Hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard.

                                                                                  41. If you don’t build your dreams, someone else will hire you to build theirs.

                                                                                    42. Between stimulus and response is our greatest power –the freedom to choose.

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                                                                                      43. What comes easy won’t last, what lasts won’t come easy.

                                                                                        44. Don’t limit your challenges, challenge your limits.

                                                                                          45. Work until your idols become your rivals.

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                                                                                            46. Formal education will make you a living. Self-education will make you a fortune.

                                                                                              47. I create new enemies every day, it’s called business.

                                                                                                48. When you have a Million Dollar vision, don’t surround yourself with 1 cent minds.

                                                                                                  49. You can’t get rich thinking poor.

                                                                                                    50. Doing what is comfortable is rarely profitable.

                                                                                                      51. If you can count your money, work harder.

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