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5 Simple Rules For Getting The Most Out Of Life

5 Simple Rules For Getting The Most Out Of Life

Life moves at a frantic pace, and while we’re all working hard to squeeze the best out of our lives, it can be easy to overlook some of the simpler techniques that we all have at our fingertips.

1. Embrace novelty and enjoy the results.

Do something completely new on a regular basis. The shock of a new experience will remove you from your comfort zone, energize your mind and even help you gain new objectivity on familiar or difficult aspects of your life. Regularly trying your hand at new skills, such as learning a foreign language or picking up a new musical instrument, is also a great way to keep your brain engaged, active and healthy. And of course, you’ll also be adding new strings to your bow at the same time. Two for the price of one!

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2. Learn to appreciate each and every moment.

Mindfulness (the practice of paying close attention to your place, thoughts and feelings on a moment-by-moment basis) is an incredibly simple way to get more out of each and every second and, by extension, ensure you’re getting the most out of life.

By using easy mindfulness techniques, you’ll be shutting out the constant barrage of noise for a short while and enjoying the value of each moment. The results might surprise you. Though Mindfulness traditionally deploys techniques such as meditation, getting started can be as easy as closing your eyes for 2 minutes and focusing inwards on your breathing, or on the sounds in the environment around you.

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Once you’ve tuned in to the value of each and every moment, you’ll be able to enjoy more of what life has to offer. What’s more, taking a more mindful approach to life is free, can be done anywhere, and doesn’t require any fancy tools or expertise. To get started, all you need is a willingness to embrace who you are, where you are, and what you’re feeling. What could be simpler?

3. Travel, but don’t go far.

As the old saying goes ‘travel broadens the mind,’ but travel is also a state of mind. A readiness to embrace new sights and sounds, however close to home they might be, is a simple and fun way of expanding your appreciation of the community to which you belong. Sure, it might be great to jump on a plane to somewhere exotic tomorrow, but that isn’t always an option. Making a trip somewhere new, even if it’s only an hour from home, is a simple way to expand your horizons. Stop making excuses, and start planning your trip!

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4. Laugh, and the whole world laughs with you.

How do you decide whether you’re actually getting the most from life? A chuckle and a large pinch of salt would be a good start. When we are laughing, we are more relaxed, and everything in life seems a little easier.

Even when life feels too busy, hard, or plain ridiculous, we all possess the capacity for laughter. Whether it’s a joke, a video featuring ridiculous animal behavior, or just seeing the funny side of a difficult situation, you owe it to yourself to make sure that your life features a regular dose of laughter. Go on; get more from life! It all starts with a smile.

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5. Be generous. It’s good for you!

Giving your precious time to others is good for your health and happiness. Recent studies have shown that the simple process of volunteering time, skills and goodwill for a deserving cause can bring distinct benefits to the giver as well as the recipient. So by being more generous, you could be better off too. And if you’re healthy and smiley, you’ll have the time and energy to ensure you’re getting the most that life has to offer!

None of these 5 simple rules need take up much of your time, but each of them will ensure you’ll be on the road to getting the most from your life.

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Last Updated on June 26, 2019

7 Ways to Make Life Changing Decisions

7 Ways to Make Life Changing Decisions

Most people don’t know the profound effects of making life decisions. Often times, we go through life oblivious to what thoughts we are thinking and what actions we are taking. Every single decision we make in our days shapes our current reality. It shapes who we are as a person because we habitually follow through with the decisions we make without even realizing it.

If you’re unhappy with the results in your life right now, making the effort to changing your decisions starting today will be the key to creating the person you want to be and the life you want to have in the future.

Let’s talk about the 7 ways you can go about making life changing decisions.

1. Realize the Power of Decision Making

Before you start making a decision, you have to understand what a decision does.

Any decision that you make causes a chain of events to happen. When you decide to pick up a cigarette to smoke it, that decision might result in you picking up another one later on to get that same high feeling. After a day, you may have gone through a pack without knowing it. But if you decide not to smoke that first cigarette and make a decision every five minutes to focus your attention somewhere else when you get that craving, after doing this for a week, your cravings will eventually subside and you will become smoke-free.

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But it comes down to making that very first decision of deciding whether or not to pick up that cigarette.

2. Go with Your Gut

Often times, we take too much time to make a decision because we’re afraid of what’s going to happen. As a result of this, we go through things like careful planning, deep analysis, and pros and cons before deciding. This is a very time consuming process.

Instead, learn to trust your gut instinct. For the most part, your first instinct is usually the one that is correct or the one that you truly wanted to go with.

Even if you end up making a mistake, going with your gut still makes you a more confident decision maker compared to someone who takes all day to decide.

3. Carry Your Decision Out

When you make a decision, act on it. Commit to making a real decision.

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What’s a real decision? It’s when you decide on something, and that decision is carried out through action. It’s pointless to make a decision and have it played out in your head, but not doing anything about it. That’s the same as not making a decision at all.

If you want to make real changes in life, you have to make it a habit to apply action with your decision until it’s completed. By going through this so many times, you will feel more confident with accomplishing the next decision that you have in mind.

4. Tell Others About Your Decisions

There’s something about telling other people what we’re going to do that makes us follow through.

For example, for the longest time, I’ve been trying to become an early riser. Whenever I tried to use my own willpower, waking up early without falling back asleep felt impossible. So what I did was I went to a forum and made the decision to tell people that I would wake up at 6 AM and stay up. Within two days, I was able to accomplish doing this because I felt a moral obligation to follow through with my words even though I failed the first time.

Did people care? Probably not, but just the fact that there might be someone else out there seeing if you’re telling the truth will give you enough motivation to following through with your decision.

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5. Learn from Your past Decisions

Even after I failed to follow through my decision the first time when I told people I was going to wake up early and stay up, I didn’t give up. I basically asked myself, “What can I do this time to make it work tomorrow?”

The truth is, you are going to mess up at times when it comes to making decisions. Instead of beating yourself up over it, learn something from it.

Ask yourself, what was good about the decision I made? What was bad about it? What can I learn from it so I can make a better decision next time?

Remember, don’t put so much emphasis focusing on short term effects; instead focus on the long term effects.

6. Maintain a Flexible Approach

I know this might sound counter-intuitive, but making a decision doesn’t mean that you can’t be open to other options.

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For example, let’s say you made the decision to lose ten pounds by next month through cardio. If something comes up, you don’t have to just do cardio. You can be open to losing weight through different methods of dieting as long as it helps you reach your goal in the end.

Don’t be stubborn to seek out only one way of making a decision. Embrace any new knowledge that brings you closer to accomplishing your initial decision.

7. Have Fun Making Decisions

Finally, enjoy the process. I know decision-making might not be the most fun thing world to do, but when you do it often, it becomes a game of opportunity.

You’ll learn a lot about yourself on the way, you’ll feel and become a lot more confident when you’re with yourself and around others, and making decisions will just become a lot easier after you do it so often that you won’t even think about it.

Anything you decide to do from this point on can have a profound effect later on. Opportunities are always waiting for you. Examine the decisions that you currently have in the day.

Are there any that can be changed to improve your life in some way? Are there any decisions that you can make today that can create a better tomorrow?

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