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3 Tips to Improve Memory Quickly

3 Tips to Improve Memory Quickly

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    Memory is not something you don’t have; it has little to do with genetics or environment.

    The problem has never been that we have “faulty” equipment; that our brains are broken or don’t work.  The problem has always been awareness.  We haven’t been taught how to properly use our brains.  For most people, it’s a just a muscle that is underused and underdeveloped.

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    It’s turns out that having a good memory has more to do with your strategy than it does with your mental hardware.  The people that have great memories follow a strategic process.  This process is based on the technology of Neuro-Linguistics Programming (NLP).

    Memory and The Spelling Strategy

    There are an infinite number of ways to learn how to spell.  Most of the average to poor spellers learn phonetically.  That means learning to spell based on the sounds of the letters and words – an auditory strategy.

    It turns out that this strategy is not the most effective way to become a great speller.  The real trail-blazers, the people who consistently produce top scores learn how to spell visually – a visual strategy.

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    3 Tips to Improve Memory

    The spelling strategy is just one example of how visual properties help improve memory.  If you want to improve your memory, start using a visual strategy.  You can start right away with these 3 tips:

    1.    Begin to access your visual cues. Access the visually memorable part of your brain by looking up and to the left.  You see when you look up and to the left you access your visual memory.  These are the pictures, images and movies that have flashed on your mind from the past.  You can do this deliberately right now to find items you lost or misplaced.

    Have you lost your keys or misplaced your wallet?

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    You can find these items in your mind.  Outer world images are stored inside.   Just move your eyes by looking up and to the left and look for your wallet in your mind.   Where did you see it last?

    2.    Another way to use this approach is in conversation. The next time you speak with someone, be sure to play with the visual strategy.

    When someone is speaking to you, start to create pictures and images in your mind.  Listen to people as if they were telling you a story.  And as they tell you their story, build a motion picture in your mind.  Add visual images and pictures to the story.  The richer the pictures, the easier it will be to remember.

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    I’ve used this strategy to avoid taking meeting minutes.  All I did was add pictures to the story I was hearing.  A picture says a thousand words. Some people were amazed at how good my memory was, but there’s no trick to it – just a strategy.  Use it or loose it.

    3.    Practice changing your physiology. Make sure to speak to someone by keeping your head up and shoulders back.  Stand up straight when possible.  This makes it so much easier to look up and make pictures.  And since your memory is accessed through the picture-making magic comes from looking up and to the left, that’s where you want to be.

    Practice seeing the world differently.  Use the muscle between your ears.  You’ve got one of the most precious gifts the world has ever known; your marvelous mind.

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    Last Updated on January 21, 2020

    How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

    How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

    If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

    Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

    So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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    1. Listen

    Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

    2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

    Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

    “Why do you want to do that?”

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    “What makes you so excited about it?”

    “How long has that been your dream?”

    You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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    3. Encourage

    This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

    4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

    After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

    5. Dream

    This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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    6. Ask How You Can Help

    Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

    7. Follow Up

    Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

    Final Thoughts

    By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

    Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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