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18 Things Happy People Never Do

18 Things Happy People Never Do

People always seem to be looking for happiness by reading quotes and articles about it. If you're one of them, you must have seen this quote or something similar to this:

“Happiness is a journey, not a destination.”

But how many of you have really got its meaning and started living out happiness?

Here're 18 things happy people never do, but don't just read and blindly follow everything mentioned here. You should learn about them and move on with your life and lead your own pursuit of happiness.

1. They never mind what other people think of them.

think about you

    2. They don't need others' compliments to proof their achievements.

    dont care

      3. They don't rely on other people or materialistic stuff for happiness.

      happy

        4. They don't hold on to their past.

        past behind

          5. They never magnify the bad things in people.

          person

            6. They don't think crying is bad.

            cry

              7. They never lie about their feelings to anyone including themselves.

              be me

                8. They never need to be the center of attention.

                scream

                  9. They don't compare themselves to others.

                  compare

                    10. They aren't afraid to lose.

                    not afraid to lose

                      11. They don't immerse themselves in a depressing atmosphere.

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                        12. They don't expect too much from external stuff.

                        positive

                          13. They don't mind things are not in their control.

                          let go

                            14. They don't think they seem to lack anything.

                            everything

                              15. They don't think smiling or laughing is a sign of not being serious.

                              humor

                                16. They never take things for granted.

                                appreciate

                                  17. They don't mind sharing what they have with others.

                                  share

                                    18. They don't worry too much about the future.

                                    fine

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                                      Anna Chui

                                      Anna is a communication expert and a life enthusiast. She's the editor of Lifehack and loves to write about love, life, and passion.

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                                      Last Updated on January 21, 2020

                                      How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

                                      How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

                                      If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

                                      Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

                                      So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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                                      1. Listen

                                      Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

                                      2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

                                      Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

                                      “Why do you want to do that?”

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                                      “What makes you so excited about it?”

                                      “How long has that been your dream?”

                                      You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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                                      3. Encourage

                                      This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

                                      4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

                                      After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

                                      5. Dream

                                      This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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                                      6. Ask How You Can Help

                                      Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

                                      7. Follow Up

                                      Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

                                      Final Thoughts

                                      By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

                                      Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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