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18 Things Happy People Never Do

18 Things Happy People Never Do

People always seem to be looking for happiness by reading quotes and articles about it. If you’re one of them, you must have seen this quote or something similar to this:

“Happiness is a journey, not a destination.”

But how many of you have really got its meaning and started living out happiness?

Here’re 18 things happy people never do, but don’t just read and blindly follow everything mentioned here. You should learn about them and move on with your life and lead your own pursuit of happiness.

1. They never mind what other people think of them.

think about you

    2. They don’t need others’ compliments to proof their achievements.

    dont care

      3. They don’t rely on other people or materialistic stuff for happiness.

      happy

        4. They don’t hold on to their past.

        past behind

          5. They never magnify the bad things in people.

          person

            6. They don’t think crying is bad.

            cry

              7. They never lie about their feelings to anyone including themselves.

              be me

                8. They never need to be the center of attention.

                scream

                  9. They don’t compare themselves to others.

                  compare

                    10. They aren’t afraid to lose.

                    not afraid to lose

                      11. They don’t immerse themselves in a depressing atmosphere.

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                        12. They don’t expect too much from external stuff.

                        positive

                          13. They don’t mind things are not in their control.

                          let go

                            14. They don’t think they seem to lack anything.

                            everything

                              15. They don’t think smiling or laughing is a sign of not being serious.

                              humor

                                16. They never take things for granted.

                                appreciate

                                  17. They don’t mind sharing what they have with others.

                                  share

                                    18. They don’t worry too much about the future.

                                    fine

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                                      Last Updated on September 17, 2019

                                      10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

                                      10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

                                      Positive thinking can lead to a lot of positive change in your life. Developing an optimistic outlook can be good for both your physical and mental health.

                                      But sometimes, certain situations arise in life that makes it hard to keep a positive outlook. Take steps to make positive thinking become more like your second nature and you’ll reap the biggest benefits.

                                      Here are 10 ways to make thinking positive thoughts easy:

                                      1. Spend Time with Positive People

                                      If you surround yourself with constant complainers, their negativity is likely to rub off on you.

                                      Spend time with positive friends and family members to increase the likelihood that their positive thinking habits will become yours too. It’s hard to be negative when everyone around you is so positive.

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                                      2. Take Responsibility for Your Behavior

                                      When you encounter problems and difficulties in life, don’t play the role of the victim. Acknowledge your role in the situation and take responsibility for your behavior.

                                      Accepting responsibility can help you learn from mistakes and prevent you from blaming others unfairly.

                                      3. Contribute to the Community

                                      One of the best ways to feel good about what you have, is to focus on what you have to give.

                                      Volunteer in some manner and give back to the community. Helping others can give you a new outlook on the world and can assist you with positive thinking.

                                      4. Read Positive and Inspirational Materials

                                      Spend time each day reading something that encourages positive thinking. Read the Bible, spiritual material, or inspirational quotes to help you focus on what’s important to you in life. It can be a great way to start and end your day.

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                                      5. Recognize and Replace Negative Thoughts

                                      You won’t be successful at positive thinking if you’re still plagued by frequent negative thoughts. Learn to recognize and replace thoughts that are overly negative. Often, thoughts that include words like “always” and “never” signal that they aren’t true.

                                      If you find yourself thinking something such as, “I always mess everything up,” replace it with something more realistic such as, “Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them.”

                                      There’s no need to make your thoughts unrealistically positive, but instead, make them more realistic.

                                      6. Establish and Work Toward Goals

                                      It’s easier to be positive about problems and setbacks when you have goals that you’re working toward. Goals will give you motivation to overcome those obstacles when you encounter problems along the way. Without clear goals, it’s harder to make decisions and gauge your progress.

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                                      Learn to set SMART goals to help you achieve more.

                                      7. Consider the Consequences of Negativity

                                      Spend some time thinking about the consequences of negative thinking. Often, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

                                      For example, a person who thinks, “I probably won’t get this job interview,” may put less effort into the interview. As a result, he may decrease his chances of getting the job.

                                      Create a list of all the ways negative thinking impacts your life. It likely influences your behavior, your relationships, and your feelings. Then, create a list of the ways in which positive thinking could be beneficial.

                                      8. Offer Compliments to Others

                                      Look for reasons to compliment others. Be genuine in your praise and compliments, but offer it frequently. This will help you look for the good in other people.

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                                      9. Create a Daily Gratitude List

                                      If you start keeping a daily gratitude list, you’ll start noticing exactly how much you have to be thankful for. This can help you focus on the positive in your life instead of thinking about all the bad things that have happened in the day.

                                      Getting in the habit of showing an attitude of gratitude makes positive thinking more of a habit. Here’re 40 Simple Ways To Practice Gratitude.

                                      10. Practice Self-Care

                                      Take good care of yourself and you’ll be more equipped to think positively.

                                      Get plenty of rest and exercise and practice managing your stress well. Taking care of your physical and mental health will provide you with more energy to focus on positive thinking.

                                      Learn about these 30 Self-Care Habits for a Strong and Healthy Mind, Body and Spirit.

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