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10 Simple Ways of How To Be Happier That Seem Stupid To Most People

10 Simple Ways of How To Be Happier That Seem Stupid To Most People

It may seem like being happy is an easy thing to do, however, not everyone realizes that. They always say that happiness can cure illnesses, and can change one’s outlook drastically. Learning how to be happier can improve your life.

Below are 10 simple ways of how to be happier that seem stupid to most people.

1. Be true to yourself.

“To thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man.” – William Shakespeare

You need to know what makes you happy. You also need to know what doesn’t make you happy, and always keep this in mind. You don’t always have to do things for other people that you do not want to do.

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2. Smile even if everything is not great.

“Peace begins with a smile.” – Mother Teresa

Smiling has been proven to make people happier, even though you may not be happy in the present moment. Thinking positively can quickly change someone’s mood for the better.

3. Count all of the kind things that you do.

“The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

If you are feeling very negative about yourself, think about all of the nice things that you have done, and everything that you have accomplished.

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4. Be kind to others.

“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a harder battle.” – Plato

You might think, “how can being nice to others make me happy?” You would be surprised. Try to do at least one good deed each day and you will see how being nice to others can make you feel great.

5. Make a list of what makes you happy.

“A lot of the conflict you have in your life exists simply because you’re not living in alignment; you’re not be being true to yourself.” – Steve Maraboli

Sit down one day and create a list of everything that makes you happy. Thinking positively can really change and lift your mood.

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6. Get some sun.

“When pain brings you down, don’t be silly, don’t close your eyes and cry, you just might be in the best position to see the sun shine.” – Alanis Morissette

Slather on some sunscreen and sit outside for just 10 minutes a day. It will significantly increase your attitude and make you happier.

7. Be optimistic about things.

“Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.” – Dr. Seuss

Instead of constantly thinking about negatives things in your life, think more positively and be optimistic about what may happen.

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8. Pursue your passion.

“Love the life you live. Live the life you love.” – Bob Marley

Do you hate your job? Start coming up with a plan to realistically leave that job you hate to pursue your passion. Being able to make an income that you are able to live off is important, but it does not mean that there are no jobs out there that you may consider fun.

9. Forgive others.

“People can be more forgiving than you can imagine. But you have to forgive yourself. Let go of what’s bitter and move on.” – Bill Cosby

Even though forgiving someone for something that was done may seem hard, it most likely needs to be done. It will help both of you move on.

10. Do what you love.

“Don’t aim for success if you want it; just do what you love and believe in, and it will come naturally.” – David Frost

Many people have excuses for why they can’t do what they love. Stop making excuses and start working towards achieving your goals. Even little steps can eventually add up.

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Founder of Making Sense of Cents, a blog about personal finance and traveling.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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